am a woman

I think you should talk with your husband regarding this matter very openly otherwise day by day this feeling makes you mentally weak.

No, you are not bad. You must talk each other for that matter. Its both your responsibility to satisfy each other. That is what they have said when me and my husband attended the seminar before getting married.

Well cherry, Too summarize what I understood from your discussion is this, You are not feeling exactly adaquet to your duties and role as a woman. A wife to your husband. I gather that means that you are not very experienced in the intimacy end of that part of the union with your husband. If this is right then my advise to you is this. If you are embarrased to speak with him regarding your concerns then there are several things that you can do to educate yourself. You can look things up on websites. Just type in your question and some sites with potential answers will pop up. You should try to use the mylot search because I am pretty sure you get something added to your earnings for the day. You can read magazines. Pretty much any of them have some kind of article, just look at the rack on the check out lane. You can talk a councelor. And the are many books that you can check out at the library.

We are all humans, we all have needs and wants. I think its only natural to be like that since you're married. Why not discuss it with your husband, or if you are shy to talk about it, just make the move and let him know what you really wanted. I think both of you need a time out and work on your relationship. Be open with each other... after all you're husband and wife.

Well like the man won to be a men and the woman won to be a woman. Maybe you have some problems that you should discuss. Go on holiday somewhere you two and make your relation stronger. Maybe this is the way!

That's an interesting request. You have a husband, yet you do not feel that you are a woman when you are in bed with him? Hmm., perhaps, you need to speak to him about your concerns-that you are not being satisfied sexually by him, because the session lack the intimacy that you deserve. Perhaps, because of your 'exposure', you may feel that if you express some more of them to him, it may become an intimidating situation; whereby it may open a panodora box (with things which may be difficult to expalin) Anyway, if you love him, tell him your concerns. He'll listen to you.