hi friend I am in trouble, can you help me for right suggestion?

Problem is quite complicated. You have to try hard, to advise your son. And you must find proof, that the girl, the girl is not good, and will destroy your son lives. hopefully, you given easy, to find evidence that could convince your son.

It`s not much you can do about it, but maybe if you have the money, you can tell your son ( and the girl) that they will not have a cent from you if they get on with this.If she is after his money, you can use that in your favor.

This is rather a difficult situation. i think one parent would handle it differently from the other.. but i think it is rather hard to ignore especially if we see the intention of the person such as this woman. Maybe you can step back a little and try to see what your son sees in this woman? Why not let him confide in you and work it out from there. I see that the more you oppose this woman, the more power she holds against your son and he has got to see that she is just probably using him for her own reasons. just be understanding and stall it with your son... some people who has got motives may not be able to wait any longer to have their plans carry out.. so it will eventually show... your son will see this woman's true nature and be sure to be there for him when he does.

Well, if you just do anything to oppose them, you son will leave you and still marry that girl. Better you say agree but tell your son take more time to be in relationship with that girl. With the time, if it is true love then they can do married, if not, they won't. Anyone have own right to choose who will marry and take responsibility for that. You can't live for your son but you can guide him and give him your life experiences. If that girl is really bad and not suitable with your son, he should know it and won't do marry. My parents used to strongly oppose my brother to get married with that woman, but finally they still did married and ignore all my parent talks. My mom said that, if both parents didn't oppose them, they might not do marry. I think it is a lesson for you in this situation also. I wish your son and you all the best.

well, life is complex.Everyone doesnot get what he wish for.All you can do now is influance your son not to marry her by some of his friends.As friends are valuable part of our life.I know it`s hard but you gotta try......One more thing you could do for your son, reavel the complete truth about that girl,you know it could be pics or vid,you could hire some detective agencies if things gone real bad.It would be costly but its about your sons life anyway....

One of my mom's friend have the same problem ! Best thing is to pray to Jesus for help ! Only you need to believe in him ! He will definitely help you ! Ask Jesus to help your son to see (understand) the real truth in her ! Try to prove ur son that she is a bad girl with proofs.God will help you if you believe.He always searching for lost sheeps in his herd...I will pray for ur son too !

Hi Dilrajj, How old is your son? If he is over 18 then unfortunatly there is nothing you can do regardless of how you may feel about this girl. I understand your frustration. I have 4 daughters and have watched them all get involved with people who are just so wrong for them. These things are much easier to see when standing on the outside. The thing is...the more you try to break them apart..the more they fight to be with that person. The best thing to do as hard as it may be, is to back off and let them figure it out on their own. Taking her to court would get you nowhere unless he is a minor and would only serve to further damage the relationship you have with your son. Is she really that bad? If he marries her then you are going to have to find a way to accept her or risk losing your son. I really think that you should just treat her with kindness out of respect for your son and be there for him in the event thata it all doesn't work out. And who knows, maybe she really does love him. Are you sure that she doesn't? Why do you think she doesn't?

Keep out of your son's life and keep your mouth shut. Each time you start discussing her you will only push him away from you. It's clear that she is still in his mind. It's up to him to find out how she is. It's possible it's true what you say. But what does count is how she treats your son! Also.. there is nothing wrong with a girl meeting other people including men. Girls have the same rights as boys! And how should she know if she likes or loves your son for real if she never has the chance to meet other people and to compare. This is 2012. You are not in trouble at all, unless you lie to your son and you just sent him away because you don't like that girl. But it's not you who has to love her or get married to her. If you truly love your son and respect him, raised him well he will make the right decision. And what is right is right for him. It's his life, not yours. If you want your son to abandon you, to hate you for the rest of your life I suggest you go on with this behaviour. If not, let him live his own life, make his own mistakes and find his own happiness and love.