Have you ever thought what your purpose really was in life?
@lafredricktaylor (256)
United States
June 11, 2012 2:05pm CST
The reason i ask this question is that during my tenure of life, i have repeated certain cycles that have come to my attention. I have found myself lately meeting women who are in marriages that they are separated from but havent gotten a divorce yet. Im not a lawyer or anything like that and i aint the greatest match maker either. But its just something about me that brings women in my path that are stuck in marriages that they cant get out of. So during my time of "dating" them, i tend to help them move forward with that process. And none of my relationships last more than two years either. So i begin to think after the 3rd woman i was with that this was what i was here for. I was there to love them and give them back their confidence back that they lost when they were with their ex husbands who emotionally abused them. I let them know they are still beautiful, still able to make it on their own, and just assure them that life will be ok. I dont go into the relationship just to help them thru that, but like i said after the 3rd one, i started seeing that trend. And now, when i meet a woman thats married, i never put my feeling into it, no matter if she hates his guts or not, because my record shows, i am only here for the moment. So but the time the 2yrs are up, they've gotten their own place, divorce papers signed, and kids in a better environment. So am i jus reading to much into? What do you think...?
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@lafredricktaylor (256)
• United States
12 Jun 12
I guess so because obviously if you feel that your doing something positive, there is always going to be someone to see the negative side to it. But thats the world we live in! Thanks for our comment.
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
12 Jun 12
Maybe you should look into some women that is not married, and you can commit your whole heart with. I might fallen for women who has no intention to spend their rest of their lives with me, and I was a fool and blind by it all the time. Am I the only stupid one? I guess that after some many times of failure, I might want to try something else, and do something differently to avoid the same fate that had befallen on me. Would you agree?
@lafredricktaylor (256)
• United States
12 Jun 12
Well i guess this post has been taken the wrong way. I am not looking for these women, i dont have a sign on my head that says i want to date divorced women. ALL I am saying is that if you look at a comparison of the past relationships and then you decide what is it about them that didnt work, and what did work, the most common similarity that i saw was the fact that they were married but separated when i met them. I mean if they are nice looking women and they say they married but separated, i should run...no! But i guess...i think i found my answer already anyway, so i guess we will continue to get the wrong idea.
@bjc66bjc (6730)
• United States
11 Jun 12
Hi lafredicktaylor, yes, I have actually given this question
some thought. I think one of my purpose in life is to help
people...I love helping out anyone and everyone,,,However I
am not to pleasant to people walking the street and walking
up to people asking for money....That makes me really angry.
My first reaction to them is "get a job",now I am not talking
about derelicts...I am talking about peoole who is able to
walk talk and look relatively able to work..But I am
so useful when it comes to helping others. I am useful in other
aspects...
@lafredricktaylor (256)
• United States
11 Jun 12
I agree. I not only help the women thru that, but i think i am just one of those friends that can tell you something that you dont want to hear but you need to. I learned to work smarter, not harder. I love helping people achieve. sometimes i wish i had a friend like me!
