What are the features of neighborhood in your country?
By yimsiupang
@yimsiupang (237)
June 11, 2012 8:37pm CST
Hi friends and mylotters,i am a Chinese,Chinese neighbors are getting along with each other in a closer way.especially in the countryside,neighbors like to go to each other's house frequently,chatting or doing something together.Sometimes,they will eat in the neighbor's,the relationship seems more casual just as relatives.Whenever someone needs help,the neighborhood will offer their help instantly.Things are slightly different in the cities.Neighbors haven't so much time talking and chatting with each other.Well,these are the fetures of neighborhood in China,and what are the features of neighborhood in your country?
9 responses
@lampar (7584)
• United States
25 Jun 12
I live in a big metropolitan city, so naturally the neighborhoood is not so close and one doesn't get to know each other as much as you found in countryside. We do get along with each other by means of minding our own business and keep away from disturbance and disruptive behavior during the night and day. Everyone is probably too busy to earn a living in a high cost of living environment, they just don't have much free time to visit each other house frequently and doing things together, it is part of the reality a city dweller like me had get used to after being lived inside it for many decades.
@yimsiupang (237)
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26 Jun 12
Hi lampar,you and me have the same living environment,i also have the feeling that the neighbors don't have much free time to visit each other house,so that's a little pity......
@lampar (7584)
• United States
8 Jul 12
No, there is nothing to pity about, each one of us is too busy living in a big city, we can't visit each other house like we have plenty of free time in hand as those living in countryside, it is a reality of living in a urban setting, we both understand each other situation well, and can live with that. That is no needs to visit each other often to become good neighbors with each other, that is my take on neighborhood relationship.
@Kashidanga1971 (1354)
• Bangladesh
12 Jun 12
One of the features of our neighboring country is they retain the natural flow of water and mislead that water to their provinces resulting is a serious drop of water level and a dire ecological imbalance in my country. But there is none to understand us in the international arena. Actually our total survival is under threat.
@yimsiupang (237)
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16 Jun 12
Well,yes,our total survival is under threat.but how do you associate with this?
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
12 Jun 12
In my Denmark I think that it is different from place to place. There are many places in the big cities where people don't have much contact. They greet eachother when they meet, and maybe they exchange a few words, but they don't spend time much time together. In many cases people don't even know their neighbours. In the villages or on the small islands it is different, and people usually know eachother. My brother lives in a village and when him and his wife moved in, the neighbours immediately visited them, they brought them flowers and food, they invited my sister-in-law to participate in the crafts group that the women have, they invited them to a party etc.
@yimsiupang (237)
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12 Jun 12
Hello Porcospino,thank you for your response,you are right,that's different from place to place,the neighborhood in the countryside is more closer than the cities,maybe people in the city are more busy~`
@yimsiupang (237)
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16 Jun 12
Yes,i think the neighbors in the countryside is more closer than the cities,so enjoy your happy time.
@jvincent_129 (4994)
• Philippines
12 Jun 12
Well, the people in my country are very hospitable. They also like to go to neighbors house and bond with each other. They invite them to have a good time and eat. They usually do sharing and talking and getting in touch with each other again seeing each other again for a long time.
@yimsiupang (237)
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12 Jun 12
Hello jvincent,nice to hear that the people in Philippiness are very hospitable,it's the same with China,that's a good thing,sometimes when you have something need to neighbors for help,soon they will lend you a hand,it permit the word"a near neighbor is better than a distant cousin".Thank you my friend,have a nice day!
@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
12 Jun 12
I live on main street and houses in my neighborhood have large yards. We tend to mind our own business most of the time while we are courteous to each other as well. I know my next door neighbors to my left and my right, and we do greet when we see each other; but we don't hang out together, though.
@yimsiupang (237)
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12 Jun 12
Wow````ya``i like large yards,you are getting along very well with your neighbors,so keep the good contract all the time,thanks sishy,hope you are happy every day!
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@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
10 Jul 12
I live in the south west part of England. It is in a country called the United Kingdom. I live in a quiet close and the old age neighbors in the other bungalows are very friendly. I go to my next door neighbor's bungalow sometimes. Next to my bungalow is an area of grass and two big trees. It is known as doggy corner which I think is quite amusing.
@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
25 Aug 15
America is HUGE! And Oklahoma City is too HUGE for the 'not HUGE' population---other cities are bigger (or even smaller) in land-area but have way-more people living there. That's good if you 'get claustrophobic in crowds,' but it puts A LOT OF SPACE between you & the people who sell the things you need.
And that mix (lots of space, not so many people-per-mile) leads to cities that use "Urban Sprawl" in their layout---that means 'all the housing in areas separate from all the industries.'
And Urban Sprawl leads to 'little visiting-time between "driving to work" and "working" and "driving home" and "resting" and "driving out for fun" and "the fun" and "driving back home"' ... when I lived 'close enough to walk to the things I needed,' I'd see people outside on my way there. But now I live in the middle of my neighborhood, and I can't associate with them unless we 'put forth an effort to associate.'
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
2 Jul 12
hi,
You are absolutely right. In our country too it is same like you. Let me explain you one incident. I was in office and a dog bite to my four year old son. He started crying and my wife was very disturbed as what and how to do. But our neighbor handles the situation very quietly. He has himself taken my son to the hospital and made everything alright. Even when i returned from the office in the late night, everything was so normal that i don't felt anything odd happened at my house. Really sometimes neighbors do act more than our relatives.