Do you forgive cheaters?

If it is a sweet cheating, i will ignore and forgive. But it is a serious cheating, i never do forgive for it.

No, I don't. I hate cheaters so much. The people who got cheated on don't deserve to get cheated on. ): I see a lot of break-ups in my area, mainly because of cheaters. :l Sometimes, I just want to do something about it, but can't because it ain't my business. But just watch, the cheater will so become the cheated on. :l

I believe if you forgive a cheater will will continually be forgiving. I beleieve most cheaters keep on cheating. Think of the vd's out there. Forgive them but cut them loose.

In time anything can be potentially forgiven. Although with any kind of betrayal, you are always going to be forever looking over your shoulder. Just waiting for the other shoe to drop. Just waiting for the crime to happen again. You will never truly look at the person who has betrayed you the same way ever again. It is rather sad. As much as we think we should give others another chance, to practice forgiveness and all that stuff, it is easier said than done. There are just times where the betrayal is too great and we have a huge problem. There are many times where time does heal many wounds. But sadly it does not have all wounds.

Forgiveness is definitely not an easy thing to do. However, it's needed to let go of things and move on. To answer the question, it's not easy for me to forgive, but I try to do it eventually. You can also forgive people and not allow them to be a part of your life also. Forgiving someone doesn't mean you are giving them a pass back into your life.

Maybe I can forgive the one who cheat in me, if he/she ask for it that truly comes from the heart.

People who cheat go back on the trust you put on them. To be trustworthy one should necessarily be maintaining his integrity and truthfulness. But once someone is bent upon cheating out on purpose it is unpardonable. Such lot of people deserve rigorous punishment.

For me, it really depends on the type of cheating and the severity of the cheating. I think I would easily be able to pardon and forgive mild sort of cheating, but if it was moderate to severe sort of cheating, then it will definitely take a lot of effort to pardon and forgive then. God has taught us to forgive everyone regardless of how "unforgivable" their actions might be, just as how God has forgiven us for our sins. But of course, I am a human and I fall short of that commandment sometimes, but I nevertheless I try to forgive everyone. Sorry if my response has sounded too theological!

Life has taught me that the old addage is true, "once a cheater, always a cheater." Oh, there are exceptions to every rule but, for the most part, whatever it is in a person that allows them to cheat in the first place is always there. I was cheated on by my first husband. I never did know exactly how many women he cheated on me with but it was a lot. He simply could not, nor apparently did he not WANT to, turn any woman down. He was very good looking (Johnny Depp-ish) and women did throw themselves at him. He never said no. He even flirted with them while he was with me! It shows that they have absolutely no respect or love for the person they are committed to (or supposed to be committed to). They have no personal morals. They care about no one but themselves. Oh, someone who cheats on a test or on their income taxes isn't in the same category but it does say a lot about their character; they cannot be trusted. So, no, I do not and will never forgive a cheater.

Being able to forgive someone is a huge part of the healing process in any relationship. We are all human and we all make mistakes in our lives. cheating is a huge mistake that may be intentional or accidental. even a cheater needs forgiveness. If we can not forgive a cheater, then what does that say for the humanity in us?

according to me, the answer depends on the type of relation. You can always forgive your close ones. If one cant forgive his closed ones there is no point in calling them friends or family. Caring for them, being there for them and forgiving them makes a relation stronger and better. I would always forgive my friend or family when they do something wrong.

Maybe it depends on the gravity of cheating he/she has done. If just a minor one, it might still deserve forgiveness, as long as he/she will promise not to do it again. But if cheating is major one or brought a huge amount of damage, it will really be hard to forgive. Good day!

My opinion about that is forgive those cheaters on first time but if they repeat cheating again i will not forgive themtheres a saying "one is enough two is too much"

If my girlfriend cheated on me, I wouldn't forgive her. I think that cheating is something that should never happen in the first place - if you cheat, you show that you were never truly loyal to the person you say you "love". Cheating on someone is a double-edged sword. You get a new person to love, but lose your old lover and also lose alot of reputation.

I would forgive them but I would not forget and I would probably end things with them . I will forgive because I am doing that for me and not that mean person . Cheaters will never prosper in any way .

Well, I can forgive and forget a cheater and let that cheater being a cheater all the time and go to hell in the end

So i dont really understand how friendship can have cheaters but ok. Well now onto relationships, i dont really ever forget cheaters and i will always remember it and how it went down and me confronting someone about it. One day while at a theme park my boyfriend asked me to hold his phone and it was buzzing like people were texting him and what not so i looked at it and it was a girl texting him so i was reading through it and they were talking nasty to eachother and iconfronted him and he said they never did anything and i was so mad and i said it doesnt matter if you ever did anything its the point that your talking like that to some other girl and that is not right you dont do that in a realtionship. Well now i have caught him about 4 times do this and its so hard to get through it and not understand why he does it. He says he does it when he is mad at me and what not, but i dont think thats the truth at all and i just sit back and i guess you can say take it as it is everyday.

I have a hard time doing that. I was married for 17 years and my ex now cheated once years ago. To this day I have not forgotten it. Although at the time we worked it out, stupid me, and things did seem to be getting better until she did it again. So I will never forgive anyone who cheats. I gave the benefit of the doubt and got screwed again. It's just not worth dealing with cheaters. Cut them off.

in the long run it makes no sensu.Kiedys wybacvzyc someone I tried to a close, who is still cheating, krecil.Nie I gave advice, still involuntarily come back to these scams, has focused on wszystko.A this man has never changed, still cheated, still waded in it all, you can not change the impostor, so quickly does not stop, it takes ciagle.Wiec if only they can avoid such people, because you only przyspoza trouble.

I am a little bit in between, depending who is the person who cheated me. Also i am kinda like a person who doesn't really think so much about what happened unless someone brought it up so you can say i am easily to forget stuff. But if the cheat is on a bigger scale. it is kinda hard to forget but still i do forgive.after all it will make my heart a lot more peaceful that way. learn to forgive, it is peaceful to your heart.