Is someone poison in your life??

Yes we see the good side of people at first because that is what they choose to show us... When their true colors start showing that is when we realize who they really are. Yes I have learned from this experience but I refuse to let someone bring me down constantly. There is no room for that mess in my life.

Thank you. I liked the sentence too. I am intellectual, thank you. =)

Uh huh...''there is no room for that mess in my life'' I like the sentence. You are so intellectural.Come on!

The evil ex is also a liar. She is only nice when she wants something. She is not a good person. I was talking to my therapist about the whole thing and he mentioned a name for her kind of person. She is all about money and nothing else. Well, she will never get a thing from me ever again. I am not playing games, I never did. The one thing she cannot handle is the fact that I am blunt and to the point. That she cannot say anything to. So I just go about my business.

Yes I am so grateful that I had the choice. I feel very bad for the people that do not have that choice... =( Like you with the evil ex. Yeah, that is how I felt about this girl too. I feel like I am walking on egg shells around her because she always wants to fight. She gets mad over the smallest things and wants to start drama. I cannot stand drama in my life and she was WAY too much of it for me. She was a user and lied to me also on several occasions. She made me so angry when I was around her and that is just not me. So, I knew she was no good for me. She was poisoning my life and my well being.

Good! I'm glad that it isn't your sister And that you woke up to see this person for what she truly is. You are a nice woman and you deserve True friends , not users! Brava for now being able to see the difference. I'm proud of you!

See, this negative person was not just negative in attitude like life sucks type of thing, no. That I could have dealt with but she was manipulative, lied to me several times, used me for babysitting, got mad when I went to my sisters engagement party instead of being with her, didn't ever call or text unless she needed something, etc... It was all poison. Everything about her was poison! No, it isn't my sister silly. It was my girlfriend who I cared about a lot until one day I woke up and got smacked with reality, she is no good for me.

Yeah I think most people have at one time or another. For me it was hard. I felt really bad just getting her out of my life but if I didn't do it, no one would do it for me. I am just usually such a nice person but she tried to get the best of me. I do not like people that use others. That is so unacceptable and rude...

I am sure that only people that you love have the power over you to make you really unhappy. That´s why all this hurts so much and it is so necessary. You´ll be better off without your bad friendf.

I'm sorry you cannot delete her just yet. I am so proud of myself for realizing she was poison for me and deleting her because that was something I would never be able to do. I am always the one to let others walk all over me so when I did it I surprised myself. Well, this person that I deleted did not have anything going on in her life so I just could not feel guilty about it. I had to do what was best for me. She brought me down so much. I hope one day you find the strength to delete your poison... =)

it ok i guess. there are days that i have came close to deleting her but something always comes up and those plans change. i guess i am the same way i do have the habit of letting people walk all over me also. i will do whatever makes everyone else happy and i guess sometimes i am to nice. i can be mean at times but it takes a lot or a lot of smaller things built up to really make me mad. thank you and i am hoping i can find it in me to change a lot of things and if that means deleting her so that my life can go back to normal and i can feel and act diffrently then i guess it might come down to that.

Yes everyone does experience it at one time or another and that is why it made for a good discussion because most people can relate... Wow, 56 years old and still jealous of her sister. That is unbelievable, I thought that stopped at a certain age, lol. I guess not. I have never understood people that put others down to make themselves look better. I always think the people that put others down are not helping their case, they make themselves look REALLY bad. Yes I hate drama. This girl has used me since I have known her. She lies to me & expects me to drop everything for her. It is just too difficult to be friends with her, you know? It is always something with her, always. It can never be peaceful and nice. It is always extreme drama because that is the way she likes things, dramatic. I am 4 years older than her and usually that would not make much difference but in this case it REALLY does. She is SO much more immature than I am. I have always been told I am very mature for my age so to hang out with someone younger than me it is tough... That is why I just had to delete her, too much work and problems...

Yes, great topic for discussion and certainly most people can relate. As for my sister, well, I think she'll always be jealous. She should have been an only child. She's always so worried that someone is getting more than her, even at this stage of her life. It's really sad. Best to just move on leave people like that to their own selfish, dramatic, jealous ways. Sometimes it is the only way to deal with it.

Yup, you have to get them out now a days or they will keep doing it! That is the truth, misery does love company.

Lol. That is good! =)

I have already been down the talking road but it didn't work. She is just not worth the effort to do so again. I am past that point with her...

Yeah they always seem so sweet and so friendly when you first meet them, don't they? This girl was the same way. So openminded, friendly, down to earth, just normal... Then I got to know the real her and it was so shocking to me! She was a liar, user, dramatic, and not a good mother either. She was the total opposite of who I thought she was. Oh, I hate that kind of person that seems like your friend but is talking behind your back and telling your business. Ugh. I have had a few of those in my life too. I cannot take that mess. People like that are not worth our time...

Yeah I think we all know someone like this unfortunately. My poison just recently FINALLY got out of my life for good! She would not give up, she kept calling even though I told her I want nothing more to do with her. I used to babysit for her so she thought I would still do that for her...NOT! She lied to me constantly, wanted discounts on my services, she talked to me like I was stupid, told me she wanted to sleep with MY husband even though she is married herself! Ugh, just absolute poison!! I wish you could get rid of your poison. This girl brought me down so bad BUT I got rid of her so I am so glad for that! I wish everyone could get these kind of people out of their lives too...

Yes, you have explained it so well. At first it was good and then all of a sudden it changes! I felt trapped, angry, uncomfortable and overall just not good at all. She had to be out of my life, that is all I felt. She lied all the time over stupid things which I absolutely cannot stand liars like that, she is a terrible mother and I am a really good mother, She has a child that acts like an animal so I was always stressed out over her house, she used me and took advantage of my kindness, and she was SUPER dramatic, she loved drama which I cannot stand! Everything she is, I cannot stand to be around...

What I meant by poisoning my energy is she drained me of my kindness. She always wanted to start drama and fights. That is not the kind of person I am. She lied to me, used me, took advantage of my kindness and she is not a good friend at all.

I think having poison in our life is not healthy for us. It is only harming us in the long run. The poison I had was using me for a babysitter all the time. She would ignore me for days and all of a sudden talk to me again if she needed a sitter. Her personality was a User. No one should have to put up with that, sorry. No one should be treated that way, I would rather never see her again than to put up with that every day...

I'm sorry. =( No you cannot delete him. I cannot delete my other poison because of being family but I just avoid them as much as possible. I'm sorry you had such a lousy dad. =(

No not negative in that way. She used me for babysitting, she said mean things to me very sarcastic things, she put me down and hurt me a lot, she got mad at me for going to my sister's engagement party instead of being with her and she was a negative person in general. I did try my best to let her use me for babysitting, I didn't make her pay me the right amount because I thought she was my friend. I tried and tried to control my anger around her but it got worse and I just could not handle it anymore. I am not a door mat for people to walk all over whenever they choose to. I don't think so. That will not be me any longer...

Being with good people is needed in this world. We need to weed out the bad ones. No one needs to be brought down, life does that enough.

Yeah that is how this one was. Absolutely emotionally draining. I could not handle it anymore. At least office mates leave now and then so you get lucky with that. Lol. There will always be someone who comes in and tries to knock us down with negative things. Yes I do have more positive people in my life and I am trying to keep it that way. =)

Yes they can teach us lessons and make us stronger people. I don't want to have to deal with these kind of people though. I have enough going on in my life, I do not need more...