How to deal with a jealous partner

He's loves you and is afraid to lose you. You mean the world to him and he would do anything to keep your relationship alive. Your guy's just trying to protect you from harm. I was like this, too...

Jealousy is perfectly normal to a relationship. But too much of it can ruin that relationship. My wife and I, have plenty of that. But I think, now, we are both in control of this situations. During our early years together, I admit, we fight almost everyday regarding petty and big things, I think one of this is about jealousy. But as time goes by, we already sorted things out. For me, I always show her everyday how much I love her, a simple "love you" goes a long way. We can change the way our partners feel by trying to show them in action(directly or indirect ways) that really care for them, this way, we may be able to convince them that they are our one and only loved. Direct way can be giving flowers an example. Remembering anniversaries may be indirect way. I know, this is a challenge for you both and it takes two to tango. Hope everything will be alright. Good luck.

All I can think to suggest is sit him down, look him straight in the eye and tell him Why you love him! I mean everything your ex is not and can never be.tell him being jealous makes you feel that he doesn't trust you , Not the men. And tell him you Want him. If you didn't you wouldn't have married him!Good Luck.

I used to have a bf like that. I would tell him that if the other guys see how jealous he is that may spark a interest coz the guy will wonder why he is so jealous and make them want me too. So who cheated in that relationship? He did. So maybe they are thinking what they would do if they had the opportunity. It is insecurity that makes people be jealous and causes them to cheat too. Very unfortunate you had to marry someone like that. You can do all you can to try to boost his ego to help him believe he is good enough but its really up to him to work on that within hisself. Good luck.

Jealousy is a disease and needs to be treated that way. In homoeopathy there are remedies for such situations. A meeting with a counselor would also be a good idea. I see that you truly love him. You should try and save your marriage.

My bf is very jealous when i go out to have a coffee meeting with friends. he knows well that i never keep contact with ex- but he is still jealous about it. He told me that i am so attractive to men so that he feels very insecure when i meet any man...Grrr...this time, i still go to meet my friends because he is not around me whole day... but i don't tell him about my meeting more. Then nothing happens, no jealousy, no blame from him anymore.... It is simply a friend meeting, so that it is not bad when i don't tell him about it.

Personally I do not have a Jealous husband, and am quite glad of that. Since I work as a Dispatcher for a Cab company, I am around more men than women, and always talking to a lot of them. When I first met my husband I sold at our local Swap Meet aka Flea Market that has long closed down. I have always had more Men friends in my life, and if my husband would have been jealous back then he and I would have never married. But for you it could be a Trust issue. Maybe he feels insecure about himself and afraid he is not Good enough for you, and you will meet someone else and want to leave. You need to find ways to help him get over this, and show him you Love him and he is the one you come home too each day. When they realize there is this much Love maybe then he can slack down some when you are talking to another man.

Your husband insecure and it is awful he says you should go back to your ex-boyfriend because he was perfect in every argument. It is awful that he believes other men are better looking than him. He needs to be told that he is interesting and attractive. You must tell him to totally trust you speaking to another man because he is the only one for you. You should tell him or ex-boyfriend is in your past and not ever your future. When I dated my ex-boyfriend he was jealous and unreasonable about my male friend. I met up with my male friend and went for a walk. He said he booked a holiday with his female friend after the first walk. I told him he had no reason to be jealous because that man was just my friend. My ex-boyfriend used to quiz me with giving him a score out of ten how good looking he was. When I had a meeting at the manor house for my teaching job he got suspicious. Good luck with making your husband feel more secure and less jealous.

Tell your husband, ":So what if another man is interested. It only means that you have good taste in women."

Jealousy is a matter of protecting our love sometimes but if the jealousy is not justified that is not good enough. To deal with that person you need to be careful on something you do. Better to show to that person that you love him/her and don't show something that make her/him jealous

Validation, validation, and more validation! Make sure to boost his ego on a continual basis letting him know how handsome he is and how wonderful he is. Jealousy has everything to do with insecurity...I should know, I have SEVERE jealousy issues. My fiance always tells me how beautiful I am and how lucky he is to have me...That definitely helps it a lot.

Your husband is very insecure. He has to stop his insecurities because it is not healthy for your relationship. It is normal to get jealous sometimes, but not too much! You gotta talk to your husband heartily. Tell him that he has to stop that. Tell him how much you love him and he has to believe that.

Oh Boy! It sounds like you are living my life! Or my previous relationship anyway. My ex-husband was so incredibly jealous I couldn't stand it. I couldn't make a move without him accusing me of seeing someone else or flirting etc. Even if I went out with my girlfriends I would look up and there he was, following me. It is definitely NOT a healthy relationship! Even though he says he loves you, I have news for you both. Jealousy is never a part of love. Jealousy has exactly the opposite effect than the jealous person wants. It actually drives people away. I got to the point where I just couldn't stand it. I was married to this very insecure, jealous and yes abusive man for 24 years until I got up the courage to leave. And yes, I left him for another man. I am now married to the most wonderful man in the world who does not have a jealous bone in his body. It is such a different kind of relationship where jealously just does not exist and it makes all the difference in the world.

I have the same problem, but it is somewhat of a two way street for me. We both get jealous. My wife gets ridiculous about it. If she sees a woman that she deems attractive, even if I don't even see her, she says I'm checking her out. Then she tells me that she don't care just not to lie about it, when I'm not lying. I have some trust issues with her because she cheated on me in the past, and so the both of us deal with some jealousy issues.

My exhusband was extremely insecure, and it was so trying to deal with him! I was recovering from a stroke and my PTs suggested I join a gym, so I did. It was summer so I'd go wearing a shirt and shorts, and tie my hair up because it would get hot and sweaty. He accused me of going to the gym to meet men! Yet he went to Lollapalooza (a music festival) with a pretty SINGLE female coworker instead of me! I was pissed that he agreed to go first but didn't let me know immediately, but didn't accuse him of cheating. I put up with his nonsense for 10 years, pushed for a divorce the following year and was 'free' a year later. Because we have a child together, I'm forced to interact with him, but I try to limit my exposure to his nonsense to as little as possible. As for your situation, I'm not sure if you could convince him that he's the only man in your life because HE'S the one that needs to change.

As a therapist, I have counselled many couples who had big issues with jealousy. It comes from insecurity, as you have said with your husband. A fear of loss of your love for him. It is usually deeply ingrained within the personality of the person who suffers this, and takes time to handle. I would advise you to find a therapist or counsellor that could support you in coming through this, as it can be very destructive in a relationship. Your husband would probably need to realize first, before attending counselling that he is not happy the way he is, and neither are you. Constant reassurance usually doesn't work, but talking about it with another person of trust, can resolve the issues and allow your husband's confidence of your love for him to grow. I hope that you find an answer to this problem. It is quite a common thing and because it is so ingrained in the subconscious, you both would need to realize that it is nothing to fear of be ashamed of as it tends to take on a life of its own and cannot really be forced or pushed away.. I wish you good luck.. Anything can work if you are both willing and committed to making it work. _Derek

I think the very important thing here is open communication, you sit down and talk to him not just as a lover but as a friend... You go through the jealousy moments that you have and try to explain yourside. But on the other hand, our partners get jealous because we fail to give them assurance of our love for them, and when i say assurance it is not just by proposals or serious dates, but by little things, like leaving a sweet note, making a quick phone call just to check on him, or maybe just by saying ILOVEYOU more often. Assurance is not a requirement, but a key.

Is he a cancerian those traits sound like a cancer I dated. We had a lot of heart to heart talks to ease the insecurity. Then again I had moments when I would get jealous to if a female got to close to him. This guy had a magnetic personality, so I could see why people were drawn to him. Your husband should try to relax and trust in you!

First, let me say that you and your husband have to be very open when it comes to communicating. If you have that, then, ask him why his self-esteem is so low. Second, are you still communicating with your ex-boyfriend and how long were you together relative to the time you've been married to your husband? Third, has either of you cheated on the other in the past? Lastly, I will say that you cannot fully take away his jealousy. It's part of his journey of discovering who he is as a man and seeking the confidence to feel empowered and attractive within himself. However, the jealousy is a double edged sword. On one hand, it could be showing that he values you and your relationship, but it also could be a means of control. Sit down and have a heart to heart!!

its happen do one thing,always try to make him feel that he is the best hubby in the world.or if you are true then give him your all online accounts id or password to feel him that i am totally a opened book in front of you,i dont care which of my life you want to see you can see,i know its unacceptable but you have to do if you want your hubby back thanks.