I am fallling Love
By jambi462
@jambi462 (4576)
United States
June 13, 2012 6:15am CST
So I've been going to this yoga ranch that is very near my town and I've been helping my friend out with gardening a lot. He's friends with this girl there that I am heavily attracted to and I am falling for quickly. I really think that she likes me too, it's getting to the point where we are kind of flirting with each other or at least I am with her. Last night my friend and his girlfriend and me and the girl I am attracted to watched a movie. It was pretty cold out and we each had blankets and me and her sort of snuggled together.
It's been a long time since I've felt this way and my last relationship I was madly in love with this girl and we were together for three years and then out of no where she broke up with me. I was hurt pretty badly by that and for quite a while I've been nervous of trying another relationship because I've been afraid of getting hurt. This girl though is so wonderful, she's gorgeous, really nice, unique, and artistic. She also has many things in common with me.
Anyways I just can't stop thinking about her and I find myself counting down the days until I get to see her again. The nervousness is still there though and sometimes I worry if she's into me or not. I was just wondering if anyone had any tips for me to try and help wrangle this girl in? Also if you are a woman what would you say are some sure signs that you are into a guy?
3 responses
@toniganzon (72535)
• Philippines
13 Jun 12
You have definitely got to tell her how you feel. You see, us girls would never make a move or tell a guy we like him. Like you, we too are waiting for signs to show us that we are liked or loved.
She snuggled with you, watched a movie with you, those are definitely signs she's into you or she wouldn't have done that.
So please do tell her. You would be doing yourself a great favor and her too if you just make it all easy by telling her how you feel.
@jambi462 (4576)
• United States
16 Jun 12
Thank you very much for your response it has helped me to gain confidence in talking with her. My last relationship I got hurt pretty badly and that's why I've been kind of hesitant to get real close to anyone. This girl however has so much in common with me and I am so heavily attracted to her I pretty much melt when I look into her eyes. Every day that I go out to the yoga ranch and see her we seem to be drawing closer to each other.
The other day I helped her with her work around the ranch and while we were doing laundry with each other she was telling me about her plans for after staying at the ranch and how she was going to move in with her ex-boyfriend and her friend but her boyfriend dumped her and took her room with her friend. She went on to say it's his loss if he doesn't want me and at that time I told her that I thought she had plenty of wantable qualities. I told her that I thought she was incredibly unique, really sweet and nice, artistic, incredibly gorgeous, was into a lot of really cool stuff, and that she was really evolved and free of most materialistic things. So I definitely feel like I am making progress with her.
I find myself counting down the days until I am able to see her again. It's been a long time since I've felt this way about anyone and since I've had so much in common with a girl that I am truly attracted to. I just hope that I don't mess things up because I really think this girl is amazing.
@toniganzon (72535)
• Philippines
16 Jun 12
I hope you'll tell her soon. You don't want to waste time. Waiting too long might not be favorable to you all the time. Sometimes we, girls, run out of patience. And others might steal her if you won't move fast.
@jambi462 (4576)
• United States
20 Jun 12
So I've recently pretty much poured my heart out to her and have been for the past couple days. I am somewhat a nervous wreck right now but the hard part is over and we are getting incredibly close now. We are going camping together tonight and I am so excited. I love being around her and she makes me feel so good about myself. I appreciate your advice it was great hearing an opinion from a woman. Thank you so much (:
@RawBill1 (8531)
• Gold Coast, Australia
13 Jun 12
Well, I am certainly no expert when it comes to love and romance, but I have been in this situation before in my life and completely wasted opportunities for romance due to my nervousness. 
So my advice is to just be yourself. You do not want to try to be anyone that you are not as relationships that start out this way always fail as partners get to know each other. So just let her see the true you when you are most comfortable and I am sure it will work out for the best either way. Try not to have any pre conceived outcomes in your mind and just let it happen. 
So my advice is to just be yourself. You do not want to try to be anyone that you are not as relationships that start out this way always fail as partners get to know each other. So just let her see the true you when you are most comfortable and I am sure it will work out for the best either way. Try not to have any pre conceived outcomes in your mind and just let it happen. 
