How? Why? Guilty!

Hello LovingMyBabies Have you ever seen the movie, The Burning Bed? Starring Farrah Fawcet. I think it came out in the 1980's? Maybe the early '90's? If you see this movie it may give you some insights into how this sort of thing happens. Or, maybe, the woman who did this is just plain evil and got off on it. It's quite common.

The only two things that would make me kill like this are he raped me or he killed my love. But I wouldn't do it in a house. I would go gangster and knock him out , put in a truck of a car. Drive to a empty lot and Then set it on fire!We will Never know Why she did it. It is sad.

Mental illness......that's the only explaination I could possibly fathom..no one does things like that to another human being without some sort of mental problems...its way off normal.!

Do you remember or have you even seen The Burning Bed. It was a tv movie about a woman who had been abused. I wonder what horrible of a thing this guy would have to have done to be set on fire....?? I would sure hate to be a guy who got into a relationship with her and happened to do something wrong. Ugh!

There are many sick people in this world. And the sad truth is that we see it on the news every single day now. I remember when I was younger I have never seen as many screwed up stories on the news. Now, what I would do is to take thins women and tie her to a couch and burn her alive. That way she can feel what it felt like for him.

Oh my gosh, that's awful. I don't know how anyone could do that to someone, especially someone they say they love. I know that I couldn't even imagine doing anything to hurt my boyfriend because I love him so much I would never want to hurt him. Some people are just sick. Hopefully that woman gets some help because she clearly has some problems. I feel bad for her kids though and hopefully there's someone reliable who's able to take care of them.

Its absolutely shocking.Not just shocking but that woman must have suffered from a bout of insanity otherwise no human would ever dare to do something like this.As you said one does not know her side of the story but even then if she had to settle some scores with him there were many other human ways of doing it.Yes, her kids will suffer for her misdeeds as they will be bereft of her warmth and guidance and also they will forever carry a stigma of being children of a murderer which is very sad.

I read the article and it sounds like the woman has some mental issues. They mentioned she suffered from depression and was not getting help for it. Why she didin't was not explained but what I got out of this is her fiacee was not coping well with the situtation! I believe is why he was verbally abusive and did some other violent thngs. I think she was to much of a coward to kill herself so she killed the fiancee instead! She probaly will spent the rest of her days in prison or in a mental hospital for what she did! Her son now will be growing up without both parents!

Another story that just does not surprise me but at the same time, just makes me wonder what could possess someone a lot of the time. In what rational world does setting someone right on fire make sense. Of course, I'm sure that there is some kind of reasoning. Granted, I did not say good reasoning but there is just some kind of reasoning. There always is for something like this. It's just...wow every single day, someone just lowers the bar for what humans can do to each other. And I have a feeling that the worst is yet to come. Misery for everyone, we really can spawn some miserable twisted people. Humanity has sunk to many depths. This is just the latest and I just cringe any time I see news like this. Yet for some reason, I cannot turn away from the spiraling downward, the sick spectacle.

Must be due to jealousy. There are cases like that in here and they are so morbid i just didn't want to read about them in the news.

That is completely horrific I can't believe that!! Did it say what had happened? Like if she found out that he'd been cheating or anything like that? I can't get the link to work on my phone.

I assume there was a reason for it, also I wonder if a person like that is save to keep in the neighbourhood of children. I do wonder (or should I say I would like to know) how come a woman is doing a thing like this. Since it's very uncommon for a woman to attack a man (mostly women destroy themselves instead of other people and men are violent against others instead of destroying themselves = finding themself quilty). There are plenty of men btw who set their wife on fire, kill their (ex) wife and children. How come nobody finds that alarming anymore?

Guao ! I read all the article, that is an confusing act. Poor girl. now she has to face jail at that young age 25 . So sad. but , maybe that guy was not good to her , I am sure of that, he abuses her untill she got depress maybe. Or, she got menthal illness. Who knows , So tragic.. Sometimes depression can lead to those horrible actions. Thanks for sharing that article.

psychopath...

I think people like this have got some kind of mental problem that propels them to act in such a way. No normal-thinking human being would do such a thing, and it is beyond rational to try and justify an action like this. It's just tough luck that the woman's fiancee met a woman such as her, but at least now he's in a place where he can be harmed no further. It is definitely saddening to read news such as this in the papers/online.......

I had a very short lived marriage hiding in my background. he abused me horribly. While I pulled myself out of some dark places because of my two baby girls, I hate to think how my story would have changed if I had not had children. I remember having a dream that involved killing him. I was being a good christian and going down to the bottom of the hill and being prayed over, then told I could not get a divorce because naturally the bible does not believe in divorce. So I would walk up the hill and take more abuse. When I had this dream it really shook me as serious as it was, it had a crazy twist in my dream. I got him up the next morning as he had fell asleep in front of the TV, and was making his coffee. I told him he needed to leave. He asked me how I was going to do anything if he took the car. I said take the car, furniture everything but leave my girls stuff alone. he threw a coffee cup at me which shattered on the floor (easy clean up) HE left THANK GOD. But I have to say he made it very hard for me to trust another man for a very long time. You never know what side of you is there when you are protecting your children. So with this woman maybe there is a story we have not heard. Most of us abused women do not always like to share their stories easily. have you ever seen The Stoning of Soraya M.? it really gave a horriblist approach to how women can be abused differently throughout the world. I am sure there is a lot more story to this. Another movie that this puts me in mind of is The Burning Bed with Farrah Fawcett. He abused her so much she did the same thing as this lady only in his sleep. you never know how long it takes for someone to snap. I feel for all of them. While I chose a different path than what could have been for me, I realize that each of us have different strengths.