coincidence?

Actually, prayer is statistically a great benefit to marriage, if the couples who pray together. There's an old saying, "The couple that prays together, stays together." http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2010/08/11/couples-who-pray-together_n_679130.html http://muzlimbuzz.sg/2012/01/26/survey-couples-who-pray-together-stay-together/ http://www.marriagemoment.org/2010/11/couples-who-pray-together.html http://www.newser.com/story/97906/couples-who-pray-together.html

MatthewUser,Prayer always help's in marriage and everything.Pray to God and He will lead you to people or places that help you with what ever issues you are having.I agree her husband was disrespecting her and she should talk to him.

Guys, I have already told him ( in my rant to him) what are those that made me angry, and primarily , it's because the drinking spree has become often. In addition, I was afraid his BP might elevate, or his hyper acidity will be triggered again and lastly, i hate it that he would back ride with his office mate who like himself is drunk already. Accidents always happens to those who are tipsy when they drive even if it's a car or a motorcycle. How much more with the motorcycle they are riding? But after this scripture, i prayed . Then, i made this discussions, and my anger dissipated. Prayer is a must for every couple, that i really can say.

It is God's kind of coincidence.

My Mom likes to call those God incidences.

I agree with you guys.

Actually, when he wasn't the team leader yet of his branches, he can always reject their invitation. But now that he is the team leader, it seems that he is often drinking , sometimes twice weekly and that angered me last night. For the past weeks he had been having drinking spree, but i just let him. But i guess, he had already been drinking a lot of times these past weeks , so i lost my cool! What is good though with my husband, is when he is tipsy or even drunk, he never bothers me when he arrives. He will blow in the comfort room and everything and would come to the bedroom, once he is done and okay. And he is so jolly and patient when he is tipsy or drunk and would be loving. But last night, i blew my top! Yes, my faith in God is what really keeps us together. I always pray for our marriage. Nice to know that you too my friend , have surpassed that stage of your husband.

Yes I am happy to have broken through this first phase and am now extemely happy that I did. We are like two peas in a pod now. Both of us feel the same way. I am happy that he is a home body. We only go places together for the most part. We feel lost with out one another, that was the main part that we found when he used to drive truck.

Nice to know that friend. Indeed, when the both of you are just homebodies, it's not a problem to be entertained even if you don't have the money. Just staying home, watching TV and talking and eating together is enough for the both of you to be already happy. That's how me and my husband is also, my friend.!

that is great that you are over the argument now good for you

Actually, i am not into keeping my anger for long, winterose. Once, i have spoken out all what's bugging me, my anger dissipates. And that's specially true with my husband, because everyday should be a loving day to both of us always. God helps us , be that.

Yes, i realized that too winterose. It's God's way of stopping me from getting angry longer. My husband and i were already okay with each other before he left for work at 9am.

Maybe not talking to him for a few days.....giving him the silent treatment will give him a chance to calm down and thing about what wrong he did. Good luck!

I truly agree with you dfollin. This always happens to me too. It's really God telling us something about what we are currently experiencing. It's his way of telling me not to be angry for long, because anyway i have already vented it out. I plan not to talk with him for days, but God cut me short with that scripture.

I usually do that when were still younger. But now that we are older, i realized that the days that i won't be speaking with him, is after all my loss. I wallow in silent anger, and it should be that we should always see to it that we enjoy each day of our lives, because life is short. Right, my friend?

You are exactly right.It's God's way of helping her.He is always there.

You are both right there , my friend. He may have seen me not focus on praying so he meant me first to read that scripture for the day. Thus, i realized my anger is way too much. We are okay already before he went to work. My husband is an understanding man so he lets me just rant and he justified it also. He knows that when i am angry, i have to vent it out. So he lets me, just as i let him also when he is.

I agree.

Yes, that's true. It seems that when it happens like that, you will say WHOA! But this is not the first time too that a "coincidence" like this happens to me. I know that it is God speaking to me, to say "Hey, wait a minute, child"

Yes, my friend, it's indeed God talking to me. Maybe he wants me not to further be angry with my husband, because he knows that my husband is just doing it , for the sake of being accommodating to a staff's invitation.

Yes my friend, i realized that too when i have finished reading the scripture. I felt guilty being so angry, but i know God understood. Though the scripture implied that i shouldn't be angry for long, because i planned not to talk with my husband for days as my revenge to him. But God cut that plan of mine.

It's good that you agreed with me in my getting angry, ybong! Oh no, brother in the bible connotes everybody. So he is included. And i was angry too, for that office mate of his , who is an addict in drinking. And to think that he himself has high blood pressure! He is even the one who always invite my husband in drinking spree.

No, i was so angry so i cannot focus on praying. So, i decided instead to go to my daily scripture and that was what the topic is! The moment, i read what's it all about i was shocked. I was guilty. So i prayed for calmness and understanding. Then, i did my discussions on my anger and the anger slowly dissipated .

That's very true my friend. God gave me the scripture as the reading for that day, because he knows what i am undergoing. He doesn't want me to be consumed by my anger.

Yes, louievill, i do believe that too!