Is he real?

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I'm becoming a man hater or sort of man critic. Well, guys, sorry if you might read something that is not you here in my discussion. But this is what confuses me. A lot of guys are not practicing right courting or sheep dogging. I know, generation today is just a text love or chat love already. Meaning, there are times that girls are being courted through text messaging or chat. And so, without the guy meeting the parents of the girl, they can be boyfriend and girlfriend. And worst, if the girl gets pregnant just right after she met her long time textmate/chatmate. Question here is, how will the girl says that the guy whom she's talking or communicating through text or chat that he ia real? Guys, if you are the same form of courtshi well you better make a stand here. Second, i dont understand why a lot of guys love their work/job more than how they love their woman. They can withstand a day or a week or long time not communicating with their love ones as long as they are doing good in their own field. They have no time to see their gf/wife as long as their job/business is turning good. Girls: How will you know if the guy really loves you if he has no time to go out with you? Guys: why are you like that? Hmm Third, guys having so many affairs with so many girls , is so intimidating. Talking about how other girls he met, are good in bed and in so many things is really usual for guys?? I don't understand why it has to be like that. Like a girl must be a beyter to a better girl he met. Does it show realness of a guy or not? Well, you might think why I'm asking like these. My story is this, i have a friend, for 7 yrs, and he usually tell me he likes me. And we're just meeting each other just because i'm visiting him. He never visits me cuz he's buay with his work before, he's buay with his own business. I don't feel his care when we are not together. He is caring when we are together, treating me like his princess. He never drives me home. Never visited. For how many years, he never calls me. The last time i think he rang my phone was when my mom died. The rest though we had fight he never calls me. And so, i feel like, i wanted to forget him. I asked him when will i know if you're real. He just said if you'll stay with me. Since then, he is asking me to stay with him. He's been in so many countries, of course he has lot of girls too, until now he has contacts with those girls. We're so open that he can even tell me that he had an affair with his workers etc. But neither of them is better than me thats what he is saying thats why he likes me. I know some of his personal life but not all that i consider important for me to know. Sometimes, i wanted to forget just ignore his messages and cuz i dont understand if he is real. Until now, im not entertaining any guy, not dating either. Cuz im still considering him. But i guess im not moving forward. So i should make a choice whether to forget him or to just stay as idiot as i think i am now. Do u think he really loves me? Guys: is it really a usual game for you to play like this? If you are not like this man, what can you say about him? Is he real??