I am pleased when you are!

i can say that i am also a giver much of a taker. i love to give people excitement and pleasure. but sometimes, it's disappointing when you have given that much and people do not appreciate it, even with a simple thank you.

Well I love to please. I think making someone feel good is a major thing. I do like to be pleased but it gives me more pleasure pleasing someone else. I gives me pleasure to please another.

Hi Toni, I have always thought about this, I thought was I the only one who likes to give more than receive ? I have more pleasure giving, I always want my girl to feel special with me, something that no other can give, just me. :) And want her to be crazy in love with me, for I like to give more than receive. I have always wondered why my friends always like gorgeous girls, girls who look good, I guess they are more of "takers" as they go for the looks, I don't know but I am not after someone who looks good, I want someone who is beautiful in the inside and who is crazy in love with me and finds my looks attractive even though I am just an average looking guy. I feel special when I make her feel special and I want it be that way.

I am both, both and both~(^^) Who don't want to be pleased by others?? And its great too when we can pleased others, the joy and will become extra double. Just one thing, when they are too used to be pleased they tend to take the opportunity to use us since they know we like to please them and they can't take it when you say 'No'~~~

Hi Toni, You have a lot of discussions which all of them are interesting, so don't rid of me of being against always, you are my friend.. Back to your discussion here, and I want to relate to your while ago discussion which for me is related. Do you believe giver and taker are not applicable in all situation.. As you said for example you are a giver which your happy to please other. Are you a giver also your feeling of being love (partner, friendship and other)? what if somebody asking you to forgive in a certain aspect of love (because he done something wrong) but you rid already him to his face (does not care anymore to him) how you can handle this? As you are a giver.. thanks.. peace

Really? Lucky the people who are living near you. Yeah, many times one behaves as a selfish person. Anyway we should try to be not selfish and think at the others. And as you say, one feel happy when the other person is happy too. Hapiness brings hapiness.

I think now a days there are only less people who are giver and most people are taker. I am sort of both. I do want to have care and love in my life. I try to give as much love and care as possible to people around. I like to please others and make others happy in life.

Hi toni I have been on both the sides. During the teens and the kid stage, I loved taking. I didnt realize giving was more happier a feeling. Today, things are that I believe in giving more than taking. Age? Maturity or even helplessness due to my being confined to home!Whatever the world might put it as, I am happier. Finding moments which please you is quite essential not because of other reasons but many a times these pleasantries do help you move on and go on the right paths.

hi, i could say that i am a giver type person coz even how i really wanted to be a taker i still the giver at the end,in every relationship i had in the pass i was more on the giver position and that is what i want to change it now in my life.

i am appreciate to be a giver. and i am happy to be a giver. when there are somebody need my help and need my caring, the life is more meaningful for me. as a friend, i always be more active to chrish the friendship. i believe, the way how they treat me is the way how i treat them. so, i love them really, and do something attentively for them, so do they. after all, friendship is really worth to pay

I'm really stuck on how to answer this.. because: 1. I am a very generous and kind and warm-hearted, giving person. I get extreme pleasure from giving people presents. I actually enjoy buying, and watching people open their presents, more than I enjoy getting my own. however. 2. I can be a real princess. spoilt. bratty. and needy. so then I can be a real taker. I think there's a bit of both in all of us, we're only human after all lol! It depends on if you are willing to return the pleasure/favour that really shows your nature and character rather than wich catagory you fall into :)

I always was a giver but now I take too. Since if you always give nobody will give anything to you. They will only be more and more greedy and find it normal not to give back. You also attrac the wrong kind of people. So now I take care of myself first as much as possible and I only give if I can miss it plus if I am sure that person would do the same to me. Nobody is pleased if somebody else is and he is standing there with empty hands. This is just a stupid saying to force a person to give. Ever asked yourself how much people are willing to give to you? How much will open if you knock on their door?

BOth giver and taker. To my family and friends I am giver but to my husband I am a taker because he's so generous to me. I am more on putting extra effort to pleased everybody because I want them to be more comfortable with me.