party cancelled

Philippines
June 14, 2012 6:33am CST
I hate it when you are already in the mood and have planned to go somewhere and enjoy but in the last minute your friends cancelled. It's disappointing. I wish they would change their minds. How about you? What would you feel when your friends cancel for the last minute?
6 responses
@OYouness (87)
14 Jun 12
I would try to make them change their mind. If it doesn't work, I will be disappointed too, but rather setting down and not doing anything I will try to come up with my own plan for an activity in which I will enjoy myself. Since it is about my holyday, I have to benefit from it no matter how. Especially if we are stressed from our work.
14 Jun 12
i'm with you. To think that I have to angry with my friend just because the matter, (I think) it will be useless sorry if i have bad english, i'm still learning to improve my english
• Philippines
14 Jun 12
It's fine. You can still work a lot and with that English, I know you'll be doing great soon. What matters most is that we both understand each other. Yes. I agree with you, guys but the thing is we all planned it altogether; it's a bit unusual too celebrating alone. Partying is a lot better when you're with your friends.
• India
14 Jun 12
I will try my level best to change their minds to enjoy or else i will blackmail them that i will never attend any parties if they cancel this one. Yeah i mean it. My friends will never crossed my words they love me alot.In this case i am very lucky.
• Philippines
14 Jun 12
Lucky for you you have great friends. I think blackmailing them for not attending the party would not be great but I hope I could do that sometime. But maybe, they have reasons why they are cancelling, right?
@megamatt (14292)
• United States
14 Jun 12
See this is why it is kind of hard to really plan anything anymore, because something comes up. It is merely inevitable a lot of the time, where there are just times where we get thrown off. I do not really fault pretty much anyone for that, but I do wish that they would not throw this curveball right into a carefully planned outing, especially if it is one where it took a while to get the stars aligned properly. It really is frustrating, because there are times where you may never know when you might have another opportunity to get everything together. And then at the last minute, you get slapped by something that sends you spiraling back down to Earth. It is really a harsh feeling to deal with. Yet it is one that can be ultimately and frustratingly common.
• Philippines
14 Jun 12
I could really relate on you. Your words are all out of my vocabulary. Thanks for sharing your thoughts. Indeed, things are somewhat inevitable but I hope they would also do their bests to attend or not to cancel the party.
@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
14 Jun 12
I would be really disappointed and even devastated especially if i have been looking forward to it and have prepared myself! But since there's nothing we can do about it but mopped, i think it's time we learn how to make an alternative plan just in case things don't go as planned. What do you think?
• Philippines
14 Jun 12
Yes, I never thought of that alternative plan or we cal it plan B! We never had that because we, my friends and I don't usually do the last minute back-out. But thanks for reminding me about the alternative plan. I'll make it sure, I'll have it the next time around.
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
14 Jun 12
It may result to annoyance an irritation especially if you arr already prepared and ready to go. Maybe there would be possible reason why it happened but still get upset due to cancellation.
• Philippines
14 Jun 12
Yes, I would really be upset but things must proceed and we need to move forward. They would say never get too prepared because sometimes it will be cancelled. What do you think about that?
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
14 Jun 12
I also hate it and little bit disappointed when party is cancelled and I am ready to go. But I have some solutions, if my friends cancelled the patry then I am already dress up and ready to go I will convinced my husband and siblings to go out with me and have a party with them and its all my treat. I am sure they will love it. :)
• Philippines
14 Jun 12
Wow! Great for you that you could pull someone for another party. However, iI have no one to pull from their houses and join me. perhaps, I will end up eating alone in the mall or somewhere else.