Does it mean the sponsor ignore all responses if she comment none?
By China5Flower
@China5Flower (225)
Guangzhou, China
June 14, 2012 6:46am CST
When I give a topic, I would spend hours to wait for the responses.I am afraid that no one will care for my posts. Once there is, I wil be very happy and thanksful in heart. I think there is something wrong with my mind.I care too much about others' views. And my happiness is based on others' responses in mylot. If there is no responses, how sad I will be! It seems I don't know others at all and I don't know mylot at all.
But I want to free myself from this suffering.It's not a good feeling to wait for others to give you joy online. So I decide to post as more as possible but never wait for others's responses. I really decide to care none. If not, it will kill me.
Maybe someone will say I won't give you comments so you will never respond my posts any more. I am really sad.I will read every response sincerely you gave to me, but I don't want to comment sometimes.I am thanksful in my heart when you answer me.I eye you as the God.
So my dear friends, if I don't comment you responses, it means I remember you in heart. I am such kind of woman who does things by heart. So don't be angry!
1 person likes this
8 responses
@allknowing (137870)
• India
14 Jun 12
Every one goes through what you are going through when they start participating here. With time you too will get your topics responded to, to you satisfaction.
1 person likes this
@allknowing (137870)
• India
15 Jun 12
Twelve hours have passed and you have still not commented back. How can you expect others to do likewise if you do not do so yourself!
@macdingolinger (10386)
• United States
14 Jun 12
Not getting responses is just part of the "game"here on myLot! 
I have started discussions that I thought I would get hundreds of responses to, only to find that no one commented at all! lol. But then I start what I think is something dumb and get a top discussion out of it! l
go figure! Don't get discouraged - just keep typing - that's how you earn here on mylot. You have to respond to discussions that others create and to responses on your own discussions to make it all work. But eventually - it does all work!
I have started discussions that I thought I would get hundreds of responses to, only to find that no one commented at all! lol. But then I start what I think is something dumb and get a top discussion out of it! l go figure! Don't get discouraged - just keep typing - that's how you earn here on mylot. You have to respond to discussions that others create and to responses on your own discussions to make it all work. But eventually - it does all work!1 person likes this
@sid556 (30959)
• United States
14 Jun 12
Hi China,
You have started a lot of discussions and from what I can see Diana pretty much said it all. You need to participate in them and make them something to discuss. You did get responses on your discussions from what I could see. I'm not sure I'm following what your complaint is here??
1 person likes this
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
14 Jun 12
I see that you start several topics but they don't become dicsussions in the way that mylot intend. I see that you comment but only once and not with something that will further the topic. Only when you do that can a real discussion get going.
I don't wait for responses when I start a topic. I do something else but as soon as they appear I get back to them and comment with something that will cause the person to come back and comment again.
When I respond on topics by others I hope that they will come back and comment on my response too. It usually happens eventually as it seems that more amd more Lotters are realising that a discussion, which is what myLot is for, is different from just a question with some answers.
1 person likes this
@shibham (16977)
• India
14 Jun 12
Hi dear...
I am in your friend list but from couple of days, it is raining here heavily, so i was not able to access net service. It is still raining but luck of both of us that we are visa vis now.
Please dont take that step as you are thinking. It may make you isolated on mylot. I am a member here from last 4 years. So, be patient and try to make some good friends ( not to make a huge list of friends) and try to comment back to all the responses that you have received. It will make your mylot journey more fruitful.
All the best.
So, cheers now.
Please dont take that step as you are thinking. It may make you isolated on mylot. I am a member here from last 4 years. So, be patient and try to make some good friends ( not to make a huge list of friends) and try to comment back to all the responses that you have received. It will make your mylot journey more fruitful.
All the best.
So, cheers now.
@anusha2128 (886)
• India
14 Jun 12
Hey here in mylot all will give responses with out thinking anything if the topis is interesting.Even in the starting i faced the same problem and then i made many friends here and responding to there topics with the help of mails sent by mylot to my mail box..
1 person likes this
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
15 Jun 12
Hello ChinaFlower, You have to earn the popularity and respect of the mylotters. for me, you can't just simply write a discussions and expect people to respond to your topics, you have to start by responding to our topics first. if you keep on making discussions with out responding to other people's post, chances are they won't go to you either. RESPOND first before they respond to you. besides, you're not even close to a hundred yet...but i think you're kind person, but you gotta be more active than you are now.
@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
14 Jun 12
Not everyone has time to comment back to what someone says to them on there discussion. For some people they live on different parts of the world and have other things to do. I don't worry if someone doesn't say anything back to me. I know for myself as being a mom and pregnant again it can be hard to find time to comment back to people on my own discussions.
