So, what do women want in men?
By vijayanths
@vijayanths (7877)
India
June 15, 2012 12:46pm CST
It depends on the woman of course. Yet there are some common things that women want in men. They want their men to be loving , caring, handsome, humorous, family oriented,loyal and intelligent. They also want their men to provide them social security and emotional safety. Good hygiene, ability to perform in bed etc are also expected in men. I can't think beyond this being in a man's frame.
Can you just tell me what exactly women want in men? Though it's one of the most frequently and commonly discussed matter, you will never get bored of talking about these stuff.
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9 responses
@mrfdg1972 (3237)
• Philippines
16 Jun 12
Generally, i say women want their man to be Gentleman and a Bit Rude at the same time.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
5 Jul 12
I always believe that women like men to be gentleman and nice. I have seen some girls looking for guys who are called tough guys who are not nice and are rough and tough. I always wonder what they see in this kind of rude character. I wish all guys were nice and sweet and women gets happy with sweet guys.
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
8 Jul 12
I agree with you mrfdg. In general women like men to be gentle and soft. At the same time they like their men to be tough and a bit rude at some situations.
@pan_23 (420)
• Kuwait
16 Jun 12
yes i like all ur points. u have good sense in woman.
as an indian woman,i dont like dominating men in all aspects of life. he should be loyal,and caring as u told. but should not more talkative and dominating towards woman. he should have sense of humor,kindness,and a small laughy face .and should be trust worthy and hardworking and supportive .
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@vijayanths (7877)
• India
16 Jun 12
You have made some good points there pan_23 . I do agree with you over domination is close to abusing which is not a good thing at all. Yet, some women like dominating males, each woman is different you know.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
5 Jul 12
I think women look for men who are faithful, nice, loyal, and who treat the women like queen or otherwise give respect and love to them. I think not all men tries go give love and care women and respect their personality. I think it is good to have men who always care for their partners or lovers.
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
8 Jul 12
That are good points really. Women want their men to treat them like queen, well said.
@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
15 Jun 12
actually, what attracted me to my hubby and to most men in general is their sense of humour. i love to laugh! hubby and i always have something to talk about too which i like too. he is not really interested in a lot that i like but we still like to talk and laugh.
@hansvmobile (30)
•
15 Jun 12
My girlfriend is out of my league. The only reason that I could think of how I got her to say yes and have a baby from me, is because I constantly get her to laugh at my corny jokes and somehow funny reasoning. Or probably she got knocked up and was looking for somebody that would father her child! OMG!
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
16 Jun 12
That's a great point, cher913. I am humorous ans try my best to keep the people around me entertained all the time with humor. That's why people love to be with me.
@roberten (3128)
• United States
16 Jun 12
We want men to be men, bumps on logs need not apply. We do not want to raise someone else's child; you had a mother for that. We seek to be equally yoked with someone who works with us instead of against us. We want a man who is most beautiful on the inside where it matters most. Our man must not only listen to us, but actually hear what we have to say and then acknowledge us. Just be a generally nice guy with as few vises as possible. Pickup after yourself, lower the toilet seat, don't tinkle on the floor and seat and then leave it for someone else to clean up. Share in the housework, cooking, cleaning, ironing, etc. Take interest in and help care for the kids and pets. Share everything, including the bills; communicate, communicate, communicate.
We don't ask much except for you to be yourself and respectfully include us in your life. Easy, right?
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
16 Jun 12
roberten, that sounds simple when said. Men think these things inside home are meant for you women. That's why they don't do them. But they don't allow you to do work meant for men outside home, right?
Why calculate small things when you are in a beautiful relationship?
When there is love, there can't be calculations.
@DarkSonic (64)
• United States
16 Jun 12
You know, there are some women that have men that get angry easily. But, the man will protect her at all costs because he loves her no matter what. It doesn't matter if they get into arguments. The man will apologize later if he has a good heart.
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
16 Jun 12
That's true DarkSonic . Some women even like dominating men. It's not abusing though. They want their men to dominate them in certain matters studies reveal this.
@taheraa (1545)
• Giza, Egypt
8 Jul 12
If men knew the real meaning of manhood, which has the mind and thinking correct view, to achieve for all men and women to the comfort and satisfaction. Women want love in word and deed, like respect their minds, their homes and be one of the best houses, and feel themselves and they are not Spare piece of the house. The amount at which a woman she loves her body, they also want the likes of her mind.
Communication mental, physical and intellectual are What Women Want
@lampar (7584)
• United States
5 Jul 12
I don't think it is possible for me to list all the things that women want in a man, there are way too many to list them all in your discussion. Most these 'wants' are not even static demand, they are dynamic in nature, means that these 'wants' constantly changes base on women mood, period, existence of half and full moon, the season, the time of sunrise and sunset on particular time period and etc... Too many variable and interchangeable factors for me to list them all. Your list of commonly 'wants' in a man doesn't make it any easier for anyone to tell you what exactly women want in men.
@Lmfisher666 (820)
• United States
15 Jun 12
It depends on the woman really. Some women want entirely different things then you listed. I think it is not right of you to say you know what women want, when you just listed off of bunch of typical crap, and applied it to all women. Frankly, as a woman, it offends me. All women are different.
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
16 Jun 12
Cool, that's why I started with the sentence 'It depends on the woman'. I agree with you once again that all women are different.