Love or Game?
By RoCeLaNe1J48
@RoCeLaNe1J48 (12)
Philippines
June 16, 2012 1:37am CST
I'm confuse somehow, whether the person love me or just making it a game. Some men are really good in there words, and some are very good in there actions. and some are perfectly good in words and action yet totally a liar. Have you been confused in this manner? how can you say it's love or just a game?
3 responses
@CeresAnyah (61)
• Philippines
16 Jun 12
Yes, true. some men or most of the men are very good with their words in order to get the girl whether seriously or for a game. It's not easy knowing whether or not they're serious. You have to take a risk to know the answer. Being vigilant and trusting God will arm you just in case you've been played. I know how that feels. Even if you dont wanna fall for the guy, in the long run, somehow you realize you fell unknowingly. If you still feel that he's just toying with you, despite how you feel for him, dont give in. It will just create more problems. Let him prove to you that he isnt playing. It's better to be safe. Rather than being laughed at in the end.
@RoCeLaNe1J48 (12)
• Philippines
16 Jun 12
Trusting God really makes alot of difference. Taking risk, i guess would not surely be the best, because if i did probably this person would surely be taking advantages for the chances i'm giving, he might consider that i am considering him. Does proving would be really necessary? Every person can prove something,but how can we tell it's love and not a game?
@CeresAnyah (61)
• Philippines
16 Jun 12
We have our own state of mind. There's no sure way how to know whether its love or a game. Sometimes, guys get caught in their own trap, sometimes girls have the intuition that they're being played with. Unless you know how to read the mind and heart of a man, then you can tell whether its love or not. taking a risk might not be the best solution but it addresses the problem upfront.
@rkennedee (333)
•
16 Jun 12
if you are confused then maybe he is not the right guy. you will know that a guy is really serious on his actions but if he is making you feel confused maybe you need to wait until he proved something to you. Remember that is he is giving you headache during courtship expect that there will be a lot more if you already say yes to him.
@RoCeLaNe1J48 (12)
• Philippines
16 Jun 12
Granted that a guy really show compassion during courtship but this is not the only thing that i would take considerations, right?. Alot of guys now a days really do flirting, and actions really is not enough. More confusing things here is that his showing affection yet not asking a girl the condition of the status? so it would be merely just a game.
@taura2p (349)
• Romania
22 Jun 12
I was in the situation myself. I guess that in time you will realize if it was serious or just a game. Try to analyze the way he acts, when he is with you and when he is not. Try to find out from others what he says about you, when you are not together. Try knowing him better, and in short time, you will surely realize when he lies and when he speaks the truth.
