Will I trust my boyfriend?

trust - Trusting is a bit difficult thing to do sometimes and especially with our world today; many can not be trusted. What had happened to the world? 
The word "trust" is always associated with our lovers because we sometimes think of something different or fishy with our lover which instills in our minds of some mistrustful thoughts such as cheating us. It's up to you now to investigate.
Philippines
June 16, 2012 1:30pm CST
Early this morning I received a text message from a good friend of mine telling me about his new found best friend lover: "We are the best of friends. Secretly, however, I am in love with him. Little did I know that he is also in love with me. When he courted me, I told him hat we should prioritize our studies first; he understood. One day he told me he is leaving but promised he will always love me and will come back for me. He is sending me text messages from time to time. Will I trust him?" I do not know how to reply to her.
3 responses
@chan2zexy (508)
• Philippines
18 Jun 12
I think you're scared of getting hurt and crying in the end, thinking that maybe your boyfriend might just be playing at you. Instead of answering your question, I'll ask you a question instead. What if he really did love you and you keep on doubting? You will still end up crying in the end too. But the difference is you loved him, you trusted him and even though he was just playing, you will have no regrets because you gave your love and he didn't. He will end up losing someone who has a very big heart. Rather than losing him because of mistrust, just love him and wait for him. When he feels your love, even if you're miles apart, he will definitely come back to you.
@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
16 Jun 12
if there is an agreement and promise to keep in touch and stay in love, why not trust him? in any relationship, it involves risk and trust. once in a relationship, you open yourself to joys, and at the same time, hurts. but the process of making the relationship work is worth all the pains and joys of love. kindly nurture the relationship because it is what you remember.
• Philippines
16 Jun 12
For me, Yes. Trust him because if you really love someone, you will give your trust to that person and not only the love. Trust is a good bond between lovers and I think, for now, there is no reason to not trust him. If one time, He will do something that will lose your trust, that's his lose and not yours. But for now, I can say, you must trust him. You must show that you trust him so that he will be ashamed if one day he will do something that is not good. This is only my opinion but if you want to follow it. Just do it. :)