Cab Debt be the Death of Marriage?

Before Randy and I got married we obtained copies of our credit reports and looked at them carefully because there is fraud out there. We found that his ex wife was opening credit using his information and she had defaulted. We had to seek legal advice because we were not sure how to remove these debts from his credit report. A lawyer told us that what his ex had done was illegal and the attorney told us how to write letters to all three credit bureaus and to also give a copy of the divorce decreee to prove that Randy was not married. I am glad that we both got copies because we were able to find out wha his ex did and could clean it up. I also got a copy of mine and negotiated how to pay it off. The only thing on my credt report ate my student loans (which I am paying off one of them). I think it is important to be honest and up front about finances and to also decide who will be the finacial person when you get married.

yes that is correct it can be very stressful on a family not everyone is to blame though and some more than others, i think you need both trust and the ability to pay the bills before playtime and say no to those who have fallen for they will only drag you down, there is no friendship when it comes to money !

I have read one book written by Chinkee Tan about financial management for couples. They, him and his wife, have their own 3,000 pesos (that's about 70 US dollars) allowance each month that they can spend any way they can, with no questions asked. It's their way of showing care and respect for their other half. The amount by the way is taken from their monthly budget, after setting aside the amount for their savings. If people were more cooperating and talks to each other more, this is really achievable. No marriage fights regarding monetary concerns will occur I guess.