Missing Things
By Aoi Hana
@swirlz (3136)
Philippines
June 18, 2012 7:11pm CST
I lost my comb yesterday, and I'm the type of person who keeps only one. With my hair far from manageable, even after combing, I'm a bit hesitant to go out. I'm still looking for it, hoping I'll find it soon. There have been many instances I found random things soon after I lost them just sitting there in the open. I'd probably buy a new one tomorrow though, if I couldn't find it still.
How soon do you replace a missing thing? Do you easily give up in finding lost objects?
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12 responses
@Lauraleigh99 (4718)
• United States
19 Jun 12
Depending on what the item is I spend maybe an hour in all looking for it. If I can't find it I get frustrated and go out and buy a new one to replace the item. That it seems like right after I buy a new item I find the one I was looking for and like you said it is out in the open in the most obvious spot!
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
19 Jun 12
hi lauraleigh was there not a Edgar Allen Poe story about a letter being hi9ddn e in plain sight, I think it was c alled the Purloined
letter. its so true often when I do give up and get a replacement I find the missing item in plain sight.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
19 Jun 12
I don't often use comb..even though my hair is quite long. I do wash every day and then using my hand to comb it..then it is straight.
In fact i have a comb also...but using my hand is faster...if i lost my comb...i may not buy it also...since i really don't need it much...
@tess_quinain (1149)
• Philippines
19 Jun 12
I tried to find it first. When I can't find it for a week, I replace it. It depends on useful it is to me. When it comes to the comb, i need it and i can't go out without combing my hair. lol
@RitterSport (2451)
• Lippstadt, Germany
19 Jun 12
my old boss had a nice saying, if it doesnt reappear now it hasnt been missing long enough.
I always have spare items when it comes to really important things like comb, wallet for plastic cards, several lengths of shoelaces......and of course more than one ballpoint pen here at hand.
@swirlz (3136)
• Philippines
20 Jun 12
That's an interesting outlook on missing things, that saying. Although I lost a stuffed animal many years ago, and it still have not resurfaced yet. I wonder how long will it be enough to reappear? I miss that stuffed pony!
I have never invested in having spare items, and I think it's a great idea. Thanks!
@jorshelle (71)
• Philippines
19 Jun 12
I have experienced that many times. When I lost my earrings in our bed, I try to look everywhere in our room. I try to look in our bed, under our bed, I've tried to look in our pillows but none of my earrings are present. And I swept the floor nether my earrings are there. So I just let the day passed forget about the earrings. The other night my husband got down from bed, when he returned back to bed, he steped into something he tried to picked up then he saw my earrings. And hand over to me. I was surprised that he saw my earrings. I told to my husband this was the earrings that I'm looking for days and wonder why it came out now. I dont know if someone is playing with me. I dont know if fairies and gnomes are real? Or they live with us?
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@swirlz (3136)
• Philippines
19 Jun 12
Yes, I've also heard of stories of unknown beings responsible for these happenings, though I doubt it's true. Maybe we're just too frustrated to see things which are hiding in plain sight?
Losing jewelry is tough is more upsetting, though. You can't just buy a new one - especially if it was given to you or has sentimental value. Good thing your husband found it!
@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
19 Jun 12
I lost my comb about 30 years ago and I found it in one of my wife's drawers last week. I really didn't look very hard for it because my hair disappeared about 30 years ago also. I never spent any time looking for my hair, because the money I was saving at the barber's was adding up every week. I've saved enough money in Barber's fees to almost buy a new car!
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
19 Jun 12
hio swirlz when we were moved from 260 to 258 the people moving our stuff left some important computer parts in 260 so I had given my son my key chain and He was sure he gave it back or put it on my bed. I was going to give it to the front office but the key chain and keys never ever showed up. we scoured our room and the o ld room. finally just gave up.here at G old Crest retirement center we must have a locked drawer for over the counter meds and my loc k and key was on the stolen key chain but luckily I found another small lock with key. I still never got a key for this room but we are managing. I hate misp-lacing or losing things but I really think someone stole the whole thing as it had a large P on the change for my first name Patsie.I do not usually give up easily but too it means something to me to lose my possesions specially in a place like this.
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
20 Jun 12
the white one? where did you put it then?
How often do i replace it depends on how much that thing costs.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
10 Oct 12
hi,
i only notice that i have a missing thing if i need that thing and i cant find any where,thats the time that i feel its missing or i forget where i put it,actually if that is very important to me i will not give up just to find that thing.those thing that usually missing are my rings.
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
19 Jun 12
Well I guess girls usually replace their combs lol.
For me, I used to look for my cabinet key at home.Sometimes it is just always in my bag that I used at work but always can't find it when I have to use it lol.
@OYouness (87)
•
19 Jun 12
It happens with me from time to time that I lose something. However, I keep trying to remember where I put it or where I lost it till I figure out where it is. Sometimes it works, some others it doesn't. It is in these latters that I decide to replace this thing by buying a new one. 'If something is meant to be yours, it will come back to you. If not, it won't. So, don't boder'. Buy a new one!.