Blue Spoon = Divorce?!?!

I don't have much idea sorry because I don't think negative. If in case we have misunderstanding maybe that's the time I start thingking of it. Instead of thingking negative what if you serve Mrs. Pageturner the red spoon haha reverse phsychology. Or lets say the stainless colorless spoon and fork? Or try chopsticks lol..just kidding.

I find it weird that you are using a completely different sets. However, there are several possible explanations: 1) Are the set in the same structures? I know that I disliked the structure of our first set (the first one we had) - the spoons were very uncomfortable. So eventually I got a new set of spoons and I prefer it. However, I wouldn't mind if my husband will use them too, and I sometimes use the old set as well. 2) How long do you know each other? Is it possible she has some kind of a food allergy that you aren't aware of? It is possible she is using a different set because she can't eat / come in contact we some of the food you eat? My son is allergic to milk, so we have a set at home that no one is allowed to eat milk with. 3) Is she religious? I know some religious people separate sets since there are food they believe they aren't allowed to eat, and so they don't eat from sets that are used with those food. Overall no matter the reason I think you need to clear it out - so you need to talk to her about it and understand where is the "set for you & set for me" idea comes from. About she bringing you the wrong color: - 2 times in 4 months in nothing. Maybe she was tired and didn't notice? Mistakes happen. How many times did you mistakenly do something she dislike in this time? - If you insist it was on purpose when if I were you I would actually consider that as a positive sign! She is willing to eat with the set you eat from. This is something she wasn't willing to do in the past - I think it means you are actually getting closer...

Perhaps this is her nice way of giving you 'the finger'. I myself prefer to give the pinkie, but a spoon would be an original way to communicate.

She may be seeing if the red or blue spoon is truly important. Maybe she is seeing if it really matters in the relationship to present the blue or the red spoon. Sometimes people just like to know if they are going to be cared for if there isn't a red spoon anymore. I think that this is the point where importance can be established. Kind of a picking your battles kind of thing..lol. If the red spoon is truly important..this would be the time to establish that. If not...she will think...well..that's not important so there is no need to focus on that where we are concerned. If you say..she will realize and respect it. I think this is something that goes much deeper than the color of spoon that we prefer.

Hi, I am sure things are fine. I am not superstitious. I would not worry too much about it.

I don't know if that post is actually serious or just made to mess with people x) The color of your spoon or your fork sure does not make any sense, I mean, maybe she didnt run the dish washer and all she had was the blue ones Don't stress out about thar

well pageturner, this is certainly a fascinating dilemma....i was wondering how mrs. turner would respond if the utensils were turned so to speak, and you ended up with the blue utensils and she with the red....and furthermore, why do you and your wife have separate utensil sets...are you worried that she is too germy and therefore you do not want to share sets...perhaps you and your wife should invest in a mutual utensil set...do you really think that perhaps mrs. turner doesn't love you anymore or is taking interest elsewhere...that is very sad...or perhaps you and mrs. turner could use disposable forks and plates, etc...i hope that you find a solution for this very serious problem pageturner, and that your marriage can be saved....if not, i am sure you can meet some other lady friends here on the my lot...