Understanding, Is it always good?

There is only so much a person can take. This one person I just cut out of my life was very abusive with her words. I let it slide over and over because that is the person I am. But, she did not stop. She would lie to me, say smart a$$ comments, use me for things, and she was VERY dramatic. You could not have a normal conversation with her because she would get mad over the smallest and most stupid things! Plus she posted her whole entire life on facebook every day. With her I think she is just VERY immature. Anyway, I got rid of her. She is out of my life and I could not be happier about it. I got sick of being her door mat to be honest. If I wouldn't let her use me she would flip out, curse at me and everything else. It was bad. So, I think there is only so much a person can take. After that, you have to learn when to say "enough is enough".

When people do not listen people get very irritated. Listening skills are very important in a conversation. Most important is to understand someone when they are talking to you, so you can respond good.

Understanding people whom you happen is rather not much difficult.People are easily understood by their outward;y behaviors. In fact it is the inner self which shirks away from getting understood.While many people tend to keep their real intentions in the dark hesitating not to reveal their real self it presents a tough time ahead in getting to know people.

Yeah, a nagger would never listens, s/he would always reject whatever you wanted to say or explain and sometimes it's just make you piss off and waste your energy to try to understand this person. The right thing to do is to make this nagger sees and understands that s/he is not always right and perfect. So, just fight back and stand for your rights (if you are right ), never give her/him a chance to finish his/her words because sometimes the more you just keep quiet and listen the more you're boiling inside. Walk away is the best solution or just boycott this person. Being understanding is good, but it is unfair if the other party isn't being one. So, do not give this nagger a chance to abuse you emotionally.

as for me I can let things pass for up to 3 times thinking that the person might have reasons to act negatively but after the third time I won't let that person do bad things to me any longer. In this way I can teach her a lesson that she cannot do this to me all the time and that she might wanna think twice before doing bad things to other if she doesn't want to get into any trouble.

Hi friend, understanding is important to know about a person well. If we understand a person fully, we will move with them based on their attitudes and activities. It is really hard to have a good friendship or relationship with out proper understanding, since it is playing an important role in our life

Hi, Understanding is always good. Understanding is more difficult in negative situations than positive situations. Understanding depends on being heard and respected by all of the people involved in the situation as well. Have a great day!