Future life..
By jaedris
@jaedris (14)
Philippines
June 21, 2012 6:17pm CST
Nowadays, most parents want their children to finish school for them to find a job after. But my idea is that, they should be encouraged to finish their studies and make their own business for a living. And others, put in the mind of their kids that they have the responsibility of helping the family in return for their effort. I think that they should not install this kind of mindset in the child because helping is a by product of love. Let the parents invest love and they will receive love as well. This will include not only helping the family members but a lot more.~~
1 person likes this
5 responses
@asdomencil (4265)
• Philippines
22 Jun 12
You are right. Most parents wants their kids to finish schools so that they can help them in the future. I am somewhat against this. It is the responsibility of the parent to have their kids study, also it is the right of the kids to send them to school. In the end, I guess it is not the responsibility of the kids that finished their study to return back the favor to their parents. You are right, investing non material things to your kids are still the best one.
@jaedris (14)
• Philippines
22 Jun 12
I believe in the principle of sowing and reaping. Sow love and you will reap love. But sow pain and you will reap the same. The most crucial part of a person's life is his childhood so it's really important for a parent to help him set his goals and have a positive viewpoint. Our kids are not like our savings in the bank,instead, they are far more precious than winning the lottery..haha~~
@asdomencil (4265)
• Philippines
22 Jun 12
Yes, if you treat your kids better when they are still kids, you will be treated better too. Even they are your kids, they need to be respected to. In the end you will also earn respect from them.
You are right, if you invest on your kids from the day they already understand you, you will know that they will grow the best they can be.
@sender621 (14893)
• United States
22 Jun 12
I would like to think that every parent wants the best in life for their children. As parents, we should strive to get the education for our children that will help them to succeed. yet we do need to give them room to make choices on their own. We should be there for emotional support, but it is their life they are building.
@GemmaR (8517)
•
23 Jun 12
I think that the most important thing to remember with children is that you should make them aware of all of the choices that they have, and you should them support them through all of the decisions that they make in their life. Even if you don't think that they are making the right choice, you have to support them and let them make their own mistakes so that they will know what they want in the future. Education is wonderful, but only if you child wants to be educated. Although it is great, it is not always the only option in life.
@thewonderboy (7501)
• India
22 Jun 12
Most of the parents desires or wishes to have a bright future for their kid. Every parents likes to wish the same along with this, the force the kids to join in certain feilds according to the parents desire. Really a student should have the full freedom to select his path to his profession because he is the one who needs to study it. So the student have must have an intrest in learning them then only if can achieve success in his life.
@yimsiupang (237)
•
22 Jun 12
Well,for me,i also want my son to finish school,i also hope that he can find a good job in the future.i think most parents have the same view with me,but we must use the good method for the children's education,i will let him understand the importance of learning,i will always accompany him,encourage him,i think his good growth is my responsibility.
