Maybe I'm wrong?

June 22, 2012 5:40am CST
For a long time I have no a friend, and I have already in some years when I should already have a soil connection. Throughout life I have met with various people but nobody could understand me. I am very sincere and hearty. I wonder if this flaw is not that we ruin everything. Maybe people just do not like honest people, although I think that honesty is the key thing in friendship.
5 responses
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
24 Jun 12
I think if they don`t understand you at first then maybe you are a deep person that really needs a person who is also deep enough to understand you. Friendship is a two way relationship and you need to understand him also. Maybe you just need to understand them first, before they do the exact thing to you also. Honesty is important, i agree but you also have to control yourself. Like maybe your frank or straight in a way that they can`t understand you. Speaking less than what you think may also work on this kind of scenario. Maybe in that way they can understand you
• Philippines
24 Jun 12
I agree to what you have said. You don`t have to change your personality. You just have to find the right tempo and the right person in order to find a person that can really understand you. I believe that people don`t exactly change, they just learn more about their self and discover new things inside of them. Personality that makes them unique and shine in their own way !! I hope that people find that in you
24 Jun 12
At first glance, many people understand me as too free a person as a person immediately enters the story and talk about anything. A lot of people some of the topics considered taboo today. A lot of people trying to change that as soon as you know .. I do not want to change my personality .. maybe you can change the place of release in order to satisfy but not the music.
• Philippines
24 Jun 12
I agree to what you have said. You don`t have to change your personality. You just have to find the right tempo and the right person in order to find a person that can really understand you. I believe that people don`t exactly change, they just learn more about their self and discover new things inside of them. Personality that makes them unique and shine in their own way !! I hope that people find that in you
@lifes97 (884)
• United Arab Emirates
23 Jun 12
hi, have to say you and every person is different in his or her way. but that does not meant that you are wrong, just maybe you need to be more into people and go out more often to meet different people and then you can find who listen and relate to your
24 Jun 12
I think it is more difficult in the crowd because it is difficult to collect a lot of people.. you need someone to know from childhood, so that it succeeds. Otherwise, it is difficult today to be tolerant everyone wants to major in the society.
@maezee (41988)
• United States
22 Jun 12
That's too bad. But some of us are just loners, I guess. I am kind of like that too. I have a few close friends and family members, but that's it. I enjoy spending time by myself though and like you -- I feel like I don't have a GREAT connection like other people do with their friends. You know? And it's not easy for me to have that connection with other people either. I know a lot of people who have tons and tons of friends, and make connections with people instantly. Maybe it's a self esteem thing with us? I hope that you find someone who understands you. It's not fun to feel alone in the world.
22 Jun 12
I'm glad you understand me...i mean a lot of people that go out and talk and drink coffee and all but one have never met who understood my deep aspirations, dreams, my sense of humor and my way of living. I have husband and child, but I have no a female person with whom they can share all that..not be a woman but because of the tiny nuances of difference there. I mean, I do not mind but it happened to me that if my friend is a man tends to be in love with me and to me still further discouraged.
• Philippines
23 Jun 12
Maybe you have a very unique skill or beauty that might make them insecure about you. There are lot of people out there who are very talented or beautiful but they're being disliked by other people coz of misinterpretations and insecurities. You've said that you are honest. Are you brutally honest or honest in right way? Hehe coz being brutally honest is really unpleasant. they don't deserve a good friend like you, don't mind them, as far as you're not the one who lacks the generosity. someday you'll find your real friends out there.
24 Jun 12
I know it bothers people honest, because we all love to receive compliments only. But if we consider me a true friend will tell me where I am wrong. Yes, I am brutally honest and I can not change it, not even in Hollywood movies and acting.
@Shazooo (296)
• Malaysia
22 Jun 12
Don't worry...you deserve a better friend in that case, there is lesser and lesser honest and sincere people left in this world compare to decades ago, so you are special. You must know that. Maybe the time Isn't right yet, but when the time comes, you will meet someone that will be there forever for you no matter who you are, they will see all your flaws but still be by your side ready to catch you when you fall, but of course not before they laugh at you :)
22 Jun 12
Thank you for your understanding...theme is a bit sensitive because none of us really does not open soem of their deepest things. Very believe in destiny and that it will appear that people understand what I mean. There is also a fear of someone at all, because it is not normal. Today more and more communicative people who have friends all over the place.