How do you feel if your husband looks too much to women

i think it is a man's natural instinct to look at a woman. tell your husband how it makes you feel. he may look once,,, but not twice...

yes blondeladyinred! the psychoartist thinks that your sad feelings are natural and understandable...yes, i know that people are always saying that is just the way men are, men are more visual creatures, blahblahblah etc...but if this man is your husband and cares for you he can make the choice to cease and desist from this crude rude and ungentlemanly behavior...perhaps the women that he is gawking at on the road may not exactly enjoy his behavior either...that sort of thing can make women who have good sense and proper morals feel violated and uncomfortable...i think you should discuss your feelings with your husband in a kind and polite way and ask him that when he is with you to please not hurt your feelings in this manner...i feel that mr.psychoartist has ample enough time to gawk at women when he is not with me but when we are together i expect respect as i show him respect...if your husband decides that he wants to continue his hurtful ridiculous and immature behavior, i think that you should show him that what is good for the goose is good for the gander: stare, gawk and comment on any man you see, put up posters in your house of good looking men and drool over men you see on the internet..discuss men you like and admire...perhaps this may prove a point...good luck to you blondeladyinred!

I think there's a big difference between 'looking' and 'staring'. Your husband should see the difference. Perhaps they're right, talk to him about it. If he laughs at you or something because he finds your issues petty, try doing that with every man you see when you're with him - then let's see who'll think that looking is different from staring. hehehe... Find those guys who are obviously more 'eye-candy' than your husband. Have a great MyLot experience ahead!

I believe as his wife, you have the right to tell your husband about how you feel about his roving eyes which you are finding it disturbing. He should respect your feelings and be wary of his inappropriate behavior. However, he needs to be communicated or else you are just as good as abetting to his misbehavior. It is unfortunate that a lot of times, we are just being too trusting and leave it to the last minute where the damage becomes unrepairable. So, please speak your mind for love's namesake.

Some men are like that but it doesn't mean that they really like them. Just try to tell your husband about what you felt when he does that.

Hello blondeladyinred Your sad feelings are natural. I would be sad in the same situation. Your husband is being highly disrespectful of you. Beastly, really. Have you talked with him about this?