Im fuming, seems all my friends are not really my friends and my husband knows

I can't offer much comfort either. I am very sorry for everything you're going through, and I completely understand you not trusting your friends. I am not sure about the laws in your country, but his adultery would be grounds for divorce here I am certain. I know I would feel upset and conflicted, wanting to face him but not sure how to do so.

hon you are really going through a bad time, if you need someone to talk to I am a retired therapist. You have way too much worry on your shoulders.

U are going through a rough patch in life right now huh Much as i understand your husband's needs, but he should not do that at all. He ought to respect u, for u are his wife. It's worse when he's trying to hook up with your friend All along, i've always thought he's a good father, good husband, but his actions has really ruin his image About your son,. i'm surprised he tried to kill himself? He's so young, how does he know what's dying? How did the thought came into his mind in the first place?!?!! It's better for him to stay home, or bring him to a specialist, let them handle him..

First off--Why would a 'friend' say something so negative? Is this the same friend who is working to have some intamacy with your husband? Ikes! Sounds like you have your hands full with your son as well. I hope your mother and daughter are sympathethic to your needs right now. Sorry that you are going through this.

Hello my friend jugsjugs Ji, Well, whenever I find a person like you under these condition, we always thank our parents, who were instrumental to our marriage, we come from different cities were un-known to each other. First time I met my hubby during first night only. We are happy couple since Dec-1969. I think you under-estimated your husband before marriage. My simple advise is to utter every word openly infront of his and your parents, so that you are very much relieved and do not take help ftom Net. If surgery is required, it should be carried out in time else it will spread to other parts making them poisonous. Take care. May God bless You and have a great

The struggles that you are going through with your son are more than I believe that I would even be able to deal with. There is a little boy that lives up the street from us and he actually spent some time institutionalized locally because of his ADHD. Then after he was released from the hospital, he still ended up having to be transferred to another school in the area. Now as far as the issues with your husband go, I don't even know what to think about that. If that is the way that he is going to treat you, then I honestly don't know if there is anything that will be able to salvage your relationship.

I am so sorry you had to go through this. I would not be able to be quiet. I would confront him immediately. As for your son, what are the choices that you have since no school will accept him? Is the only choice to homeschool? I hope things calm down for you soon.

I have not much to say as far as comfort, just that it stinks. I also do not understand your education system. Here your son would be accommodated somewhere and you would not be in a fight about it and it would not be at your expense. All I can say is that I am sorry about the whole mess.

well they not friends thats for sure

oh jugsjugs how awful as if you did not have enough onyour plate with the school and your son,. could it be that your husband fooling arou nd with friend might have something to do with your son and his behavior. Children are quick to pick u p on dissension in the home. I am so sorry as before it had sounded like you had a one in a million husband. I wish I could help you in any way. It is good you had the smarts to have some proof of his infidelity. I am appalled at the way he is treating you and with you r friend. thats like a double edged sword thrust. whatever hapened to his vows for richer or poorer, for better or worse, in sickness and in health did he completely forget them?to do this on facebook is really sick and cruel too.I still would like to be your friend as you could pm me and just cry on m y shoulder if you need to, just to keep from going under with this.I am glad you h ae you r mom and your daughter. I can see how your trust is shot. I am really so sorry jugs wish I could c ome to you and talk and give you a hug.

i have read your previous discussions and i really have no words of comfort because i know it is hard to know someone you trust betrayed you. If i were on your shoes i might have exploded.

Ow..that must be so hard or you facing all the problems in one time just do what you have to do an you think that is right to do i believe everything will past and the sun will shine again

Hi friend, sad to hear about this. It is really hard to tolerate this kind of betraying activities. Your friend is not deserved for friendship, better to cut her friendship. As she is ready to betray you. As you mentioned you copied that message and sent it to both your mum and daughter, so that they will find the real face of this two culprits

o no poor you jugsjugs some sort of friend she is i know how you feel cause last year the similar sort of thing happenend to me last year just hope you dont talk to that friend anymore cause i dont have nothing to do with my so called friend either to do with my husband

You can not change your husband or the education system. You can get your son into counciling and therapy and deal with self destructive behaviors.. I at a time in my life was doing self destructive behaviors too ... and needed help with learning new coping and managing skills, needed help and protection .. and schools will sometimes allow the parents to sit in class with them all day long if the child needs that kind of attention and support.. As a far as trust goes it is hard to find someone to trust.. and you may not want friends here but you will make some anyhow :D . Call a meeting with all your sons teachers and come up with a plan a safety plan of some sort who they can call where your son can go allow him a place to himself where he can go for security and cool downs and a teachers or people he can go to immediately for help if issues arise guidance councilors office or even principle.. if its attention seeking... teach him better ways to get attention ...

so sorry. maybe your other friends are afraid to tell you to keep from hurting your feelings? or doesnt know what to say. as what do you say if you see that on FB. or even just hear of it. What if your friend doesnt believe you or gets mad at you for saying such about her husband is a nasty cheating lout! (im just saying like if you was in their shoes, the friends of yours thats not sleeping with him) btw, i havent seen anything from you on FB. most times i dont even seem to get notifications from FB. as far as even that. i have another friend on there in germany and he speaks english to me but i see german language from his other friends. so if you think i saw it and didnt say, i cant read german,

OMG so many problems, I feel so horrible for you. First of all I have never heard of a school not accepting a child because they have ADHD. That to me is againist the law because children need to go to school. I hope your son has a councelor or therpist to help him with his problems. That is quite scary that he has tried to kill himself. Secondly, I'm so sorry that this has happened to you concerning your so call "friend." I learned along time ago to leave my female friends far away from my man. When I was in my early 20's I had so call female friends who were all really trying to get to my then boyfriend even after I had a baby with him. He was a singer in the clubs and that is the reason for that. I would never have female friends come over to my house in my second relationship, which is still on going now for 24 years. Females really can't be trusted. I keep them at a distance. If they are unhappy in their relationship they will bounce on another man that they find attractive no matter if its their friend's hubby or not. What bothers also is the fact that your husband would play into your friend doing this. Especially knowing how sick you are. That is just so dispicable on all counts. However, I know myself I would be letting him know that you found out about this and be going crazy. Has for the so call "friend" I would be giving her a piece of my mind. Please, don't wait till something happens between them. Stop it before it happens.