Maybe I am not too lucky in terms of friendship.

Philippines
June 23, 2012 11:47am CST
A pleasant day Fellow Mylotters, Perhaps I am not really that lucky in terms of friends. That, although I met some online/virtual friends for the last few months, again, I feel I cannot reach them. I guess this is my luck in terms of friendship. Its just somehow hurting inside. And also it hurts, to think that I am always doing the initiative to revive the communication. Hence, I somehow feel tired of this repetitive instances.
8 responses
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
11 Oct 12
hi, why you cant reach them?it because they are in far places,actually i dont really enjoy the friendship if that person is far with me,and i am more happy to those friends that i usually my companion,especially in my work.and aside from that i dont much time to them because i know i could never meet them in real.
• India
26 Jun 12
Deep relations commu be eaisly broken. The root of the such relations are strongly bonded and they are deep inside the soil. Spent your time to find your friends and may god bless you to make your efforts a successful one.
@adforme (2114)
24 Jun 12
In my opinion, friendship is a relationship that is best when one is a friend to his or herself. I know, I know, I am sounding corny, but here is what I mean. To have a friendship, One needs to know what it truly means to be one, this includes the friendship initiator as well as the potential friend. Do you have any issues that make it hard for you to make friends? What does friendship mean to you? Can you be the friend you want someone to be to you? Are you honest with yourself when asking these questions?. New frienships are established very carefully. You have your own criteria for this. Friendship should be allowed to form as well as as grow. Online/virtual friendships can be quite stifled by the lack of physical meetings, and other issues thay may be involved in an electronically dependent relationship. As far as initiating communication, it should be done in a manner that is equally beneficial. Hopefully you will make friends online that will lessen the hurt you are feeling. We cannot always be sure who is on the other end of the electronic communication, perhaps making friends in other ways will also help. Happy befriending.
• India
24 Jun 12
We can build friendship if and only if have a close talk with friends , this is one of the best way to earn more and more friends. So in order to make more online friends just chat with them and be a good friend. Here in mylot itself, I have too many friends. We interact each each other by responding and by sharing the thoughts.
@douiya (66)
• Indonesia
24 Jun 12
I feel the same way with you too, off line and online friends seem hard for me to get along, in the end they left me. I often ask my self where i did wrong, and sometimes I become someone that is not me to get acknowledge as friend. but it was uncomfortable.
• Malaysia
24 Jun 12
I don't understand what does luck have got to do with friendship or any kind of relationship. What made you think that you feel you can't reach them? Have you ever tried? Do you want to get to know them? Their interest, their diffrences, their similarity to yourself. Get to know these kind of things and start from there of course. Another thing is, if 1 doesn't work, find another one, if that doesn't work find another one again. Of course you're tired. It is probably because you're treating this act of friendship and making friends like a job. Do it with a peace of mind. Come what may be. Out of 100 people that you're going to meet online, you will probably end up striking a friendship or relationship with at least 5 people and hold this 5 dearly to your heart. Give yourself time to know people my friend.
• Malaysia
24 Jun 12
Hi. Sometimes, some people do not have the same perceptions about online friends where they only want to remain as online friends. This could be because of they are comfortable with the way things work between them where online friends don't judge them based on their daily life when they share their problems, thoughts and opinion online. I don't know if it has to do with luck because in my opinion, it takes longer time in really getting to know your online friends because you have never met them in person. Even if you do, you don't see them often and are they still considered online or offline friends? It is helpful if they have a personal blog though, but the truth is even sometimes we can't seem to reach or get along well with our offline friends we've known for many years. So, don't feel bad or worry too much about it.
• Philippines
24 Jun 12
Yeah. You should have to get in touch with them again. If you want to see them again, give effort to meet with them despite the busy schedule. Contact them and arrange a get together. I have also experiences similar to your experiences, just try to be friendly and don't force the conversation. Let the conversation create itself. hehehe