Parallel relationship when the lover is staying far!

No, there is no such thing as parallel relationship. It is known as 'cheating'. It is absolutely cheating if someone starts up a relationship with another person, just because that person is away. It is hard when you are so close to someone and used to having them around and suddenly they are not there anymore. It is easy to divert yourself by involving with someone else. But that is not right. A relationship is supposed to withstand the good and the bad both. If I was in the same situation, I would make sure I keep in touch with that person regularly, let them know I am here and waiting. Being faithful is a choice, infidelity will never happen if we don't let it. We just have to be strong and resist, and stay committed. If we are not strong enough, we should break-up with that other person first, that is the kind thing to do. Because it is obvious we don't really love that person or we will never be tempted to cheat and hurt them. And for the other person, it will be best to let go, because having no love is better than having an unfaithful love.

Love is eternal, wonderful and pure. People often commit mistakes and dishearten each other's feeling because they connect love with physical beauty. It is natural that if a person is beautiful , smart and look good in appearance then anyone can attract to him but that does not mean that you start loving that person, it just means infatuation or attraction. As far as you will not recognize the inner beauty of a person, you can not love him or her.love is based on belief. We should always believe in our partner and make ourselves also accordingly. The best example of pure love is mother's love as she loves her child in every situation without demanding any thing in return. Or god's love for all his children because hi is impartal to all of us. Love is really divine. Love is actually god and god himself is love. A most important thing that we should always keep in mind is that sacrifice and trust are those parts of love that completes it. If you believe your partener and trust him and ready to sacrifice anything then you can actually feel the true essence of love.

This issue is not just about LOVE .. it is also about respect. If the distance hinders,they have to talk about. _Is not more exciting if everyone using creativity to stay together??? I think it would be more exciting if one of them expected the opportunity to be together...they would be looking forward to the big day. I find it much tastier. There are couples that when are distant, find a way to spice things up with waiting. .. others prefer to deceive...Those who come closest are the winners. The traitors are as pathetic. if are not satisfied, why not split up for good? cheating is childish, stupid and a certificate of cowardice and disrespect. but the world is full of cowards...

Parallel relationships is cheating. But I think that it is very difficult to stay commited to someone who is far away. I think that the best thing to do is to bresk up first with the lover that is not near. I don`t think that a job or education changes the relationship. If a person stops caring for the other due to absence, then that`s it.

first of all: truly in love you are just for a "short" period. After that love should develop. Love can only develop if you share things together, if you stick together if you have good and bad times (the bad times will even help more). Love will grow through the years if you pay attention to eachother. Mostly it's the lack of attention, the fact you are taking for granted (and the idea you will accept everything and wait forever) that makes people change their attitude. This besides of the fact that being in love means you are "blind" and not able to think (it's proved being in love makes stupid). So after these butterflies (if they were already there) are gone we are back with us.. ourselves. We see clear, see what is right or wrong and some of us want to be us again and our life back. This all has nothing to do with how long you are together if you are just separated for 1 month or most of the years. This all depends on the kind of person, personal situation, the personal needs/feelings. What love is about is a personal thing as well, same if it comes to what is natural. You won't find many men who will claim/say that it's natural to have only 1 woman/wife!