Are you happy being Alone?
By burn1956
@burn1956 (3)
Philippines
June 24, 2012 6:43am CST
Being alone is such a big problem for me, no one is caring for you, understand and giving attention. So I want to ask somebody here that's "how's your life being alone?" Until now I'm still searching for the right girl that is so humble and also be proud of being who I am.
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18 responses
@sender621 (14893)
• United States
25 Jun 12
There are times when I like to be alone and have time to myself. There are also times when I like ti be around other people. I do find that I am happier and more content with myself when I am not alone.
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@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
24 Jun 12
My daughter is a very unique one fr she only had one ex and she is still single until now, Three years without any relationship. I shared it because i talked to her recently and she told me that she`s never lonely when she`s alone. Like she can go shopping or go to the party alone. I talked to her because she is a teenage and she is suppose to be wild and full of friends. She has many friends though, but she wants to go to the mall or do anything alone. I don`t think she is being bullied because she looks happy and her personality is bubbly. I think it depends on a person if she enjoys her time or not. As a person we also need time for ourselves but in your situation i do hope that one of this day, you will never be bothered by being alone. Grab this opportunity to know yourself so that when the right person comes to you, he or she will never be disappointed and will be proud of who you are.
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
25 Jun 12
Yes i do have a daughter. As you know, my son is a special child so all the attention has been focused to him this past few months and Like what i have shared, my daughter and i talked and i asked her about her situation. She`s very strong girl indeed and we are very proud of her. And i know that she is also proud of herself. Your very welcome and have a nice day binggaling !!
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
26 Jun 12
Oh, I thought you knew. But anyways, he is six years old and has speech delay. He still cannot talk. He do have therapy classes and it helps a lot. He can now understand little by little and can sing songs by humming. But you can now recognize what song is he singing. And yes, i am very confident that even my daughter become a mother someday, i still trust her that she can take care of her brother. Though i hope that my son overcomes his speech weakness and can face the world like a normal person does. I know it`s quite impossible but maybe one day
@nichokongo (69)
• Kenya
25 Jun 12
hellow,
being alone is not a problem but at some stage, you ll have to embrace it out of your lifestyle.their no point of getting into marriage while you still have a mindset of bachelorhood.
i hope this helps.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
10 Jul 12
Yeah I agree with you. When I was alone I thought it was very hard. Most people want to enjoy companionship with someone. Continue to look for the right person and work on yourself. This will help you to have a better relationship with the person you find.
@taura2p (349)
• Romania
25 Jun 12
I can't say I am happy alone, but I am quite pleased. Also, there are moments in which I am very happy to be alone, because I don't have to give explanations to anyone, I can do whatever pleases me without thinking about what he or she will say. I guess it comes with advantages and disadvantages, too.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
25 Jun 12
bn 1956 I am now as I had a w onderful love and marriage for 33years so now widowed and elderly I have my son and my roomie here At Gold crest plus off line friends and all my lovely mylot friends here who some are close and even phone me when they are worried about me.So I am widowed but not really lonely as I live in a retirement center with 100 people. lol but I know only a handful to call friends.I hope you do find her, that girl God has picked for you as yuou will met her one day and you a urnd she will c lick,and you will be glad you waited for the right girl. and please not a girl too humble she must be your equal and your true love. look burn as long as you are on mylot you are not really alone,make me a friend and yuou can email me when you feel blue and cry on my shoulder, as an elderly wo manm I am a very good listener., I too was lonelyh onced til I met Mr Hatley and soon became Mrs. Hatley lol lol
@GemmaR (8517)
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25 Jun 12
I don't think that you should really think about being alone in that sense. Although you might think that you would like to share you life with somebody, many people who are in a relationship would say that you should take the time to stop and enjoy your own life without tying yourself to somebody. I have been with my partner for three years, and I will admit that there are a lot of times where I wish that I was single so I could just go out and have a good time without having to worry about whether my partner would approve with the person I was going out with or not. Just take the time to get to know yourself, and stop obsessing over finding love, and then you will find that it comes to you when you least expect it.
@hestylim (1210)
• Indonesia
25 Jun 12
I am fine with being alone. Seems like I used to it already. I am still in searching of someone that can accept me for who I am and what I am. But seems that someone makes a wrong turn, so he hasn't arrived yet.. :P
Sometimes it does suck being alone.. but it does feel okay.. :)
@acey76 (1276)
• Philippines
25 Jun 12
You know being alone is not a problem, If you try to appreciate things that you have. You have your friends ,family to have give support to you. But if you want to have a girl then you should try to court someone , or find the love of your life, It is to yourself how you see things in perspective.Dont pity yourself move and find if you want a partner.
@shaqziad (655)
• Malaysia
25 Jun 12
I'm thinking it is because you haven't face the suffering of being 'together'. I'm living quite good alone, and still don't want to leave this comfort zone and let others into my realm. Occasionally, when i feel lonely, i get a companion. it is not that bad, cause i'm good in looking after myself. i hate it more when i look after or care about someone but that person does not care a pinch about me. Rather avoid myself than be hurt.
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
24 Jun 12
I understand how you feel, I have beem alone before it was very sad and painful. It really hard whe you feel that no one is caring for you, understand and giving attention. During that time I felt that I am in a very dark place and no one will come to save me from darkness. But few months later I met someone who give light and save me from darkness. Someone who accepted me for what I am and treat me like the most precious stone in this world. From that moment I never feel alone because I found someone who will always be there for me no matter what happened. I am hoping that you will find the right girl that you looking for so that you will never be feel alone and you will be happy for the rest of your life.
@hellphoenix87 (92)
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24 Jun 12
This was so sincere, that one must say something. I was long looking for a real boyfriend, and I just met the wrong and it was difficult. While I was looking for the right year, I ignore someone who is sincerely trying around me. Sometimes we may blame me for being alone.
@thewonderboy (7501)
• India
24 Jun 12
Hello burn1956, I don't like to be alone. I am very glad to say that I will be so happy if my friends and family is near me. I think my life would be nothing if they are not with me .
@gracielou85 (140)
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24 Jun 12
I've been alone once and all I can remember is misery though you can do anything you like to do without thinking of others because you do not have any responsibilities. It's really your prerogative if you like it that way. I sucked on being alone.
The right time will just come to you when you'll meet the right girl so just do not rush everything.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
24 Jun 12
Hi friend, welcome to mylot. I have the ability to live with loneliness, if i have my laptop and internet. I am a great online savvy and spending my time with online activities. I am married and living with my family. In my opinion single life is better than married one, as we don't have more responsibilities at that time