Relationship Moving Fast, Advice?
By jambi462
@jambi462 (4576)
United States
June 24, 2012 10:29pm CST
I've recently became involved with this girl that I am incredibly attracted to and am quickly falling in love with. I have poured my heart out to this girl and have already started to present her with lyrics that I have written about her. It seems like she truly wants me as well, the only problem is that things are moving really fast. We're already kissing and getting closer and closer to making love with each other almost every time we see each other.
I can only safely say that we've been together for about two weeks and I'm just a little afraid that she will get bored of me because things are moving so fast. I am developing incredibly strong feelings for her and have been for a while now. The thing I'm wondering is has anyone had similar relationships like this?
Have any of you had a successful and long relationship that started off really fast and deeply passionate in the beginning? Did the passion eventually die off? Also do you have any advice for me to be able to keep things interesting and be able to make this girl love me for as long as I can?
3 responses
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
25 Jun 12
If she loves you who you are, you don't have to be afraid that one day she will get bored of you. If you have to do something to keep her interest in you, that is hard. Because one day you might die out of ideas to keep you as interesting as she might think of you. So, if you think that is moving fast, talk to her about it, and explain what you think; and to see how she thought about it too.
@jambi462 (4576)
• United States
26 Jun 12
That's a great idea, right now I am just living in the moment and enjoying every second of it. I am totally just being myself and not hiding anything really, I've already told her some stories of things that I'm trying to fix about myself and what my former problems used to be. I get so happy when I get to see her and when I talk to her and I'm pretty sure she is the same way with me.
Thanks for your encouragement it gives me a lot more confidence with myself and I am gaining more and more confidence with her every day.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
25 Jun 12
That only means you have both good connection and doing well.
Love is not about words, but feelings.
It is not measured how long you know each other- but you feel withe each other.
So, there is nothing wrong with it.
Take the chance and give love the best that you could offer.
@jambi462 (4576)
• United States
25 Jun 12
That's what I am doing, I just want to always be interesting to her and what to be able to continually bring her happiness. I'm just hoping that she is also feeling love for me and not just lust. When I love someone I put all of my heart into and I am willing to incorporate them into the rest of my life. I am not worried about there being a good connection right now, I am just hoping that we will continue to have that connection.
We definitely feel each other compassionately, we are overjoyed to sleep and cuddle together over night. I am so happy to wake up with her in the morning and have her snuggle into me and smile so big when I hold her. It's such a great feeling and I hope that I can continue to give her that feeling for as long as she desires. Thank you for your response.
@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
25 Jun 12
If she loves you the way you are and what you are then there's no need to worry for the excitement to die down. Just stay in love with her. Don't change anything at all. How you treat her now, treat her the same for always.
Girls appreciate men who stay in love with them and not only love them. To stay in love is to stay passionate.
@jambi462 (4576)
• United States
25 Jun 12
Thank you very much, I have really appreciated all of your advice that you have given me on my past couple discussions, for a man it really means a lot to get advice from a woman because I don't know what women are truly thinking. I got hurt really bad in my last relationship so I was definitely nervous sharing my feelings with her and getting close to her but now the hard part is done.
I love her so much and whenever I am with a woman I try to do the nicest things I can possibly do for them. I try to keep things passionate and show them that I love them. I shower them with compliments and I say what is on my mind. Like I said I just hope that she doesn't get bored with it since things are moving so fast. Either way I am incredibly happy to have her and I hope that we can stay together for as long as possible if not forever.
