What can you say about this kind of family?

@mobhomeir (7558)
Philippines
June 25, 2012 11:53pm CST
There's no such thing as perfect family because we all know there's no perfect here on this planet. No matter how good, nice and beautiful we appreciate anything there's really a thing missing obviously seen or unseen by other people around us. My own family is no perfect even though we are closed with each other,and so are you my friend because there's no really perfect family890- . I just don't understand this family I would describe to you; whatever you call after I will tell you, I would still appreciate it. I've known a family of 6 members - a mother and father of 4 siblings (2 males and 2 females). The father is a retired teacher and known ever since of being very strict, doesn't like any relatives to stay long on their house and only wants people that he can have always favor from them - none of their children like this old man (their father)and never wish to let their father stay with them when time comes because every one of their siblings afraid of this old man's attitude - nothing is spared even to all of his grandsons. The mother is the opposite of the father (her husband)- she is very friendly, politician-kind of attitude that everyone is her friend. But, she is the source of all gossip about the "odor" of her family itself; would that be craziness? Some parent would even hide whatever personal or private matters of their family concerns to hide their shame to some people and friends but, this mother is the opposite - she is the source. The only good thing about this mother is being forgivable. she plant no hatred whoever she had heavy arguments at. The eldest brother is really the duplicate of his father which is right enough to be called the junior (in his real name). The character of the father is also the same as the junior. The youngest of them all (who already got married)had a problem of where to stay after being vacated from their former house asked their parent to stay at them for a short time while they are still looking for their new house. Being the youngest of them all, she was the one (partly) taking care-of of all her nephews and nieces until they've grown up. Now, here's the moment where it's the turn of the youngest sister to ask help from them. Not totally and directly from them (the brethren) but only to stay for a short time to their parent's house. But, this all in vain. Majority of them rejected and refused to let their youngest sister stays.Instead they wanted us to vacate immediately. Where's the pity of these people? Where's the love of these people to their youngest sister? If this case happens to you, can you afford to reject to your sister who extended favors to you before? Let's say the youngest sister offended you and ask forgiveness would you be selfish to forgive and forget and help your youngest sister instead? These rhetorical questions brought up because these has not given to her ( youngest sister), instead they are all in one strongly rejected the stay of the family of their youngest sister. Would these be so disgusting and frustrating to the part of the youngest sister? What do you think the right description of this kind of family? Let's see your share.... Mobhomeir here 062612 1257hrs
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@asdomencil (4265)
• Philippines
26 Jun 12
I think the youngest daughter shuld be given a chance to live for the mean time in their house until they will find another one to live with her family. I guess that will be unfair for the daughter. On the other hand, her husband should be the one to look for their house or ask help from his own family if he can live their with his family.
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
26 Jun 12
You have an idea my friend but there are so many factors to be considered before separating momentarily until the husband finds a new residence. Honestly, the youngest sister is my wife and the rest of them is my in-laws. You're idea is good but as what I had said there are lots of things first to be considered before doing your idea...thanks for responding... appreciate it. Mobhomeir here 062612 2025hrs
• Philippines
27 Jun 12
Really. I think they should be fair enough for your wife to let you stay for a while in her parent's house until you finally find another one. Perhaps, they are just thinking that your stay there will took so long that's why they are not favor of living there. But I think, they should still consider that she is their daughter and they should help her in case she needs it.
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
26 Jun 12
here in Canada it is not a given just because you are family they will let you stay at their house. Couples have to fend for themselves, some parents help others don't it is just the way it is.
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
26 Jun 12
hi winterose I was really wondering where they put their hearts. I am not sure what kind of people they are or maybe not but an alien..so sad and frustrating my friend.. thanks anyway for responding.. Mobhomeir here 062612 2015hrs
• Philippines
27 Jun 12
If those are the kind of persons I'm going to stay with, I'd rather go to a hotel or a little inn. Do not be so affected with persons like them because you will only loose your senses asking why. Rather think more positively and enjoy life to your own liking. Negative people will only ruin you, so stay away from them and do right things to other people and they will do right things to you as well... Golden Rule!
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
26 Jun 12
dear Martin, You may find this too personal but may I know if the whole family has same faith/religion like yours? I know we cannot judge the whole congregation basing from this family alone. I don't understand exactly what kind of people they are. Where does compassion gone and don't they have any kindness left in their hearts? My family is not a perfect one ,but they never left me in my down moment. They are the one who lifted me when I needed them the most. I have my in-laws as well who never leave my side. My friend who never let me down. I have people around me who willingly extended their help without me asking or saying a word. And here is a family (the one you wrote) who sounds more than the wildest beast with a heart full of greed and bitterness. Yes,bitterness that's what I saw on them. Their hearts were full of bitterness that they want people around them to suffer the same. One more thing, the judgment in heaven is righteous enough to give what they deserves.
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
26 Jun 12
Hi my bonita I envy with your friends and relatives. Yes we have same religious affiliation and I don't know where they put what they've learned. I think they are parent from hell... Thanks anyway for responding.. Mobhomeir here 062612 2018hrs
@pahak627 (4558)
• Philippines
26 Jun 12
If I were on the shoes of that youngest sister, I would be hurt, frustrated and whatever adjective that can be described whenever we are rejected. I just thought that kind of attitude is impossible but because you discussed about it, I just realized that these kind of people really exist. My, we wanted to be with our family always because we can always go to our family for any help that we need. That family is not normal.
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
27 Jun 12
My wife said to my her mother that as soon as we got our new place to stay she would never comes back again on this house where we stayed that made her mother cried. That's what would I also do, I would never come back again and would never tell them where we live in our new place. Thanks for responding my friend... mobhomeir here 062712 0846hrs