Best friend

@dansazz (1058)
United States
June 26, 2012 3:08am CST
I have a best friend that I haven't seen in many many years. I was not in contact with him for many of those years, then I had contact for awhile, then no more. I don't know what the deal is, but I wish that he would just move back here so we could hang out again. He spent 6 years in the marines, then he kept jumping from woman to woman. That is one thing about him, he always puts women first in every regard. Your thoughts?
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@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
27 Jun 12
It is nice when you have a best friend. However i don't understand your talk yet, "he kept jumping from woman to woman" what does it mean?
@dansazz (1058)
• United States
27 Jun 12
It is nice. It means that he would have a woman for a couple months, then another, then a few months later another.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
29 Jun 12
Ah, i see, but they are friends only, right? I have some friends like that in here since i went back from Korea...they are foreigners living in here but sometime we are not in long friendships, just for short time because after that they maybe busy with their private life...
@dansazz (1058)
• United States
29 Jun 12
By have a woman, I mean lover not friend.
@desiree91 (515)
• Malaysia
2 Jul 12
He doesn't sound like he's being a best fried to you. Sometimes we don't understand the order of things and why people do things the way they do. This friendship perhaps doesn't meant to last in your life. I know it's sad, but you'll move on.
@dansazz (1058)
• United States
2 Jul 12
As I said, we haven't spoken in a long time.
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@sharie16 (2212)
• Philippines
26 Jun 12
Hi dansazz, My best friend and I rarely see each other, maybe every after 2 years before we'll have the time to meet, but that doesn't a hindrance to us nor a problem, since we still find ways to communicate, not often, but we find ways to have time to share any conversations through email or facebook. If we only have a choice to let people stay beside us, why not, but we have to find our own lives, we have to find careers, we have to explore, it really doesn't matter how far we are, what matters is that we remember those people to say hello or take care on our busy lives. It is not about forgetting it, but to treasure every memories we have with them, and through the redirection of our lives, we are given the opportunity to make friends to others also. For his being womanizer, I think that was given to some other men, you have to wait 'til they find the right woman for them before they settle down...Some men enjoy just like that, not knowing their hurting a lot of women...It's okay for some women who are into it, but how about those who are serious? I think men are just polygamous....
@dansazz (1058)
• United States
26 Jun 12
What is with the man bashing? is that really mature?
@GemmaR (8517)
26 Jun 12
I think that there are a lot of people who are obsessed with the thought of being in a relationship to the extent that they just try to get with as many as possible while they can. Unfortunately this can mean that their friendships are put to the test, but this is the point at which you will really know whether they're a true friend or not. If they are, then they will always be there for you when you actually need them to be, no matter what is going on in their life, and I really do think that this is the main thing that you have to consider when thinking about who a true friend is.
@dansazz (1058)
• United States
26 Jun 12
Yes well best friends are hard to come by.
@yanzalong (18987)
• Indonesia
27 Jun 12
One day he will be back to land an meet you. Most sailers are the same. They often have many women to fall in love with.
@dansazz (1058)
• United States
27 Jun 12
First off he was in the marines, if he heard you say that he would not be happy. Second he has been out for awhile. I don't think he has found love yet, he has just been with anyone that will have him.
• United States
26 Jun 12
If he is your best friend so you should know him, why you care that he changes woman to woman, I kind of think that's normal, that's guys!! Or you think he should priorities you?
@dansazz (1058)
• United States
27 Jun 12
I don't enjoy the sexist comment. I don't care about that, I just think that he should get some priorities together. He's a grown man now not a kid, time to act like it.
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
7 Jul 12
I think it is not good to go from one woman to another and most probably your friend will not find happiness in life by doing it. As a good friend most probably you can talk to your friend. I think it is always good to keep contact with your best friends in our lies.
@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
26 Jun 12
there are times when we get separated with our best friend or close friend. we are so used with that person that a day without him/her, we miss that person. there are times that we want that person back although it sounds ridiculous and serious at the same time. we are playing like kids again.
@dansazz (1058)
• United States
26 Jun 12
Not sure what you mean we are playing like kids again. It is normal to miss your friends.
@neerruu (134)
• India
7 Jul 12
if he would move back to your city then it won't b much fun to hangout together. it would be just a normal hangout. now you both are meeting after quite a time, you'll both have a lot to catch up and this will be totally fun. for some time you should also share his interest and do whatever he wants to do, it would be fun.