Tell me how can you not to cry when listening to the love songs?
By nicki320
@nicki320 (34)
China
June 26, 2012 9:34am CST
After a really bad relationship, well, I don't know if you guys call it a "relationship" cuz we didn't even hug or kiss each other, but somehow it left great impact on me. Several days after we broke up, everytime I listen to the love songs I feel sad and then cry like nobody's around me. And when I wake up in the morning, I feel so unhappy,like there's not any meaning to start a day. But after a while I feel it's alright. But next time still the same. Can anybody tell me how not to cry when listening to the music, anyway, it used to be a very enjoyable thing. Thanks.
2 responses
@zsarhea (302)
• Austria
26 Jun 12
HI! ALways remember that some lyrics of music are related to our situation so most of the time if we hear it we cry specially if it mean something for us... And of course musice gives meaning to our situation,reminding you of pains...specially sad musics. I would suggest to surround yourself with people who loves you,listen to jolly musics and try to meet new friends. It means move on...we wont feel pain if God new we couldnt handle it. God bless and hope for the best :)
@twigylondon (1)
•
27 Jun 12
i would say that listening to love songs and then crying in the end depends on how you feel about the songs. usually when you cry is when the song is sad and is talking about lost love. this can only happen if you were in love before. i have been in similar situation and when you here a song that depics the way you were feeling it can make you cry.
the other type of love songs is the ones that makes you understand it. this can only happen if you were in love before. the wordds to the songs begin to make so much sence.
its good to either experience pain or happiness with the help of songs. that is why we love certain songs and others that we dont.
@minnie0923 (136)
• United States
26 Jun 12
I wish there was an easy answer, but until you deal with the feelings of the relationship being over you will have a hard time listening to love songs. There are still songs that I listened to when I was with my first love that I still cry when I hear them. I try to listen to songs first that always make me laugh and I have noticed that I do not cry so much after I hear them.
