Is there a friendly shoulder in your life?

@Lore2009 (7378)
United States
June 27, 2012 12:21pm CST
When I am in the worst times of my life, I'd rather be with someone. But sometimes that someone can make the situation worse. Still, I'd rather be with them than be alone when I am really down in the dumps. What about you? Do you like it when someone is physically there with you when you are at your worst? Do you want to be left alone? Thoughts?
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@inertia4 (27960)
• United States
6 Jul 12
Well for me that would depend on the situation. If it was something that I felt needed someone to talk to, it would have to be someone special. otherwise I would handle it on my own. Most times though, I rather be left alone to think and deal with a situation. It seems to work better for me.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
2 Jul 12
Not so much a shoulder in my life. I guess my b/f but that is limited somewhat too. I am a very private person when it comes to my thoughts and moods sometimes. I like having someone around but not so much to talk to..just to be there.
@shello (964)
• United Arab Emirates
28 Jun 12
Everytime that I have problems and I am down, the first thing that I would do is talk to God. I know that each one of us has in it's own way of dealing our problems, and yes for me it's Him who is the first to seek. Somehow, after talking to Him I would always feel comforted and relieved.
@srjac0902 (1169)
• Italy
27 Jun 12
Its a phenomenon, I think the others agree, that is when we are sad, disappointed yes we do withdraw from the usual com pany, but as time passes by we search for someone to share with. But when we are diffedent, or when we have no proof of someone's true friendship then we keep ourselves alone from those whom we know. There are evidences that we dare to share at times with strangers, if we are attracted to that stranger
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
29 Jun 12
Sometimes you need to be alone when you encounter something,but sometimes we must tell someone to shoulder for you.You can not understake all the pain that caused to you.So just do what you want and really be happy.At least the moment you are enjoying.Have great day.