So I Should Lower The Price?
By Jennifer
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
Valdosta, Georgia
June 27, 2012 3:16pm CST
This girl wanted to buy a dresser and mirror set from me. I told her the price is $60 for both pieces, it is a really nice set. She said well can you take $45 because I live half an hour away and it takes that in gas? I said no, it is not my fault that you live that far away from me. I told her I'm sorry but we need the full price, it is well worth that price! I am getting SICK of people on Craigslist I swear, people try to scam you left and right. They always want something for nothing!
Should I have lowered my price because of her gas? Is that my problem? Or should she have found another dresser that is closer to her??
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22 responses
@AmbiePam (92551)
• United States
27 Jun 12
I don't think either one of you was wrong. You should stick to what you need to get for it, but if I were her I would have done that same thing. My motto is that it never hurts to ask. So I would have probably tried to get a lower price too. But then if I were you, I might have stuck to the bottom line as well. So I think both of you did what you had to do.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
27 Jun 12
Yeah, I just could not do it. No she wasn't wrong until she got rude with me about it when I said no. Then she was wrong and that is when I got annoyed about it. If she was that worried about the gas she should have looked for one closer to where she lives...
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
27 Jun 12
I do too, that is what annoyed me. I am a patient person but not when someone gets rude with me like that.
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@ladybug565 (2216)
• United States
27 Jun 12
I don't think you should have to lower the price because of the gas. If she wants the dresser and mirror she will pay the full price. when I list items for sale on craigslist I either state firm or if I am willing to go lower I state or best offer.
good luck.
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@ladybug565 (2216)
• United States
27 Jun 12
yes they defenatly do :) I imagine they figure it doesn't hurt to ask. good luck.
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
27 Jun 12
Honestly if you had been trying to sell this thing for months but with no luck and just wanted to get rid of it, yeah maybe. However it should be your choice and not hers. If she wants it so bad she should find a way to get it and not worry about the gas.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
27 Jun 12
Oh no I just put it on today actually. I am not in a big hurry to sell it, just need the money from it. But I am not lowering my price for her gas. Like I said, she could have found one closer to where she lives...
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@factorial (977)
• Philippines
28 Jun 12
So if she lives a thousand kilometers from your place, she might ask the dresser and mirror for free! What a logic! Just stay cool when you will meet such customers...
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
28 Jun 12
Yeah, it is not my problem or fault where she lives. She should have looked for one closer then. I did sell it today so I am happy about that! =)
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@911Ricki (13588)
• Canada
28 Jun 12
I sell and buy a lot of things aline. I want the most money then buy things for the least. If your willing to drop it better on my half, sucks to be you. Many will drop the price to get it gone, ill try to get the least total as possible if they won't budge and its not as low or I think the product isn't that much I won't buy it, now if I have to drive further I factor that ina nd the gas to lower the price. But many will ask way more then its worth. I have one lady asking a dog playpen was $150 and I knew they sold for $75 online. I tried getting in lower she got nasty and I shoved it in her face and walked away.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
28 Jun 12
Exactly, we buy and resell too. I know how it works and I think she was trying to be slick about it but she failed. She got snotty with me when I said no about lowering the price too. She knew where I was located, she should have found one closer to her then if she didn't want to pay for gas. I don't blame you for that one. But a 6 drawer dresser in perfect condition with the mirror to go on top for $60 is a good price. Most people were selling the same kind for $100 or more. I knew that because I always check prices on things before I sell it... But I did end up selling it today so stinks for her! Lol
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
28 Jun 12
I will work with people too if I know they are struggling or something but when your husband is in the military and you tell me your driving a brand new 4 door truck, I know you have plenty of money!! Lol. I am not stupid.
This one lady really wanted a jumpolene I had. I was asking $25 for it and she said I really cannot do more than $15, will you take that for it? I said yes. She was at our yard sale and she was driving a really bad looking car so I knew she really could not afford the full price.
I can definitely work with people if I feel like they deserve it... =)
@911Ricki (13588)
• Canada
28 Jun 12
If I want the item gone ill be leaning on the price. But if its good condition and I can have it sitting there then ill stick to the price. Usually I have to drive 20 - 40 minutes to a town so I factor do I really want it. I had one lady say $1 for a dvd (I won't it in a contest for free) but seriously no it was worth $15 in store - it was new unopened. I ended up getting $8 out of her. The same lady made an offer on a handful of items worth $50 I asked $30 she was trying for $8 I refused (I don't need it gone that badly). I try to meet people half way but I work so much so its hard. I had a lady send me some nasty fb message saying how I need to work with people (I'm sorry of all they do is stay home, and have all the time in the world I work 3 jobs).
@psychoartist (756)
• United States
28 Jun 12
hi lovingmybabies...i think you were right in your decision, i mean the person probably knew how far away you lived when she originally found out about the furniture...too true, you really have to watch out for people who are grasping and dishonest...i hope that you have success with someone else and get the price you are asking!
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@GardenGerty (160642)
• United States
27 Jun 12
I think that you are reasonable in your pricing. If you can afford to do it hold off until you can get the full price.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
27 Jun 12
Thank you GG. I actually have someone interested in buying it tomorrow. I just felt like that lady had some nerve. And then got snotty with me when I would not lower the price... Ugh.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
27 Jun 12
I forgot to mention when I started the discussion that this is a 6 drawer real wood dresser with no damage at all!
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
28 Jun 12
I stood my ground because she could have found one closer to her if she didn't want to spend money in gas. I sold it to someone today so I am happy about that! =)
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@choybel (5042)
• Philippines
28 Jun 12
Sounds like a typical negotiating line to me. I'd probably use that one when I want to get a discount as well. I say stay firm and wait. If that person really wants it, he or she will buy it, if not I believe there will be others willing to pay for it.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
28 Jun 12
Yeah I was not lowering the price since it was a cheap deal as it was. Someone bought it today so I am happy about that!
@schulzie (4061)
• United States
28 Jun 12
I think you did the right thing. You shouldn't have to lower the price because someone lives far away from you and has to spend extra for gas to get to you. I fully understand when I go to buy something from someone that if they're far away I will have to spend more to get the item. Heck I even rented a truck from Home Depot once to pick up some furniture that was the right price AND I drove over 40 miles each direction to pick it up.
So, again, you did the right thing.
Have a great day and happy myLotting!!!!
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
28 Jun 12
Thank you. I thought I did the right thing too. If something is farther away from me I figure in gas in the price. If it isn't worth it I just would not get it, but I would not ask them to lower the price for me! That is just crazy. And then get mad when the person says no! Stupid...
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@blue65packer (11826)
• United States
28 Jun 12
I just don't like the idea of anyone selling and buying off Craglist! You never know what you will meet and find! I think it would be safer to sell on EBAY! That is just my opinion! With the dresser and mirror you are selling you did what you thought was right.
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
28 Jun 12
I am very careful about selling things, my husband is always home when anyone comes here to protect me. I have been doing it so long I am don't even think about it anymore. I understand the concern though, if I didn't do it all the time I would be worried too. Lol.
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@marguicha (222890)
• Chile
28 Jun 12
The price of gas or how far they live has nothing to do with what you are charging for the goods. It`s absolutly absurd that you should pay for the shipping, if it`s not in the deal.
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
28 Jun 12
I agree with you that it has nothing to do with how far she lives. That is not my fault. She should make sure it is close to her if she doesn't want to pay for gas... I didn't pay for shipping, she lives 30 minutes away from here, she wanted me to lower my price because of what she has to pay in gas...Like I said not my problem at all. It sold today thank goodness! =)
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@stanley777 (9402)
• Philippines
28 Jun 12
I think that your price is fair enough and you should not lower it for any reason. Price of dresser now a days are not getting lower. We know that there are some buyers who will do anything just to have a discount. If that buyer of your's is really interested to have that set she will pay the full price without any condition. Anyway stick with your price, I know there are other customer who are much more willing to pay you price.
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@stanley777 (9402)
• Philippines
29 Jun 12
I'm happy that the dresser had been sold. Yeah, some buyers will say anything to persuade sellers to give in to their desired price, but if all prospective buyers have the same reasoning the probability of having the merchandise they like is nil.
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
28 Jun 12
Dressers are a lot of money now a days! Especially a 6 drawer wood one with a mirror on top. My price was pretty cheap compared to others on there!
I know, some people will say anything to try to get a lower price. It is crazy.
Yes, I stuck with the price and I sold it today! =)
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@chicgale (2982)
• Philippines
27 Jun 12
No, don't lower the price. There might be another interested buyer who live near you. It happened to me twice on Facebook since I am selling clothes, and they haggled the price too much coz they have to pay the shipping cost, but I said NO because they should know that I live far away from me and I can still find another buyer who are willing to buy my clothes.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
27 Jun 12
I am not lowering it. I have someone interested in buying it tomorrow so I know it is a reasonable price for it. I had several emails and calls about it already. Your right, if one does not want to buy it someone else will...
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
28 Jun 12
That is exactly how I felt too. I have other people interested in it so I would not lower the price because she doesn't want to come out here. People always want something for nothing...
@apples99 (6556)
• United States
27 Jun 12
No you should not have to lower the price, I think that it's your items to sell and when selling it's your right to price the item at the rate you feel is fair
Sorry that the buyer had issues getting over to the location to pick up the item, but it's not your fault and it's not something the buyer should concern you with
But on the other hand it can depend on how bad you want to sell the items if you don't mind shaving off that much to make a profit it's entirely your call, but you don't have to lower the rate unless you feel that making a lesser profit is still worthwhile.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
27 Jun 12
I agree I should not have to but she got rude with me over it. Oh well.
That is how I felt, it is not my fault you did not choose a closer location to find an item to buy. Not my fault or problem.
Well today was the first day I had it on there and I have someone supposedly coming tomorrow to get them so I am not worried about it. Thanks for understanding! =)
@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
27 Jun 12
I agree with you on this one. Like you say, it's not your fault the woman lives half an hour away and who knows if she's even telling the truth about that? She could just be lying in order to get the price down. Even if she does live half an hour away I can't see the gasoline costing her $15 unless she drives an SUV lol..and if she DOES drive one of those she can afford the $60 for your lovely dresser and mirror!
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
27 Jun 12
Thank you. I am glad some see what I was trying to say. If she wanted something closer than she should have found a dresser closer to where she lives. Plus, like you said how do I really know that she is traveling from there? No, the gas should not cost $15 and if it does your absolutely right she CAN afford to pay for the dresser then! Lol. Some people annoy me.
@inertia4 (27960)
• United States
6 Jul 12
What you should have done was put the price higher, then you would have had some haggle room. I would have listed it at maybe 100 dollars or 75 dollars. That way if someone was to say, "well, 100 seems too high, what about 75?" Then you would have gotten more then you wanted to get. Always price things higher. And in the end you will get either the amount you are really looking for or more. Don't lower that price. That seems cheap already.
@surveychick4 (380)
• United States
27 Jun 12
I'm going to teach you a little something about life right now. That is just "Game" being ran on you. No, that is not your responsibility. That is what a person with game knowledge will do. They will try to negotiate a price lower for them. What you should have did is if you wanted sixty in your pocket, then you should have made the price around eighty. So when she said she does not have the gas, then you could have pretended to lower the price, and it would have been a little over sixty. That is how selling works. Always ask for higher than what you really want in case someone comes with that bull.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
27 Jun 12
That is how I felt as well, they are trying to get something for nothing, or in this case less.
At yard sales I do that, especially with one lady that constantly tries to talk me down. If I want $5 for it I tell her $10 because I know she will ALWAYS talk me down on things...
From now on I am going to do that. I will set a higher price and let them try to lower me.
I didn't think it was really my problem about her gas, she was just trying to get a "better" deal. Too bad it didn't work! Lol.
I have someone that is supposed to buy them tomorrow. =)
@doroffee (4222)
• Hungary
27 Jun 12
Lots of people are scammers, cheapskates and idiots on sites where they can buy stuff. It's not your fault she has to drive and pay for gas. You need that money, and if you're selling it for 60, there IS a reason for it, because it is worth that. My boyfriend does some trading and selling on a local site, and people are so nitpicky. He is in the record business, and there are some people looking for certain records... they tell him to get this and that record (like really rare ones), and then say that he should give to them half price because they are loyal customers (they bought stuff from him ONCE... that I wouldn't call loyal)... and there was someone, too, who wanted a lower shipping price, because "5 years ago, when I bought something last time, the shipping was lower in the post office"... 5 years ago... either she was really smart and calculating to try to make my boyfriend fall for it, or just ignorant or really dumb if she doesn't know about inflation or price raises...
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
27 Jun 12
I agree there are too many scammers out there now a days.
That is what I was saying, how is it my fault where she lives? She should have found a dresser closer to her then.
Exactly, you get what you pay for most of the time. I need that amount and cannot afford to take less and it is well worth $60 for a 6 drawer wood dresser and the mirror to go with it!!
Oh, I absolutely hate the whole loyal customer act! Ugh, that gets on my nerves. We have dealt with that too because we buy and resell things. Yeah seriously prices DO go up after 5 years! How stupid!! People absolutely amaze me sometimes. LOL.