Is he a psycho, retarded, crazy or what?
By elguardian
@elguardian (353)
Malaysia
June 28, 2012 12:56pm CST
A girl friend of mine met a guy from facebook. It happens that this guy is also a friend to a friend of ours. Kinda like mutual friends. Well, he seems nice at first. So my girl friend don't mind accepting his friendship. The crazyness starts even on the first date, when this guy starts to tell my girl friend about his feelings. Kinda like love at first sight. Well, that's acceptable. The only thing that is not acceptable was his lustiness, hands very itchy if you know what i mean. Another thing is, this guy is like super jealous type. I've know this girl friend of mine for almost 5 years. We've been friends for ages. I see my friend more as a best friend than a girlfriend material. Even me commenting or posting sweet - sweet words on her facebook wall cause this psycho to go jealous even after my girl friend explained to him who i really am and i bet if my girl friend is given a choice between a friend whom she knew for 5 years and can guarantee her safety (as in no hanky panky naughty stuff) to a guy whom she just met a few days or weeks, i bet my salary for 1 whole year she would rather follow me. As i was saying about the facebook comments, this psycho end up cut a love shape on his own hand, (cutting kinda like the ones we always see associated with emo stuff), and write my girl friend name next to the cuttings. Took a picture of his own hand bleeding and send it as MMS to my girl friend saying "because of jealous i became crazy and did this".What should i do?I fear for my friend safety. When i hear this psycho do this and threaten her, i might get psycho myself and find this guy and deal with him.
8 responses
@chicgale (2982)
• Philippines
28 Jun 12
This guy is crazy! Tell your friend to stay away from this guy before it's too late coz he might hurt her someday if he gets too jealous. But the prob is, crazy people will find ways how to follow your friend. I fear for your friend that this crazy guy will do something bad to your friend. Just tell your friend to be safe..
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Exactly!@elguardian (353)
• Malaysia
29 Jun 12
Yes i did, i told her, if this psycho wants to bring her out again, she will say things like busy, can't, no or just lazy going out. Just hope this psycho realised what he's doing before it's too late. I might get psycho myself and deal with him personally. Kidding, well police is still the best solution.
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@surfer222 (1714)
• Indonesia
28 Jun 12
Why is it today many people meet psycho on facebook? I think not a while ago i've read in a forum where a guy met a girl on facebook and date for about a week, then the girl ask him money to make a tattoo of a turtle, suddenly he found out on facebook that what she really done is make a tattoo of his face on her arm. Then he realize that he date a psycho girl, he then wanted to break up with her but suddenly she was thinking that there's another girl.
Maybe facebook isn't really a place to meet new people.
Btw i think your friend need to go to the police and bring that photo and tell them the whole story. If you think you can help your friend deal with this guy, then do it, but remember that when dealing with psycho, you need to be ready for a life threatening situation.
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@elguardian (353)
• Malaysia
29 Jun 12
For now, the situation is still manageable, but i constantly remind my friend to be extra, i mean super extra safe. I've told her, if suddenly this psycho appeared 3a.m in the morning near her house, just give me a call and i'll reach there faster than silversurfer. I had a heart break too. I almost did the same as in, wanting to go away and leave everything and everyone behind, but i didn't for i realised it is useless. And the reason i didn't do stupid crazy thing when my own relationship fell apart was also because this girl friend of mine who was there constantly helping me heal along the way. Now it is my turn to help her out from her own heartbreak that happened in April and also it's my turn to help her out from this psycho.
@apoljuice1 (730)
• Philippines
29 Jun 12
That's scary. I once got into a relationship with a guy like that. He didn't do any bodily harm to himself, but he was very possessive and he was also the jealous type. He even got mad at me because I went to see a movie with my cousin and his friends. I thought he must be crazy if he thinks people do things with their first cousins (Most people might, but it isn't something that usually happens).
Your friend can actually use that against him by telling him that she doesn't go out with guys who wear tattoos or cut themselves up. Yeah, I know it's a lie. But basically, she has to get out of that relationship. It would be good if she can change him for the better, and if she would want to change him for the better. I mean, that is if she would want to take a chance at making him better. But he's got to stop doing that weird stuff. She has to tell him straight up that if he becomes jealous of anyone, that relationship has sailed.
It would probably also be good that you back her up and tell that guy that if he so much as does anything to her, you will be there to make sure he pays for it. It sounds mean, but it would be good to put him in his place. And you can be sure that he won't try anything funny if you let him know that someone is still watching after your friend.
@PageTurner (2825)
• United States
28 Jun 12
Hello elguardian
I hope that your friend can get away from this person. I fear that things may not end well for her if she does not. Does this person know where she lives? I hope not.
How does your girl friend feel about this person?
Peace
@elguardian (353)
• Malaysia
28 Jun 12
Apparently yes he knows where she lives. It was out of mutual understanding of wanting to be friend and make friend. She allowed him to pick her up at her house. My girl friend just broke up with her ex boyfriend around 2 months ago so she is still in a recovery mode. Getting to know new people and making friends is part of healing. Little did she know it will end up like this. I fear for her as well and trust me if something goes wrong i'll go psycho myself.
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@PageTurner (2825)
• United States
28 Jun 12
Yes, making new friends is part of the healing process. It is too bad that she met this guy. I do fear for her safety and I hope that all ends well. Also, I hope that you aren't hurt.
Peace
@divinesanz (23)
• Philippines
29 Jun 12
Before anything else, does anyone else know about that situation? Like his parents, relatives or even friends knew it? You know its kinda black-mailing... as in duh? a guy will do that? If so, he's really a psycho. All you have to do is to call 911 or report it to the police officer for your friends safety as well as yours.
@psychoartist (756)
• United States
29 Jun 12
hi elguardian! as a person who has studying psychos for years, and met and got away from some myself, i agree that this person is a psycho! it is fortunate for your friend that she has you to help her, and that she trusts you...it is also a good thing that you know about the situation...a lot of times people get into this kind of trouble and their friends and family do not know anything about it until too late...this is scary and you and your friend need to take it seriously and take steps to remove this person from her life...please watch out for your friend carefully...this reminds me of creepy movies from the lifetime television for women or this crime show my father-in-law and i watched together called "snapped"...
@desiree91 (515)
• Malaysia
29 Jun 12
That fellow, he has his own issues. Broken family or something. Call the police. I don't think you can protect her completely. The guy knew where she lives.
This is why you shouldn't meet people you knew from Facebook.
