The worst thing to do to break someones heart is to....

This reminds me of the song entitled "The Psst". Anyway, I just think that it is really wrong to break someone's heart especially if it's someone you love and share this love with. As for your situation, I guess the best thing to do right now is to be patient and understanding. Some people are like this, I know I sometimes am, angry at somebody for the wrong reason. It's a wrong displacement of anger, probably not very common but still occurs in some situation. I know you are hurt right now but if you could find it in your heart to see him as the man who loves you and not for what he is doing now, then maybe he will realize sooner that he is being arrogant and stupid. Later when things calm down though you should have a nice talk with him. Just tell him that you love him and you understand what he went through but ask him please not to displace his anger on you because it could affect your relationship. Show him that you still care about him and about the relationship and that you would not want something just like this to ruin something so good. Good luck and I do hope everything turns out good for the both of you.

They say that the hot head could only be soothed by a cold head. If you really love the person, then you just ignore him and think of it as a way of him coping with his anger. However, if he sleeps with someone or does something intentionally to hurt you, then that is something immature and shows you that he's not ready for your love. If this is the case, then the best thing to do is to leave. I know I'm quite direct, but why should you suffer if you didn't do anything wrong? Why should he listen to you or talk about it if you're not the one he's angry with? It's so immature and I don't think you should tolerate that type of attitude. Better keep your distance from these sorts of people because you'd only be wasting your time waiting for them to be mature. However, if he's just ignoring you because he's angry about something. Provided he didn't sleep with anyone else, neither did he lay a hand on you or insulted you, simply just ignoring you for now because he's angry. Then keep your cool and steer clear his way, he's just trying to control his feelings and there will be times when he would be furious and wouldn't want to do with anyone as of the moment. But if it goes on for weeks or months, then you have no more reason to stay. Keep relationships simple with less drama. Have a great MyLot experience ahead!

Hai friend... In my opinion,you don't want to worry by thinking such things..You know that he loves you..then why you are getting worry??? Just relax..And think about the thing that how to reduce his attitude.wait for the moment that your husband treat you in a good manner..Don't worry..You just do what is a wife's duty and wait for his change..May god bless you my dear friend..

Oh yes what you mentioned are the sure ways to break the heart of your love ones.. think I am feeling guilty now, for breaking the heart of a person I don't have sound reason... cheating is the worst thing that could break a heart into pieces. Now that you know how hard it is, please don't ever think to revenge by doing silly thing. Real love doesn't count the mistakes of your love one. Just be patient and understand him and everything will works fine.

That you can break someones heart is on the premise that this person still love or care about you. If he or she even pay no attention to you, whatever you did to yourself to make youself look pathetic is useless.

well lets start off my saying two wrongs don't make a right,but if your truly wanting to get back at him you could be very very nice and that would make him mad trust me i know i'v done it.

Hi! Your friend apparently erroneously got mad at you, when there was not any fault on your part. I think he needed to be given benefit of doubt and will soon realize his mistake. Taking revenge is not advisable. If you also do some nasty or unpleasant thing to make him feel uncomfortable, what will be the difference between you and him? I think you should let it go and give him other opportunity, if he repeats his folly, then you could start ignoring him/could stop 'communicating' with him (for few days). All the best.

If I were you i would not cheat on this man. You are so pissed with him for this sure. But,you have no reason to break this man in two like your thinking about doing. just ignore him rigth back when he starts to talk to you. i think it is childish to behave like this. but,I would rather this over cheating on him.

Sometimes we need to do things. It is just the way it is. We need to do. It is that simple. When it comes to a heart though that is something I think we should leave be. Sure we get hurt and we will hurt others but I think breaking a heart is not something we should think about. Our hearts are entwined and hurting one will hurt the other.

I think your story is sad enough for me. Hope your parents will be alright, and the problem will be solved. In my opinion, ignoring people that love you so much is maybe the worst. When you actively loving someone, and he/she don't SEE it, yes, its feels bad. But intentional ignoring people, is very bad I think.. :( GBU. Hope your problem will solved ASAP.

If there's one thing I learned in life, it's that pride will make you both lose. You will lose your relationship to one another and you will hurt one another. I know you must be very angry with what your partner's doing. But sometimes, you just have to understand why your partner is being very angry with your friend, and what reason there is for your partner to be very angry with you for being friends with that person. Did you stick up for that person? Did you try to explain the situation to him? Maybe your partner is just being immature. But paying him back for his anger will not solve anything. You will be adding another problem to the present problem. You have to learn mastering your anger, and look deeper that what you see on the surface. How often has this happened? Is your partner being very irrational about it? Maybe your partner has a point. Just ignore him while he's ignoring you for a while. And when he's cooled down, then talk to him and learn more about where all this is coming from. That way, you can also explain to him where he went wrong, and what you could both do to make the situation better.