is nice to have many girlfriends and wifes?

I think that having one spouse is plenty. Trying to take care of one spouse and understand one another is difficult enough. For a person to have more than one wife it would be very difficult to show that personal interest and to support them all. It is crazy to think that their are still people who have so many wives.

"in asia have one girlsfirend or wife is not easy" - You mean it is difficult to have JUST one girlfriend or wife, or it is difficult to have EVEN one girlfriend or wife? I wouldn't say that it is EXCITING to have many girlfriends or wives if it is a love relationship that you are talking about. If you are referring to making fun, yes, it is exciting as you would have many choices, just like you would feel when you enter a good amusement park with so many different types of games. But those dolls are not your love - or precisely they are in love with your money, not you. To meet someone that you love is fateful. It is not easy or difficult. When it happens it happens.

Well i have only 1 girl friend till now,...and i am very happy with it...she will be my wife...i don't want anyone else as my gf or wife..that decision may change from person to person...many have many gfs or they may change after some time..nothing wrong in it..but that depends on persons...Also in teenage,every one like to have many gfs....I have lots friends who are girl but only 1 gf...

Well,i think this is not the culture is our country.And of course i'm not accustomed to that.For i think love is blind but also selfish,it's definitely hard for me to accept someone to share the same husband with other women.lol,not possible.But it's another country's system,just keep respective to them.

Hi friend, it is not a good manner to have more than a wife. We must be loyal to our wife. If you have lot of girl friends and wife and cheating them, you don't have a peaceful life and suffer with a lot of health issues for your bad manners. Having a lot of GF and wife is based on the individual wish, but a person who have more than a wife or gf, surely don't have a good and peaceful life.

Even if you have many girlfriends and wives the truth is you can only became deeply in love with one of them. In western culture it is rather easy to get a girlfriend compare to Asian countries so western guys didn't have a challenge. In asian countries no matter how the girl likes you there is still tradition and custom and usually the girl have strict parents so guys have a hard time on even meeting the girl.

That is not exciting but full of heart aches. Yes it is fun if you know that you are love by many but to have them as your wife or girlfriends? I don't think that there is real love in that thinking. Any decent man or woman wouldn't choose such kind of relationship.

I am not sure, this is difficult to afford one in this high costs age and you are talking about many. I think you must be talking about some one with lots of money and spare time. True in some particular religions they allow to have more than one wife but they too are not happy with this trend.

Where did you learn that in Asia, having one girlfriend or wife is not easy? Anyway having many girlfriends or wives is not a measurement on how manly you are even though you may say that it has more responsibility to took care of. Sticking to a one girl you love is enough to prove yourself, which is harder responsibility.

Well I would say one is expensive enough to maintain. For economical reasons alone, some people might prefer to have one or none. But if you can afford it, and your love equipment can handle it, then there probably would be nothing wrong with having more than one wife. Except of course, it might not quite be as intimate, as instead of that one special person whom you share everything with, there are now two persons who you don't know whom you shared what with.

Now-a-days its difficult very difficult to get a girl friend. Todays girls are very modern and we boys have to do something extraordinarily to impress girls.Truly saying till now i didnt get even a single girl friends. Hope you guys will understand my feeling

no to many girlfriends and wives.they are not considered here in my country and i dont accept it either.i prefer to have a one an only.