10 (or 5) Things to Assist Aged/Disabled Peoples

I grew up under the guidance and care of my grandparents. As they care for me during my growing up years, I had the privilege of observing how the aged people are. Here are some recommendations from me: 1. Treat them with all respect. We live in a modern and fast-paced world, but keep in mind that aged people were reared in the past. The period they grew up with is a lot different where we are living right now. They may have beliefs and hobbies which may seem ridiculous to us, but we must still respect them as they are. This specially applies to demented aged people. Although they may have lapses in memories, you must never take advantage over their condition. At all times! 2. Let them do the things they want. A common misconception about old people is that they are too weak to do certain tasks. Sometimes, we do not notice that grabbing tasks from them weakens their self esteem. So as much as possible, do not interfere with what they are doing. You can volunteer, but never do it in such an aggressive way. Just make sure that the task is simple and is within the old people's capability. If you feel that such task is not within their skills, just assist them in a manner that does not embarrass them. 3. Talk. Aged people are always neglected. Most often, their relatives are busy working and just does not have the time to sit down and chat. When you have vacant time, sit down and chat with them. Let them share their experience. It is with aged people that we get most of life's wise thoughts. 4. Make room for decisions. Letting aged people decide on simple things and matters boosts their self-worth and confidence. When their decision is in conflict with yours, present your ideas in a manner that does not intimidate or damage their ego. 5. Look up to them! When seen in public, please do not look at them like they appear to be pathetic. Aged people can be sensitive. Kindly look at them with sincerity and a beaming look implying how you are grateful that they have come to this age. When you see aged people, be helpful. But most of all, keep in mind, that we may not be able to reach the life experience that they had!