i just want her to be fine
@constantinez19 (232)
India
July 1, 2012 4:14pm CST
I have a girlfriend and we are in a relationship from past one and a half years. she really loves me very very much and i also love her too much, i love her so much that i can't explain. When our relationship started i just came to know that she has tuberculosis. Its the second stage of tuberculosis. Now all i am concern is with her health, i just want her to be perfectly fine because i just can't see her suffer so much. I pray every single minute that she gets fine as soon as possible.
Everyday i am just telling her to take her medicine at time as its a one year course so everyday i tell her to take medicine and have rest as much as she can but she every time says that she wants to meet me , wants to go out with me , watch movie, spend time with me. Even i want that. I love spending time with her. When i am with her i just cant see anyone else in front of me instead of her. I just want her. But since doctors have said her to have complete rest , i just keep telling her that she should have rest and i just keep saying no that we cannot meet. Even i want to but i cant because it will make her suffer , so due to which she just says that you don't want me anymore, you don't love me any more even i know she does not mean. She knows how much i love her. but i just want her to be perfectly fine. What should i do, i wish i would be a doctor so that i could cure her fastly.
4 responses
@nyssa102 (748)
• United States
6 Jul 12
Oh my, you are such a prince...such an angel. Let me just say that I hope all works out for you. My heart is bleeding for you right now, to have someone you love and cherish with such devotion, yet you must leave them to rest. I do have one concern that perhaps you should bring up to the doctors. Please, remind them that is she is hot happy not being able to see you, that his might hinder her return to full health. It has been noted, that happy people heal faster, those who laugh even more so. To keep you too apart, is not the best idea I fear. You have to bring this up to the doctors to let them know that the distress she is feeling being apart from you can slow up her return to complete and sound health. If she continues to believe that you do not want her anymore, I know she does not really think this, but believe me, when you are ill, the pain augments your other emotions, for good or worse. Think of having a doctor speak with her about the benefits of having you let her rest, then perhaps, she could see things with that vision. I know I'm repeating what most have suggested already, in different words perhaps, but still, do what it takes to make her feel loved whenever you do have contact with your angel. My best to you, truly, and please, have an excellent day!
@constantinez19 (232)
• India
6 Jul 12
We talk on the phone for hours and i always tell her to speak less so that she doesn't gets tired or have any kind of problem, i try to make a good environment on phone, i every time make her laugh , i tell her how much i love her . But she just wants to be with me every time, which is not possible , we both have to do something in our life's, achieve goals, and even i want to be with her, and that's what makes her stressed that i am not with her, i tell her that i am with her, and i'll always be with her.
Love is really beautiful and i love to be in love!! I never knew that what we see in movies is just not fake every time, it exist in real life too, true love stories!!
@TheIzers (680)
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4 Jul 12
I am sorry about your girlfriend. I think it's better if you see her once a while like every two weekend just give her visit and see her spend time together wihtout going anywhere that could make her tired. Maybe just do something fun together around the house like reading or cooking or whatever activities that interest her or just enjoying evening together watching movie. It will make her and you happy, being happy will good for her health too. By not seeing her at all it makes her worry, and worry too much leads to unhealthy life. Good luck and wishes her to get well soon.
@constantinez19 (232)
• India
4 Jul 12
I just give my best to visit her, i try my best to make her happy in any way i can.
We mostly talk on the phone whole day and all i try is to make her happy, avoiding any kind of fights which gives her stress. I can't see her in pain that's why i just make her happy and even doctor have suggested to stay away from any kind of stress.
I am sure she will get fine soon.
@choybel (5042)
• Philippines
1 Jul 12
It must be very hard for the both of you to be in this kind of relationship, especially after being in it for more than a year now. I can't imagine how I would feel if I was in your situation with my girlfriend. I believe that your primary concern must be, as you also believe, her health so the best thing to do is to let her do what her doctor say, rest and medication. You could maybe visit her or send her flowers, text messages, even videos, reminding her how you really love her and explaining to her how much you would want her to get well fast so as you both can do things together again. Right now, you must serve as her motivation to fight this sickness. you must be her strength. Your prayers and faith must be strong.
I wish you all the best.
@lafredricktaylor (256)
• United States
1 Jul 12
First off i want to say i hope that everything works out for you. I can tell that you really do love this woman. And if i were in that situation, i think when she got to the point of saying that you didnt care or didnt want to be with her anymore, you should let her know that you care more than she will ever know. And let her know why you are doing the things you are. It lets them know that you are paying attention and you feel her pain. Try making a home scene that she will love. Instead of going out to eat..cook dinner for her, or get her favorite movie and have movie night.
@constantinez19 (232)
• India
4 Jul 12
Yes mate, i really do love her, and she knows that i love her very much and she loves me too, but she just wants to meet me and when i say no then she says that you don't love me anymore even she knows that i love her and i am saying no for her benefit.
I kind of avoid fights and really try to create a home scene, a happy scene between us.
