My mother and I always argue..

July 2, 2012 11:52am CST
Me and my mom always argue about cheap household stuff. I wonder why? but I love her so much. It's just that, sometimes, I need to express my opinion too, but really, I want to keep myself from answering back when we argue. What should I do to refrain from answering back? It breaks my heart to see her crying..
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4 responses
• India
6 Jul 12
Hi friend, sad to hear about this. you are really an affectionate person, you have the ability to control your anger, as you mentioned that you don't have the ability to see your mother's cry, so let her to do the things as per her wish
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
6 Jul 12
Do you want to know what could keep you from arguing with your mother? Well just think ahead and consider yourself a mother few years from now. Would you not cry if your own child argues and answers back to you the way you do to your Mom now? Consider the fact that history repeats itself. If you can't control your mouth from arguing with your Mom then expect your children to be the same and surely when it happens you will remember how you broke your Mom's heart with that very same attitude. Moms or should I say parents are not always right but they always deserve to be respected. Arguing with them is a lack of respect. Remember that even God himself commanded this "Honor thy father and they mother.." So would you?
• Philippines
2 Jul 12
hi ruztiboy, it is good you don't answer back maybe you can talk to her about your opinions when everything is settle and calm so this way you can both talk calmly. Mother is still a mother and they can give us unconditional love in any cost we must love, respect and understand them. happy mylotting
@lifes97 (884)
• United Arab Emirates
2 Jul 12
who does not, we all do that is normal to argue we have aour opinions and they most of the time are the opposite to ours and thats normal since they are age is not like us and their days are not like ours. so it is normal but do not let that reach fight