i just don't get it
By Suebee
@Suebee (2013)
Canada
July 2, 2012 12:48pm CST
Perhaps someone could explain it to me. I just don't get what the attraction or appeal is in following the lives of celebrities. All the magazines making a fortune writing about the lives of celebrities or even the royals, what they're doing, where they're going, what they're wearing, who is dating whom, who is cheating, who is having kids, who is getting divorced, separated, what they're eating, who is gay, who is doing drugs etc etc etc.
Why do people read this stuff? What is the appeal in following someone else's life? They're just people like you and me. Why do the so-called "ordinary" people waste time and money reading magazines and such about other people?
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19 responses
@wolveren (1586)
• Cebu, Philippines
2 Jul 12
I think these people just need something to do apart from the mundane worthless things they are doing like work, raising brats or whatever. I personally don't give a whack about celebrities' lives. It's their life and I have no business in it. I like a lot of celebrities for their talents, but I don't think I need to know all about them. When I watch the news and they have this section about celebrities lives, I switch to a different channel. In the papers I skip the celebrity buzz section. It's not just about celebrities you know. That why I don't have much activity on facebook. If I did, I couldn't get any work done at all if I had 200 friends to be meddling with. I'm not that rude or insensitive either, when I see the headlines that some actress just had a baby boy, that's enough for me. I just think to myself congratulations on your having a baby, I don't bother to read the details. It's also like that wrestling thing on tv. Pretty much fake and all scripted, I used to do a lot of martial arts and when I kick someone in the face they stay down and they go to the hospital. But I guess people just need something to watch even if they know it's fake. In a nutshell, it's all just publicity done by the networks, papers, movie producers and whatever to get their business going and yes a lot of people fall for that, which is good for their business. If makers of the iphone say, there's an app for that. I say, there's a sucker for this gimmick.
@wolveren (1586)
• Cebu, Philippines
2 Jul 12
It's only mundane when you don't like your work or fail to see the value in raising a child. Some people forget the joys of these and when they lose that they are looking for something to distract them from it. Thus, they'd try anything like looking out for celebrity buzz. I think your keyboard gets stuck. Mine does sometimes.
@PointlessQuestions (15397)
• United States
2 Jul 12
I think it is just a matter of preference. I'm a Johnny Depp fan. I'm not really into reading about him though, but I know my daughter is. My daughter loves reading about all of her favorite stars. Not that she wants to be like them, but because she is just interested in what they are doing.. what's important to them, who they love etc.
After all, celebrities are people too. Some have trouble with weight gain. Kirstie Ally got up to over 300 pounds, I think.. from what the tabloids said... and she lost weight AGAIN... which reminds me of so many of us that have issues with weight.
They aren't royalty.. they are just people who people think of as a type of royalty.. but in reality they are just people who were fortunate enough to have a career in show business.
Almost everyone likes to gossip, or look into other people's lives.. it's no different with celebs.
@PointlessQuestions (15397)
• United States
2 Jul 12
Oh Suebee, I'm sorry... you must be across the pond from us. I'm in the States... and didn't realize you were talking about real royalty..hehe.
@Suebee (2013)
• Canada
2 Jul 12
Oh no, PQ, by royalty I meant Prince Charles, Prince William etc as in the royal family. There are a lot of people who like to read about them and follow their activities as well.
You may be right about it being based on people who like to gossip and look into others lives.
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@joliefille (3690)
• Philippines
16 Jul 12
Often we are attracted at something or with someone because the unconscious recognizes the thing or that person we are attracted to have the qualities we seek in our selves.
@lampar (7584)
• United States
2 Jul 12
The few reasons i can think of why those people like to read stuff like this is because either they have idle minds that like to read about all those gossips printed in this type of magazines, or they are just incapable of reading more in depth and academic type of prints that require higher personal intellectual ability other than magazine that gossip about royalty and celebrity. Or it can be just a very simple reason that due to lower level of intelligence, this type of readers get attracted to royal or celebrity gossip magazine is that it doesn't require plenty of brain cell inside a reader to understand its content and it is simple n easy enough to follow through from page to page.
You are right, this type of magazine is making a big profit out of these people, i guess those readers have too much $$ and time in hand to spend and waste on it, it is just difficult to understand how the mind of fools work in reality.
@lampar (7584)
• United States
5 Jul 12
May be treating the earning of others as classified information away from your and my prying eyes will encourage us to stay longer and spend more time in here. When you get to see so little others can manage to earn in Mylot is not actually a good thing for the website's owner traffic, i think that might be the main reason.
@Suebee (2013)
• Canada
2 Jul 12
I agree that SOME readers might be incapable of reaing more in depth and academic material but I see some seemingly intelligent people reading and following celebrities as well. You're right, it is difficult to understand how the minds of others work (not only the minds of fools either).
@allyoftherain (7208)
• United States
2 Jul 12
I think there's a bit of a voyeurism element to it, there are some people who just like to be nosy and know what everyone is up to. They follow celebrities because their lives are the ones most out in the open. I guess there are people who idolize certain celebrities and want to do whatever they're doing. Then there are people who I think just want to be critical of celebrities and question their every move and stick them under a microscope and try to imagine what they're thinking.
I don't follow celebrities either... I honestly could care less! But I know there are just natural gossips in the world who want to talk about other people, follow other people, or be critical of other people, and so they choose celebrities.
@allyoftherain (7208)
• United States
3 Jul 12
Bang on? Never heard that phrase before, but I'll take it. I think people who have a need to be critical are like the bullies on the playground, they have a need to be mean. They feel a need to deal out harsh judgements on others. My therapist says it's probably because they unconsciously hate people.
@seriousnuts (508)
• Philippines
16 Jul 12
I feel so left out whenever I hear my friends talk about celebrities. I don't watch celebrity news nor read magazines that's why I'm not that updated. Others find every little bit of their lives to be intriguing. Perhaps they just want to have something to talk about? When people talk about the celebrities, it's the same as gossiping about their next door neighbor.
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
4 Jul 12
I don't get it either, I find nothing entertaining about it at all and I don't even want to her the name kardasian, those people certainly know how to make money that is for sure.
@patgalca (18398)
• Orangeville, Ontario
2 Jul 12
I used to buy STAR magazine but don't anymore. Everything is at my fingertips with the computer. I am not sure what the appeal is, though I just fell in love with Prince William and Catherine, especially because they made their first trip abroad to Canada. I so wanted to be her. I still like to know what's going on, with all the royals really. And there are some celebrities I like to know about. I think the real reason is because I can see that these people are just normal human beings like everyone else.
Hey, I liked Tom Cruise back in the day. He lost me when he broke up his marriage to Nicole Kidman for Penelope Cruz. When a celeb does something I don't like, then I am turned off. So I would rather know who they are than to worship the image and not be blinded as to the human beings that they really are.
@sid556 (30959)
• United States
4 Jul 12
Hi Suebee,
I almost kind of can understand it. I have read autobiographys on people that are famous and I find them very interesting. I read Valerie Bertinelli's autobigoraphy and I found it fascinating having been a fan of her shows and movies as well as her ex-husband Eddie vanhalen. I am currently reading Steven Tyler's biography that was given to me by my grandson. I've been a fan off and on of his music since he first hit it big. I live in the area he grew up and he has a strong resemblence to a long lost cousin of mine who ironicly grew up in Sunapee and wanted to be a rock star. My brother and cousin have spent a lot of time trying to prove that he is in fact our cousin. ...I honestly could care less. Still, I find him very interesting. I don't watch ET on tv and I do not follow the Papparazzi magazines etc. It's not an obession with me at all.
@Suebee (2013)
• Canada
4 Jul 12
I can actually understand reading an autobiography as they are somehow different than the trashy things that get published in the magazines. Autobiographies and biographies contain interesting things about that person, their rise to stardom etc. Although I haven't read any biographies myself, I think they're not quite the same.
@blue65packer (11826)
• United States
4 Jul 12
I think people like to follow celebrites because they wish their lives where like that! I also think some people do it because they have nothing better to do!I don't do it alot but I love hearing bad news of certain celebrites I hate,like Tom Cruise! I do form time to time follow the Britsh Royals. I have since Prince Charles wed Diana in 1981. They are a fasinating family! A very dysfunctional family but still very interesting!
@purplealabaster (22091)
• United States
12 Jul 12
I think it is because we see and/or hear these people all the time ... in the movies, on television, on the radio, etc. ... so we start to feel like we know them. I think it is like a neighbor or local store clerk you see all the time, and you exchange niceties with them (ask how they are, how their family is doing, etc.) and feel that you know them at least a little. In the case of a celebrity, you can't ask them directly, so you read about them to find these things out.
@Suebee (2013)
• Canada
1 Aug 12
Interesting take purple. Maybe it's because I don't watch TV then that I don't get it. I definitely agree with you in that we become familiar with people like a neighbour or store clerk and tend to take an interest in what's going on with them. You may have just shed some light on this topic for me!
@suni51 (3429)
• India
2 Jul 12
i agree with you about people wasting money and time while reading/watching or following celebs for nothing. Then I think over it and try to reach to a decision about it. there should be some reason, yes there is. This is the desire people always wanted to be as famous and rich. Since they could not become like them, they read and visualize to be like them by reading, following and watching. Cheers. A little money spent is the cost of it.
@911Ricki (13588)
• Canada
4 Jul 12
I personally don't know as I find is useless and annoying. I was listening to the radio this morning well I leave it on for Marco at night. For an hour they talked about Brad Pitt and his life, divorced, and crap. I was too lazy to get up and change the channel but it was getting pretty irritating.
@Suebee (2013)
• Canada
4 Jul 12
Yes, but some people must like it as there is a whole, big, money-making market out there for it. If people wouldn't listen to it and drink it all in then maybe it would go away.
I bet that if the people who spend their time following celebrities put as much energy into living their own lives they would find their own lives much more interesting than the carrying on of celebrities.
@PageTurner (2825)
• United States
2 Jul 12
Hello Suebee
I've never understood this mentality either. It seems like such a waste. All the more, I don't understand when people are treated as heroes just for making lots of money (and if they are actors, just for being effective liars.)
I'll never understand it.
Peace
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
2 Jul 12
When I was teenager I sometimes bought those magazines, because I wanted to get the lastest news and the new pictures of my favourite celebrities, but as an adult I find the magazines that only write about celebrities very boring. I don't care who got married, who got divorced or what kind of clothes they wore last time they went to a party. My mother-in-law buys two of those magazines every week and sometimes I flip through the magazines when I visit her, but I would never buy them simply because I don't find them interesting. I don't buy many magazines, but when I buy a magazine I avoid the ones that only write about celebrities.
@Suebee (2013)
• Canada
2 Jul 12
Now that you mention it, I vaguely remember reading those magazines when I was a teen as well. I certainly do not read them now, even if they are sitting there for free. There is one person in my condo building that buys all the magazines and leaves them in the laundry room for others when she is finished with them. I can't even be bothered to pick on up for free and take it with me. Have you ever asked your MIL what the attraction is or what she finds interesting about them?
@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
2 Jul 12
Hi Suebee, I too find it strange that people want to read all that stuff and help them and the magazines make more money.I guess most people are stressed out with the daily life and want to fantasise about the celebrities who they think are leading great lives, but the truth is far from it ...
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
2 Jul 12
I don't buy magazines just for reading those stuffs.
Well, it is true that people likes to read about those stuffs and wasting their money for those magazines..and not just ordinary magazines but costly ones.
@sherrybelle (707)
• United States
2 Jul 12
I don't spend time or money on those kinds of magazines, either.
I think some people try to live vicariously through others. I think some people thrive on gossip but it all seems incredibly shallow to me.
I couldn't imagine being in the "spotlight" like a lot of celebrities because giving up my privacy would be a major sacrifice.
@Suebee (2013)
• Canada
2 Jul 12
I agree with all of your points sherrybelle. I just have no interest in the lives of celebrities or the royals. I just don't understand why we are bombarded with magazines like that wherever we go to shop. It makes no sense at all to me and I was hoping someone could explain the appeal, lol
@ravi770 (248)
• India
2 Jul 12
hello suebee, this is very good subject , why people crazy about celebrities life ... the main difference is money and famous... but every ordinary people should know almost every celebrity stand there from ordinary life.. this is not a magic but its true... and don't underestimate to yourself....