Past is Past

For me, it would depend on the reason why they broke up. If it was the fault of the caller, then maybe the caller have regrets already and feel sorry for what he/she did that's why he/she wanted to get her ex back. But if it was the fault of her ex, then maybe, the caller is really in love with her ex, that she is still willing to accept her ex despite the pain she gained. Either way, even if it's the caller or the ex's fault, if the caller still wants her ex back, it would also depend if the ex wants it too. Because if the ex doesn't want, then it would be a big problem. And if I were the caller, I should start moving on, and enjoy the rest of my life.

I agree with you, I mean why do you break up in the first place if one of you wants to win back relationship. Just move on and be happy. There is a reason for every action and i think being happy is a must for you to search that purpose. Break ups is the reason why we learn and improve our self, so that when the person who is our soul mate came into our life, we`ll be happy together. God wants us to be happy and maybe break up is the reason for us to find someone more deserving than our ex. But i do believe that if both of you are meant to be, then time will come when both of you changed and ready to accept and love each other again. Like what they say, Love is sweeter the second time around or maybe you could replace it by Love is bitter the second time around LOL

I guess the caller is still in love with his EX. We couldn't blame, that's love. But if i were the caller, i will not exert much effort in bringing her back to my life. Instead, I would focus on doing other positive things and let life take it's own course.

Relationships of any kind are tough. Matters of the heart are the worst! I do agree that if he/she is an ex than something, somewhere went wrong. This is where it gets tricky. Depending on the length of the relationship, the seriousness of the relationship, etc. It may be worth trying again. Where this topic is concerned there really isnt a single right answer. Exactly why they say "love hurts". Happy MyLotting:-) dl

We really can't blame the caller if that's how he feels toward his ex-girlfriend. He must love her so much that he wants her back. I am not any position to tell it's not right because I don't even know what is the reason for their break up. For me, if you are meant to be, you will find each other even years after or miles apart. Everybody deserves a second chance but if his ex don't want him back then he should respect that and let time heal all wounds.

I could but only if the ex wants me to. What's the point in wanting my ex back if he doesn't want to get back with me. And it depends on how we broke up. If a third party is involve i don't think i could ever forget that if he cheated on me. But if it was because of our distance from each other that made us too frustrated we decided to break up, i could patch things up with him and would want him back if the feeling is mutual.