I Lost It...

Valdosta, Georgia
July 5, 2012 4:58pm CST
When I was in High School I started to write a book. I had over 1,000 hand written pages. I loved my book and spent so much time on it. I worked my butt off on that book. I moved and I thought I grabbed my book with me but when I searched for hours I could not find it anywhere in the new house. I lost my book. I was so heart broken and when I think about it at times it still upsets me. Have you ever lost something that meant a lot to you?
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• United States
5 Jul 12
Well darn. Guess you'll have to write it again! lol No, I know what it's like to lose a bunch of work like that. I worked on novels all through my childhood and I had a bunch of them on my old PC. That computer was the devil. It acted up a bunch, but one day it just up and CRASHED. The hard drive was completely gone, and nothing could be done to save anything on it. I lost SO MUCH writing! But it doesn't bother me much anymore because I've moved on to writing other things. And these days I back up my work to like ten different places.
• United States
6 Jul 12
Well, it could be not as good now... or completely non-existent. Anyway, it was probably good practice for you in any case and if you move on and write more than I believe you'll write better. I don't find pain very inspiring, it halts my line of work altogether. That's strange to me, I don't think it's really that healthy to be in sadness and stress to find inspiration. I think it's a good thing that things are going better for you not that you're out of high school.
• Valdosta, Georgia
6 Jul 12
It wasn't the right word I used I don't think. Lol. Not really inspiring but I wrote so much about the pain I experienced, that was mostly what I wrote about. The pain and sadness. So I don't really know how to write or what to write without the pain in my life. It's hard to explain I guess. But for so many years that is all I wrote about so now I guess I need to find a different subject to write about.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
5 Jul 12
Ha! I wish I could but it was so good the first time and since it was about High School and I was in that environment it made my story so much better. I don't think it would be as good now. =( It is terrible losing all of the work you put so much effort in. I do not blame you at all for backing it up over and over again. I have not wrote in a long time because I find pain more inspiring for me than happy moments, high school days came with a lot of sadness so things just came to me. Not so much anymore...
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@ElicBxn (63643)
• United States
6 Jul 12
I lost a couple of short stories, but they were lousy so I guess I'm just as glad - NOW...
@ElicBxn (63643)
• United States
6 Jul 12
allow me to add that this was when I was in middle school and there was NO such thing as computers for hardly anyone back in the dark ages...
@ElicBxn (63643)
• United States
7 Jul 12
I thought they were great - at the time - but I'm 45 years older now - give or take a few years.
• Valdosta, Georgia
6 Jul 12
I'm sorry. Even though you thought they were lousy it would be nice to look back now and be able to read them. Yeah, I was in High School and there were not any computers in the school I went to so I did everything by hand. It kills me that I lost that book.
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• United States
6 Jul 12
:( That's not cool... With all the time you put into the book that is sad. I have lost a few of my favorite shirts before but I can at least go to the store and replace it by buying another one
• Valdosta, Georgia
6 Jul 12
No it wasn't cool. =( I did put a TON of work into that book. Lol, shirts are replacable but still if you liked it then it has effect on you. I have lost some of my favorite clothes before and it bothered the heck out of me!
@choybel (5042)
• Philippines
5 Jul 12
I know how it feels to lose something so important and valuable, especially one that you have really put a lot of your effort and time into. I felt frustrated when I once lost my hard-earned cellphones,and it still remembering it still aches me. We learn some lessons from our mistakes which makes us grow stronger, and hopefully makes us better person. I am so sorry to hear of this. Maybe you could start writing another book, and this time maybe it will be something far better. Good luck on your endeavors.
@choybel (5042)
• Philippines
6 Jul 12
Well, maybe you could start a few pages a day and when you feel that you are on the roll, that would probably be the day you could do more. I do understand your point though, about choosing to spend more time writing and earning here. But, if you could spare maybe an hour for your book then I think that would also be cool. If you do get to start on that book, good luck!
• Valdosta, Georgia
9 Jul 12
Yeah maybe I will try it again. It seems so difficult now but maybe I still have it in me...
• Valdosta, Georgia
6 Jul 12
It is so horrible losing anything valuable to us. =( Yes we just have to learn from our mistakes and move on but sometimes that is so difficult! When I think about all the work I put into that book it absolutely breaks my heart. I wish I could find the time to write another book. I would rather be here to make money for my family, no time to write. =(
• United States
6 Jul 12
Manuscripts can (and should) be re-written. I wrote thousands of pages of stories in high school, and I threw out many of them. You wrote the story once, you can always re-write it. Since you have had more life experience, the new version will likely be a lot better than the original.
• Valdosta, Georgia
6 Jul 12
Yes but when I first wrote it I was in that environment so it was much easier to write it back then. The setting was about high school. Now I am way past that stage so who knows if I could do it again or even better than when I was living it??? Now with 3 kids, a husband and a dog not so easy to find the time to write my book over again. Any extra time I do have I am here to try to earn some money to better take care of my family, any extra money helps!
@dansazz (1058)
• United States
5 Jul 12
Why did you write it by hand? why not the computer, easier storage. I lost my entire writing portfolio, with lots and lots of stories, ideas, poems, tons of stuff. I also lost my sketchbook, that had all my best drawings in it, and the most important thing I lost was a photo album with pictures of my son in it. I can always rewrite versions of the stories i lost, and redraw pictures I drew, but I can't get most those pictures back.
• United States
5 Jul 12
Well I lost novels when my computer hard drive crashed, so I don't think computers are entirely better.
• Valdosta, Georgia
5 Jul 12
Well, like I said I wrote it in school whenever I had a break or study hall so there was no computer available. Plus, like ally said hard drives crash and everything is lost too so either way it was a possibility that it would have been gone... I have lost pictures too that I had in storage. =( That is very painful.
@AmbiePam (94064)
• United States
6 Jul 12
Not really lost. My careless sister threw it away.
• Valdosta, Georgia
6 Jul 12
That is terrible, I'm sorry Ambiepam. =(
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
5 Jul 12
Yes...I have a ring..it was my father's wedding ring. It was in the same place for years and one day I went to look for it to give to my son and it was missing...I have never found it back....so sad.
• Valdosta, Georgia
5 Jul 12
Oh that is terrible to lose a sentimental ring from your father. =( That must have been a really tough thing to lose.
@matersfish (6306)
• United States
6 Jul 12
Yeah, it's one of those don't-know-what-you-got-'til-it's-gone things. But if you're anything like me or the other writers I know, you wouldn't have liked that book too much had you kept it! lol You'd be wanting to rip it up, using the original as a draft and deciding to rewrite it. So it might be a blessing! Since I work 8 to 10 hours a day writing, I usually don't have time for a full-on novel, but I do write songs and short stories and blog articles for a hobby. Well, my PC crashed one day about two years ago, and in a panic I just said "PLUCK IT" and threw in the Windows 7 CD to reinstall, not realizing I had deleted over 100 Word files of work -- including a song I wrote that I was very proud of. Long story short, I remembered the chorus to this song, by and large, and just rewrote it (yeah, I realize a song is a lot easier to rewrite than 1,000 pages lol). I entered it into a contest and ended up winning! I highly doubt the original would have done well at all. So it was a blessing. It's like in a week when I read this post again. I'll notice typos or structural errors or things I want to change or add. But it'll be too late. So maybe, just maybe, you can turn this in your favor. You can start writing (save it off-site via a USB flash drive -- that's what I do now) and end up with a final product that's much better. If I can do it and win a contest, you can do it and make the Times' list or something!
• Valdosta, Georgia
6 Jul 12
Your absolutely right. At the time it did upset me but not like it upsets me now when I think about it. I put so much hard work into it. Even if I never got it published, it would be nice to read it again for myself. I ripped those pages up a lot of times and did it over again. It was getting pretty good! Lol. Now I might not have liked it as much because I am older and more mature but I finally liked it then... I am so glad you remembered the chorus and made it even better and then won a contest for it! That is excellent. =) It was a blessing in disguise. I might just start working on the book over again. Your definitely tempting me to do it. Lol. Thank you matersfish!
@inertia4 (27960)
• United States
18 Jul 12
I have lost something also years ago. Nothing like a book that I wrote. Maybe there is a way for you to go back to the old house and look there. It might be worth a shot. My thing was, well let me start this way. I had bought a Lincoln MarkVI back in 1983. That was my favorite car of all time, it still is and wish I still had it. But anyway, before I had bought the car, I had the brochure for that car. I had it in my mothers house in one of her hutch drawers. It sat there for many years. One day when I took the apartment upstairs, I looked all over the entire house and could not find that brochure. I asked my mother where it went and she told me that she cleaned out the drawers not long ago and thew it away. I was angry for a while over that. To this day I still wish I had that brochure. It was special to me.
6 Jul 12
Yeah I once lost a watch that my mum and dad got me.. was so sad. Although the more I think about it I am nearly convinced that an ex friend stole it from my house.
• Valdosta, Georgia
6 Jul 12
That is sad too. =( Especially when it was a gift from special people. Oh, that is even worse to have it stolen from you. That is such a back stabbing thing to do!
@911Ricki (13588)
• Canada
6 Jul 12
Sometimes I think I lost something meanwhile I put it in a safe spot and forget. Could you call your old place and ask them?. I know I usually set my important items in a spot, and forget where I put it, rip the place apart, and found it. I remember when I moved back from college, I had left some clothes, notes in my room the landlord mailed them to me which was really nice but they werent that important. I do hope you find it, its a lot of memories for you.
• Valdosta, Georgia
6 Jul 12
I wish I did that with my book but I didn't. It was so many years ago, I graduated in 2002 and I wrote this book in 9th grade. I know they would not have it. I wish I thought of that years ago! =( I wished for many years that it would come back to me but it never did...
• Philippines
6 Jul 12
Awww, I could almost feel you. I'm sorry for your loss. The same thing almost happened to me once, because I happened to move to and fro from our home province and in to the city. I thought I lost one of the drafts of one story I was revising. Fortunately, I have only misplaced it and I have found it later on. It was relieving, although I must say that I had cursed the hell out of anything when I initially thought that I lost it. Though this had almost happened to me, I couldn't still imagine how could I go when I would actually experience it. It's quite unthinkable for me.
• Valdosta, Georgia
6 Jul 12
Thank you. I definitely miss my book. I am glad you found your work though, I know how it feels to lose your hard work and it is terrible. I bet you did curse at everything! Lol. It is very tough, it really made me sad.
6 Jul 12
I also experience this. Seriously it is so heart breaking. My first story that I wrote is written on my PE notebook when I was on High School and now that notebook is nowhere to find. T.T But now I prefer to write on computer and make back ups to prevent losing my works.
• Valdosta, Georgia
6 Jul 12
It is heart breaking. You put so much time and effort into something, its sad once it is gone. =( Yeah, back then we did not have computers in my school yet so all I had was my notebook...