You hurt me a lot, but I hate my self for not hating you!

You feel that way coz you still love her. Don't expect that your love for her will vanished overtime, it needs time and you have to help yourself too. Be kind to yourself, don't let yourself be completely broken into pieces. After your relationship is over, the only left is yourself and the memories. Why would you waste your time thinking a person who doesn't care about your feelings anyway? My point is learn to forget her. Make yourself busy and avoid thinking about your life with her before.

The heart wants what the heart wants it is hard to try to tell it otherwise! I had an ex that would always put me down by saying I am hanging out with too many guys and I am a cheater (which I wasn't) but it hurt all the things he said. But I loved him and put up with the verbal abuse for 2 years. I even left him once after a year and went right back to him. Glad I did leave him for good. My hubby is the best man for me

I am a church going woman and it would not be part of my nature to hate anyone. I would say you need to forgive them and move on with your life. It would be the best thing you could do for yourself as well. not only fr them either.

hi. Yeah, there are really times like that and we're in the same boat. I hate my hubby for cheating and doing things that hurts me over and over again but I can't just let go. Maybe, the difference we have is, I have my daughter to think of that's why it isn't easy to let go. But for you, if you're not yet committed to that person, better call it off. You will only be hurt for the rest of your life by loving her. It isn't easy but time heals all wounds. Just take it one day at a time. Never hurry.

I also experienced such dumb love too, that is how I called it. I hate myself not to hate her when I knew that she wasn't in love with me at all. I was blind by this so called "love", and lost all my logical reasoning all at once. I just want to slap my own face thousands, and how could I so dumb not to see it myself.