Do you feel you have become more responsible after your marriage?
By padu19
@padu19 (1441)
India
July 5, 2012 10:43pm CST
Hi,
I have been repeating this in almost all my discussions, that 'I got married just a month ago!'. I know this person for quite some time. However, till a few months before our marriage, we used to fight very badly. I used to stop responding to him whenever I became angry and the worst part was that I used to become frustrated very often!!! I used to do nothing at home, even for myself.
My mom used to clean my dishes, wash my clothes and she would even feed me if I was hurrying for my office. She used to cook food for me, that too after getting a confirmation from me if I would like to have it.
Now that we have got married, and after marriage, from day 1 of our marriage I have been doing everything for myslf. Infact it didn't stop with that. I had to do it for my husband too! I just happened to ask him 'You liked me more before or after marriage?' He said 'Of course, lot more after we got married!'.
He likes me being responsible and helping out his mom in the daily chores. I feel I have really become more responsible. Have you ever felt so?!!
My mom used to clean my dishes, wash my clothes and she would even feed me if I was hurrying for my office. She used to cook food for me, that too after getting a confirmation from me if I would like to have it.
Now that we have got married, and after marriage, from day 1 of our marriage I have been doing everything for myslf. Infact it didn't stop with that. I had to do it for my husband too! I just happened to ask him 'You liked me more before or after marriage?' He said 'Of course, lot more after we got married!'. He likes me being responsible and helping out his mom in the daily chores. I feel I have really become more responsible. Have you ever felt so?!!3 responses
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
6 Jul 12
Yes I became more responsible after our marriage but my husband also is very responsible. Before we got married both of us agreed that were going to do all the household chores together to prevent from any arguments regarding to this matter. He do the laundry and washing the dishes while me I do the cooking and cleaning the house. I admit that most of the time I am the one doing all the works inside our home but he made sure to help me during his free time.
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@med889 (5941)
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6 Jul 12
My sisters often narrate to me their marital lives and the changes. One is married for 12 years and she depicts marriage as a sacred act however also says the truth about it. She says as far as one does good things for the other like washing the clothes, feedig the children, cooking goood food, and helping in the chores the person is very nice but if ever the one stops doing all these or take some time out to spend then the partner can say,"Oh you were more responsible before and anymore"
I see marriage as the greatest commitment we can do.
We have to be mature enough, responsible already to embark this new journey.
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@asdomencil (4265)
• Philippines
6 Jul 12
I think yes I do. As men, there are lot of responsibilities to take. You need to be a good provider for your family. However, I admit that there are still times that I act the same way or became irresponsible.
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