Do you miss it too?
By Jennifer
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
Valdosta, Georgia
July 6, 2012 3:38pm CST
I was born and raised in one state, I loved it there it was home. Once I graduated school my family moved to where we live now. I love it here now and this is where I call home now but I still miss NY so much! You know, like the first things I ever did were there, my favorites places to eat, favorite places to hang out, etc...
I could never afford to move back there but I think about all of my memories there a lot. I have created plenty of memories here too that I love but I miss it of course.
Have you moved and miss the place you once called home? Would you move back there if you had the chance?
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
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6 Jul 12
I grew up just outside Oxford in England. Now I live about 90 miles south of there. Unlike the US we regard a 90 mile journey as quite an undertaking, partly because we pay around $8 a gallon for gas, and so I tend to only go up there about once every 2/3 months. I now live in a beautiful medieval city where we have been having moved from London in 1992. I love it here and cannot envisage moving away. A couple of years ago I studied at Oxford University and had to travel up there very week. I realised that I do miss the city but cannot envisage ever moving back. However, if I had to I'd do so without too much concern. I'd miss the proximity to the sea most though. Here we are just a 30 minute drive from the beach.
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@PageTurner (2825)
• United States
6 Jul 12
That's a hefty sum for the gasoline, p1kef1sh!
Where we live now, we typically drive 110 miles if we need to make any significant purchase (such as milk, bread, etc.)
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@PageTurner (2825)
• United States
6 Jul 12
Hello LovingMyBabies
Mrs. Turner and I recently moved over 1,600 miles from the State (Georgia) that we both called home for most of our lives. While we enjoy living in our new place, we both find that we miss our home State, especially the trees and the coast. We both spent much of our lives on the coast, and we miss the smell of the marsh and the sea breezes. Likewise we miss the wonderful trees.
Interestingly enough, in our new State of Minnesota, we find that when we drive at night our minds trick us into thinking that the prairies and the farms on the prairies are actually the lights of the shrimpboats out to sea. That's what we were used to for so many years, so that is what we see.
If we could return to Georgia, I think that we would.
Peace
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
6 Jul 12
Yeah there are certain things that are just not the same in a new place. You eventually grow to love it or most people do I think but you will always miss the place you originally called home.
I was used to living very close to the water about 10 minutes away. Now we live 2.5 hours from the beach. It is weird not being able to go to the water when I want to. Not like before. I did a lot of writing when I lived so close to the beach, it was so inspiring being there.
Yeah, our minds often trick us like that. =( If I could afford it in NY I would probably move back there too.
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@PageTurner (2825)
• United States
6 Jul 12
I understand what you mean about being so close to the water. We were about a 2 minute walk from the water and a 15 minute drive from the beach. We went often. Weekly.
Now, we are literally 1,500 miles from either the Atlantic or the Pacific Oceans. I hadn't thought I would miss it like I do.
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@choybel (5042)
• Philippines
6 Jul 12
I have been in an exclusive boarding school for three years during my high school life and the it turned coed but still with boarding students. I was asked if I wanted to stay and worked for the school while if college so I took the job, and stayed there for two more years. The school became my new home. I think I have more memories in that school than in any other place I've been to, including my own house. I do miss it every now and then, but I'm happy with where I am now.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
7 Jul 12
I bet that school does feel like home to you after being there so long.
That is how I feel about my Hometown, I have so many memories there. I miss it a lot. That is good that your happy where you are now though. =)
@mentalward (14690)
• United States
6 Jul 12
Yep! I was born and raised in Baltimore, Maryland. I now live in Winchester, Virginia, only about 110 miles away but it seems like a different country. Baltimore is cold, people are basically selfish, it's dirty, noisy, crowded but I loved it there. Well, I didn't love the crime which is one reason I moved but there are so many things I still miss about it, my friends among them. Steamed crabs! Maryland is known for it's Old Bay Seasoned steamed blue crabs. (They're in season right now and I sure could go for some!)
Now, would I move back there? Well, maybe not to Baltimore because of the crime rate but maybe outside of Baltimore. One thing I do not miss, though, are the prices of things in Maryland. It's a pretty expensive state to live in, especially compared to Virginia. I love the slower pace in Virginia, the "southern hospitality" that's not found in Maryland, at least not much.
I think I'm more likely to just visit Baltimore more often so I don't miss it so much and live here where I can get away from the crime, the crowds, the high prices, all that.
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
7 Jul 12
Yeah NY people are the same way, rude and loud plus selfish too. Lol. But people are in NC are not much better to be honest. Probably because their are so many military families so people are from all over in this area, not just here. There is no Southern Hospitality here, unfortunately.
I miss bagels, canoli's and pizza from NY! No one makes any of these things the same here as in NY. There is no comparison.
Yeah I miss NY a lot and I would move back if I thought for one second that we could afford it there. But I know we can't so I wouldn't bother trying.
Yeah when we have more money we will visit too...
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
6 Jul 12
I moved here in the city last 2003, I was fresh graduate from college then, at first I really hard for me to stay here but my sister accompany me and guide me most of the time until I got comfortable. Now this city is my home and my life because my husband and work are here. There are times that I miss my hometown because lots of happy and sad memories who build me to make a strong person. Also my family and friends are living in my hometown it would be great if I can see them more often but I think even I had a chance to live in my hometown I will rather to stay here. My place now is my new home and really makes me happy, it hard to live in my hometown nowaday because of lack of job opportunities and entertainment.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
6 Jul 12
Yeah it was hard for me too at first but I had my sister here and my parents which made it a little easier...
Yeah the place we once called home had so many different memories. I miss it. Most of my family are there too. Which is another reason I miss it so much.
I am happy here too but if I could afford to live back in my hometown I think I would move back. I do love it here but there are certain things this place does not offer like back home did.
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
7 Jul 12
Yeah, I am sure it was very different. I would enjoy being back in the area I knew best.
@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
6 Jul 12
I was born and raised in New Orleans. I have lived other places, but I'm still tied to New Orleans. We could easily afford to move back - probably would be better for us than living other places. However, next year my husband wants to go to school in Florida (which is sort of okay because we have friends there) but I'm worried about money.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
7 Jul 12
Yeah I feel a connection of some sort to NY, I think I always will. I wish I could move back but I definitely cannot afford it there.
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
7 Jul 12
I moved from PA to VA! I was 8. I went from living in a house to an apartment. I went from private to public school. I really thought I was being punished. But now I have been here 3/4 of my life! The Only thing I miss is a decent Cheesesteak! But I found one ! Philadelphia Cheesesteak Factory!So when people ask I say I'm from VA But I was born in PA.
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
11 Jul 12
Maybe that is why it was easy for me to accept VA. My life was and is good here.I hope you get to go back to NY even just for a visit one day.
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
11 Jul 12
Yeah when we moved from NY to NC I thought I was being punished too. Lol. I still miss so much about it but I am okay with being here now. It's not the same but my life has also been a lot tougher here, which could be why I have a hard time letting go of NY...
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
6 Jul 12
hi loving mybabies yes if we had the money t o rent a two
bedroom apartment again in tustin just 10 miles from here I
would jump for joy. Not my home town in cold so uthe Dakota
but the pretty and homey city of T ustin Calif where my son and i liv ed for years and where we moved to fromn Tempe arizona. but because the rents doubled and my son was laid off,we got evicted, made homeless and all the rest, I am now here in this tiresome
retirement center as opposed to living in homeless shelters at my
age.so its okay not just what I really would want.Tustin has it all'pretty homes and yards, shopping center, small town atmosphere and bus service is great hard to move from a place you had considered home.I also cannot afford to live there bu t it sure has it memories too.
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
7 Jul 12
Yeah, I would be happy if I could afford to move back home to NY. NY is so expensive too so I understand. We could never ever afford it, unless we won the lottery which is not likely.
The retirement center is better than the homeless shelters. Or at least better than the ones my husband stayed at, he told me some horror stories so I would never want to be in one. The tent we lived in sounded much better than the shelter.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
7 Jul 12
I moved home just once and that is when I got married but thank God I did not move in a new city but only new home but same city. Of course I had to live a new life being a married person I could not be forever living with my parents even if I wish I could. At first it was hard because I had to manage everything around the house alone with some help of course from my husband who works all day. But this taught me a lot. It gave me the opportunity to learn all things I need to be a good housewife and later a good mother.
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
7 Jul 12
Being on our own sure does make us grow up faster that is for sure. And it does help us to be stronger and a good person at managing different things. I know, I am a wife and a mother to 3 children. A lot of responsibility but so worth it! =)
@celticeagle (168256)
• Boise, Idaho
7 Jul 12
I have lived here all my life but my grandparents house and grounds are still nearby in essence. The house was sold and the 3/4 acre land around it was sold also. They remodeled the house and I was even invited to go look at it when they had finished but I couldn't bring myself to do so. As a child I had made so many memories I certainly didn't want to see what the place had become. No thanks. I will keep my memories and not have them changed.
@celticeagle (168256)
• Boise, Idaho
16 Jul 12
I'm too much of a sentamental broad stuff like that would kill me. Change is supposed to be good but....?!
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
11 Jul 12
I don't blame you for not wanting to see it. Keep the good memories. I would not want to see it either to be honest.
My husbands grandmothers house where he spent a lot of time when he was a kid was knocked down and commercial buildings are there now and it upset him a lot. Every time he thinks about a good memory there it is followed by what it is now. =(
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@blue65packer (11826)
• United States
7 Jul 12
I have leaved in the same state all my life. I grew up two hours north of where I live now. I grew up on a small diary farm and at 24 I fell in love and moved to a city. The relationship didn't last but I stayed. I really don't want to ever move back to my hometown. I have alot of bad memories there. So I really don't miss it except for my younger brother who still lives there!
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
7 Jul 12
Your lucky that you have always lived in one state. I wish I did. That's great that you found a place you like better and you were able to stay in the city where you want to be.
I hope you get to see your brother often. =)
@fannitia (2167)
• Bulgaria
6 Jul 12
Hi, LovingMyBabies, I understand what you feel. I was born and live in the capital of a small country and there is nowhere to go - people from other towns come here. But years ago I had to work in a small tows far away from here. I knew that it was temporary but I really missed my home place. Maybe one day you would find a way to move back to the place you love? I wish you to succeed and be happy with all your family.
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
7 Jul 12
Yeah it is hard leaving the place you called home for so long. I like where I live now but it is still not the same...
If I could afford to live in my home town I would but I don't have that kind of money. =( Maybe one day I will though, we shall see...
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
7 Jul 12
Hi friend, sad to hear that you are missing your home place, don't worry you will get a chance to go there in the near soon, my wishes for it. Luckily i am in the same place of my birth and i never missed it in my life
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
7 Jul 12
Thanks, yeah I do miss it. Sometimes more than other times. I hope one day I can at least visit if I cannot move back. It is a lot of money to live there. You are so lucky your in the place you call home...
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
7 Jul 12
I havent moved to a different state to stay for ever. But I had to stay away for a few years professionally.
Otherwise, We have been in the same city but I have been shifting across different areas and each time I have relocated, I have missed my first place. I grew up in that locality, and spend 23 years of my life there. Each time, today, when I relocate to another area/locality, I wish I had the funds, and that locality had a place to accomodate me. Almost every face in that locality was known and I am sure, even today, it will have many familiar faces for me
@inertia4 (27960)
• United States
20 Jul 12
I'm still here in NYC. I still love it here. Although there are times when I think I want to leave. There really is no place like New York. I was born and raised here in Brooklyn New York. And all the places I have been, there is no place like this anywhere. Maybe one day you will get the chance to come back home. You never know.