abandoment

You can make charges right now. because i have seen moms let it alone for along time and then cannot get back alot of the money owed to them. go and see a case worker and ask him/her what you should do. he has to pay for they are his kids and they need all that they can to be healthy. let him know that if he keeps it up, that what your going to do so he does not neglect his responibilits. good luck

Okay to actually answer your question--You don't have to wait any longer. After one month of missed payments, you should file a report. Call immediately and launch a file for the last two months. If your child support is court mandated, they will contact him and let him know he has "x" time to catch up payments (usually before the next payment is due). Your kids deserve better than that. Good luck to you! From another single mom...

now I am wondering is he a bad father? I mean abusive or something, cuz that very hard on your children when you do that. Its a very touchy subject I know but in reality its a hard choice I would think

It depends from state to state. In Michigan if he don't pay within 30 days you can call the friend of the court. It has to be a year before you can get them for abandoment last i knew.

We dont have that here in Australia. They can go for years without child support being paid. I get a payment only once in a while. He physically hasn't even seen the kids by his choice since 1999. You would have to check within your own area

Sorry I still single so I dunno must do what was best, maybe any suggestion in another people

You can charge now.

You can get help of an attorney right now.

yesterday file as soon as possible your children are suffering and make the payments through the state

anytime. If he is not paying, or refusing to pay, then you can file.

Do you have a court order for child support. If so, I would contact the local Child Support Enforcement Division in your area and open a case. The fee is usually nominal or free depending on your state. They can help enforce your court order. Good Luck

Do you have a court order for child support. If so, I would contact the local Child Support Enforcement Division in your area and open a case. The fee is usually nominal or free dependind on your state. They can help enforce your court order.

Start the paper work now. Get a hold of your state DHS Office and have them mail you the paper work for child support. It's best to start now.

You should of done it right after his first missed payment.

better talk to a lwayer or your lawyer for that, am sure they know the best things for you to take. greetings. : )

you should by now.

You should be able to do something about it by now.

I hope by the time you read this that you have already filed. Talk to a lawyer, a case worker or the judge if it is court ordered. And lots of luck.

It all depends what state you live in, do you have a support order? does he have a job? Also your ex does not have to buy your children anything as long as he pays child support... The Courts cannot make him buy clothing or gifts... The only thing the courts can do is order a fair amount for him to pay for the support of the children. Call your local Child Support Office

Speak to him and explain the situation.Also intimate him about the actions you are going to take and if he fails again then go ahead.