does real love really can get a turn?
By saad1122
@saad1122 (100)
Pakistan
July 8, 2012 2:51am CST
hellow friends..i have been commited for 3 years .at the start every thing was like i am the lucky most person of this world to have such a nice trule lover in my life.but suddenly every thing got changes after being a period of 2 years and 6,7 months passed.there was not any problem.i was much sincere than i ever cant b with any one..and she was also.v used to spend whole day talkng each others on cel fone,dating,watching movies but every thing was in limit i was not really thinkng about any thing out of limit..i made every thing for her which se asked..but suddenly met with breakup:((:((dont know y???their was not any fight just i rcieved an sms that dont ever try to txt me again:(and after that i never found that girl.number swicthed off.and every thing belongd to us was finished..does true love can have this turn??
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6 responses
@sanjay91422 (2725)
• India
8 Jul 12
It happens and I will say that not to only you but to many people living out everywhere. I the person who know the real truth is you and another is your lover.
I think a relation is maintained till both of you are happy with it.
Anyone in a mood to turn it down will make it down. It is good for both to move on at that point.
Take it as an experience and try to figure the things which will help in your next one.
@saad1122 (100)
• Pakistan
8 Jul 12
well mr sanay i am agree with some of factors but love is not a game to play:(it hurts feelings and it make you tensed in your life..than you cant do anything in your life well..but you are right on that facotr that i must learn some lesson from this and for the next i have to b more active and clever
@karstine29 (694)
• Philippines
8 Jul 12
Oh that's so sad to hear. Hmm.. I have also experienced this way back then. But the situation was we're only so close to each other. One day, I just shut all the connections to him. I deleted his number on my phone. I often visit my facebook too. Just to keep that guy out of my life. I just don't know the reason. I just realized that he deserves better than me.. and so am I.. I just realized how stupid am I to continue our pseudorelationship. Hmm.. maybe that ex-girlfriend of yours feel the same way as I..
@saad1122 (100)
• Pakistan
8 Jul 12
well karstine i think that first of all you you dont need to build a relation if you think that you can not carry or any thing like breAKup..realizing after having the relationship is not good..i think its really not fair to leave a person like this..i still could not forget her.and whenever i think about her i go through high blodd pressure.some times i gone through serious cases aswell so i think that no one should have right to play with some ones feeling
@karstine29 (694)
• Philippines
10 Jul 12
Hi there saad.. don't be sad.. 
I know it is not really right to play with someone's feeling most especially if it's TRUE. but I don't know if that someone of mine has REAL feelings for me.. I know I am bad.. I'll not deny it. But I think I'll be the worse person he'll know if I'll still continue to pretend that that guy is really special to me. That I am happy with our relationship.. when actually its the irony to my real feelings. I know one day, all these things will come back to me.. and I am ready for that. Of course, I believe in karma. But I have just made that decision. However, I've prayed for that guy that he'll meet someone that he'll surely love and that he'll be loved in return. And fortunately, he did found another. I knew this because my classmate in high school told me that he's in a relationship. But, know what?? I did feel sad about it. But I didn't regret what I have done. Because he's happier now. And so am I even though I stayed single ever since then. I realized that there are a lot of things that I should think of. TRUE LOVE waits.. so I'll be patient waiting for my right guy at the right time.
I actually admired you saad for showing how you really treasure that girl. Anyway, if there is still a chance to settle the problem you both have, grab that opportunity. And show to her how much she means to you. But if she's not anymore interested, let it be. There are still a lot of girls out there. Maybe this is God's way of telling you that there is still someone better coming for you. 
Have a great day ahead. 
I know it is not really right to play with someone's feeling most especially if it's TRUE. but I don't know if that someone of mine has REAL feelings for me.. I know I am bad.. I'll not deny it. But I think I'll be the worse person he'll know if I'll still continue to pretend that that guy is really special to me. That I am happy with our relationship.. when actually its the irony to my real feelings. I know one day, all these things will come back to me.. and I am ready for that. Of course, I believe in karma. But I have just made that decision. However, I've prayed for that guy that he'll meet someone that he'll surely love and that he'll be loved in return. And fortunately, he did found another. I knew this because my classmate in high school told me that he's in a relationship. But, know what?? I did feel sad about it. But I didn't regret what I have done. Because he's happier now. And so am I even though I stayed single ever since then. I realized that there are a lot of things that I should think of. TRUE LOVE waits.. so I'll be patient waiting for my right guy at the right time.
I actually admired you saad for showing how you really treasure that girl. Anyway, if there is still a chance to settle the problem you both have, grab that opportunity. And show to her how much she means to you. But if she's not anymore interested, let it be. There are still a lot of girls out there. Maybe this is God's way of telling you that there is still someone better coming for you.
Have a great day ahead. 
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
8 Jul 12
I'm not sure why she acted like that. It sad that she didn't tell you why she wanted things that way. For you to be in a relationship for that long and it to end suddenly that is very sad and would be hard to deal with. Obviously you loved her. But I'm not sure if she loved you or she would have talked to you more about these things before she ended the relationship.
@jobfindonline (1744)
•
8 Jul 12
love is always sweet and full of surprises during the first stages of your relationship but let's accept the fact that it fades IF we let our relationship cool.. it depends on the two lovers if they still love each other, if only one is loving it's impossible to maintain the relationship.
maybe you have to think back what happened between you before she texted you not to text her again. maybe you said or did something that she didn't like or it could be that there is a third party involve.. there are so many possibilities but the only way to know is to communicate with her and once and for all discuss the problems. You deserve to know the reason why she doesn't want to talk to you anymore.
as far as I know true love doesn't seek its own advantage. if she don't want to tell you the reasons then maybe she is not your true love.. forget her and learn to live again, find a better woman who will truly love you.
@TheSupersonic (279)
• Philippines
8 Jul 12
Based on my experience, This things really happens, When both of you was just started dating you are both filled with love, passions, and enjoyment because there is this new person that entered your life but after a year or more the levels of love,passions, and enjoyment decreases and you are now both comfortable with each other, This maybe a good thing or a bad thing because in this stage both of you will take each other for granted (fewer dates, doing repeating stuffs), these challenges every couple I know. The true love here is that you should keep the passion burning even this challenges arrive, unlike you who was left by your girl, maybe she couldn't bare this challenge
