neighbors think I have a lot of money

yeah, i did. becuase there are many thieves in my place I put a guard do in home.

yeah I have but the thing is that my guard dog don't bark to any stranger. when someone enters into our home he will just watch the person. my dog is just so friendly and hospitable. he is so quiet

Good you have a guard...

Maybe you look like living in a better disposition than them that is why they have this perception of you. The next time somebody comes up to you to say that you are rich or to borrow money, you have to explain to them your real state of living so that they may realize this and know exactly.

yeah they said it directly to me. some will come to me to borrow from me. when I told them that i don't have money , they will smile and say that they don't believe me and think that I kept my money.

Hell friends. I don't think its wise to discuss about your ends with your neighbors at least. Even if they think you are rich then let it be like that. Only if any neighbor is close or very friendly to you then he/she himself/herself come to know your financial condition. If you can't afford to lend them money then it is nothing to worry about even if they don't believe you.

So that's it. I think living in a subdivision with this gadget and that kind of dress would make others have an impression that you are indeed a well to do kind of a person. But I guess you consider yourself like that since you were blessed with that material things you have right now. Getting a job would be your next target so that you can maintain the image you have right now. I think there is nothing wrong with that kind of impression they have with you for as long as you can handle it and you are not boastful about it.

yeah i think maybe because I dressed formally and i have a brand new big bike and this kind of bike is seldom you can see in my place and there's only two in my subdivision including mine. but the truth is that the dresses I have and the bike i have and the computer i have are all free. I don't bought it, it was given to me for free.

i think it is. that is what i am thinking. And I am happy now because I have a new job in another place and I really like my job and my cousin is now living in my house.

Then on what basis do they ever think that you have a lot of money.always clear the fake prohibitions and try to behave in the opposite way to them.but being generous is healthy always even if its not your money for sure

great idea. i want to be generous even in small things but i cannot give what i don't have. i have money but it is not mine. My parents are giving me money when i ask but i only ask money if i need it so when my neighbor comes for money I can't lend it to them because i am needing it too.

the truth is i am generous but I can't give because I don't have. therefore in front of them I am not generous because i cannot give what I don't have. and the thing is that I don't spend much because I just ask money from my parents because I don't have a job anymore.

i think it is true. they assume that i have when i don't have. and they can't believe when I told them that i don't have money.

i think you are right. it is better to ignore them.

Just ignore them.

hahaha. maybe. the truth is that i seldom talk to my neighbors and i seldom go out. I am always in front of my computer throughout the day.

i think it is one of it but you know in our country even if you have graduated from a reputable university and has a good degree it will still be very difficult for them to look for a good job. unemployment in my country are very high and the salaries are too low.

Oooh.. I know! Maybe its because of your college degree? Sometimes people have this misconception that some professions earn more than others.

haha. i think that is true. when they believe that you have they will come to you and to lend money from you. and if you cannot give they think that you are not a good friend or a good neighbor.

i believe, it is the gadgets that i have. because many of them doesn't have of the things i have. that is why they think i have more money which i believe.

i think you are correct. because maybe of what i have and how i dressed myself. so they based their opinion of what they see and what they don't.

that's right. and is really great because I have a new job in other place so i am not in my home now. i really enjoy here in mylot even though i only earned few cents a week.

you have a good idea. I think so. many of my neighbors are always gambling. I sometimes when i am in the view deck I watch them gambling in front of our home.

or just they dont have any work and always peep into your house and see what you have..lol

my things are gifts from my friends and my parents and I acquired them when I had a good paying job which I resigned last year. i just have a new big bike and only two of us has this kind of this bike on our subdivision.

yeah most of them said it directly to me when we talk about money. i told them that i don't have money and they think i'm lying. yesterday, one of my neighbor came to me and ask for donation, i told her that i don't have money now if you can wait i can give tomorrow but she can't wait so i was not able to get money from me. and just this morning my neighbor came to my house while i am still sleeping woke me up just to borrow money from me and I told her that i have money but I will use it and I need my money and I can't lend her but she said that she will just return it as soon as possible.

that is a good idea. but the truth is that i seldom go out. i am always at home in front of my computer, mylotting.

i think it is. because i have many things that they don't have and maybe because of envy for what i have.

i think it is. I have that they don't have. maybe that is possible.

i think it is. I am living alone in the house of my parents because my parents have another house in another place and they stayed their so I was left alone. the house where i live in was newly renovated by my parents, new paints and my parents beautified our home where i lived in but the money used in the renovation is not my money it's my parent's money.

maybe it is because the way i dressed and what I have but i don't talk about money with them sometimes I shared my plans to some of my neighbors that I will put up a homebased business by this year.