What is the saddest moment in your life?
By Zhizho
@Zhizho (1350)
Indonesia
July 9, 2012 12:30am CST
There are happy and sad moment take turns to come in every people's life. And it is the natural things as the dynamic of life. But sure we have the happiest or saddest moment. I can't forget when I got news by telphone who told that my dad have to put in Hospital and one hour after that news, I got the unbelieveble news that He passed away. It was happen last nine years but it recorded in my memory. Step by step I try to accept it as a fate of God. Every human will die and I keep pray for the best place for Him at God's side. Would you tell the saddest moment in your life so far? What lesson can you take? Thanks for share.
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@taura2p (349)
• Romania
9 Jul 12
My saddest moment was when I lost my mom. She was such a great person, and I truly admire her still. I often think what she would do in different situations. It's been almost 4 years now, but I still remember everything so accurately. But life goes on, and things happen for a reason. I truly believe that my life would be so much different now, if it didn't happen. Maybe it would be better, who knows? We just have to accept things the way they are and move on. In the end, we have a life of our own to live...
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@ottranscednd (56)
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9 Jul 12
My bestfriend was killed in a hit-and-run in Thailand. It was traumatic but I was able to get over this after 4 years. may she rests in peace. She'll have to wait for me in the grave. Then we'll wait for the sound of the trumpet that will signal Jesus' coming..
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@Zhizho (1350)
• Indonesia
26 Jul 12
O my God. sure, it was hard to accept the reality. I understand that you need along time to get over. Wish God will give him/her the better place. Keep struggle and you still show your love for your friend by pray for him/her and continue the goodness that she/he did as long as she/he live.
@sukumar794 (5040)
• Thiruvananthapuram, India
9 Jul 12
Paucity of funds...lack of sufficiently enough money to meet day to day expenditure..inability to fulfill financial woes --- all these bring in a lot of frustration and thereby extreme sadness.
@Zhizho (1350)
• Indonesia
9 Jul 12
Thanks for share here sukumar. I agree that we sadness if have no enough money but I believe that God has organize about the sustenance of each human even small animals in hole of ant. As long as we could think and work, trying to get the money, wish the money will come. The lesson in life why there is rich and poor people is how to help each other.
@Zhizho (1350)
• Indonesia
26 Jul 12
Sorry to hear that Indah. But I hope you believe that God has plan that and know what the best for your life. the sadness make you strong and struggle to trough the life. You know at Qur'an have said that after difficult will come simplicity. Sorry to suggest you, to see the good side in every those sadness. Life is how you get the meaning of every moment.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
26 Jul 12
Yes. There are many people who say the same thing. I try to think positive, and do all the advice, which has been given to me. But, these days I live, full of sorrow, and I was not given the opportunity, to feel happiness. All of that makes me very discouraged.
@Zhizho (1350)
• Indonesia
26 Jul 12
Sorry Indah. but it sound you has give up on your condition. Maybe yes I did not know what those happened in your life but i don't believethat you have no oppurtunity to feel life so I told you that maybe you can see the goodness at the moment that you think it is sadness.
@ottranscednd (56)
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9 Jul 12
Same her. I lost my father and it was too late for me to tell him how precious he is. Lesson: show your love now not tomorrow or later..
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@Zhizho (1350)
• Indonesia
9 Jul 12
I like read your comment. short but it touched for me that show your love now not tomorrow. LOL. Let our lively people know that we love them. Do not hide it or doubt to tell or express it because we never know when we go and never back again. Thanks for share and comment this topic.
@Daisy_22 (1229)
• Philippines
25 Jul 12
life is full of twist.Now your at the top but you don't know tomorrow you will be at the bottom.Your happy now but then you will be sad tomorrow.You know what sometimes i just wish to be happy always.
The saddest experience i had is when i experience a mysterious illness that leads me to incapacity to walk.I thought that was the end of the world but I guess i still have mission to accomplished that's why i had given another chance of living.No matter is that i'm very happy to enjoy life again.I can now walk.I recover from that illness.
@Zhizho (1350)
• Indonesia
26 Jul 12
Glad to know you have recovery from the illness. You are right, happy and sad always have the place in our life. Both of them are test us. Be patience when the sadness come and grateful when happy. Sadness make you learn how to struggle and happy make you think that other want happy too. Thanks for share daisy.
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
26 Jul 12
Well the saddest moment of my life was on that day when i had forfeited my job as an radio jockey from a leading radio station due to my graduation studies. i still regret the fact why i took that decision of quitting that job. i am not happy at the end of my graduation and now i would be repenting my entire life.
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
9 Jul 12
The saddest moment in my life when I know that my parents did not love each other and they just continuing their relationship as husband and wife because of their children and my father was already with someone which is my own aunt. That was very traumatic experienced that i cant accept the situation. But now I am okay and i learned to be strong with my mom and for the myself.
@Zhizho (1350)
• Indonesia
26 Jul 12
How hard the examination in your life but I respect to you that you can accept the reality. Sometimes, we can not fight something that we would not like but it is life. I can not imagine that it happen to my parent. but now, my dad has passed away and my mom never think to married again. wish we can together at heaven next.
